'Christian Singles' Tagged Posts

'Christian Singles' Tagged Posts

making peace with your past

Making Peace with Your Past: A Christian’s Path Towards Spiritual Healing

Do you have an issue with making peace with your past? Many Christian singles can’t get over the past. Several years back, I went on a Christian singles retreat, where the topic at hand was making peace with my past. Christian single after Christian single shared their sad stories of how a bad past experience, a soured relationship, or a sexual sin had held them back from living victoriously in the present. Although many Christian singles there that weekend desired…
commitment phobia and singles

Commitment Phobia and Singles

Commitment phobia is the fear of commitment. When we speak of commitment phobia among singles, we are referring to folks who avoid commiting to long term relationships such as marriage. People who suffer from committment phobia come in all varieties. Commitment phobes (no, I didn’t make this term up!) can be both male and female, Christian and non-Christian, teens, single parents or seniors. Commitment phobia among singles can occur for several reasons. However, most commitment phobic men and women truly…
Generation Z Singles

Reaching Generation Z Singles for Jesus

As Generation Z Christian singles can tell you, the vast majority of other 20-something singles do not attend church. Paradoxically, Generations Z Singles as they are called today, are also one of the most receptive age groups to evangelize. How can both of these statements about Gen singles be true? The answer is that many Christian churches are simply missing huge opportunities by not communicating the Gospel to 20-something singles in ways that make sense to them. In fact, most…
what is the alpha course

What is the Alpha Course | A Christian Singles Perspective

What is the Alpha Course? For many single Christians, the journey of faith can sometimes feel isolated, with unique challenges and questions that arise from living alone or seeking partnership. Enter the Alpha Course—a transformative program designed to introduce the basics of the Christian faith through a series of talks and discussions. This engaging course provides a refreshing perspective not just for newcomers to Christianity, but also for single believers who wish to deepen their faith and connect with a…
is it a sin to have sex before marriage

Is it a Sin to Have Sex Before Marriage?

Is it a sin to have sex before marriage? Is sex before marriage still a sin if you love each other? These two questions are some of the most asked questions I get at Oasis Singles. Sex sin is a huge issue for Christian singles. Why? The simple answer is that most singles struggle with some form of sex sin, or at least tempted in this particular area. Let’s lay aside masturbation for a moment. The question “Is it a…
christian single dads

Christian Single Dads Dealing with Grief and Loss

Are you many of the Christian single dads dealing with loss? Grief is a universally human experience, a testament to the depths of our love and connection. For Christian single dads, this journey is often marked with unique challenges. Balancing personal heartache with the responsibilities of parenthood, they might feel doubly burdened. However, Christian teachings and faith can provide a wellspring of hope and guidance for such fathers. Let’s explore the distinctive struggles Christian single dads face and how their…
single gals

Single Gals and God’s Grace

As a former mediator in family court, I’ve  seen a lot of single gals come through our doors. Not a few of these single gals are pregnant teen girls in great financial, spiritual and emotional need. This thought about single gals got me thinking about Mary, the blessed mother of Jesus, our Saviour. Think about it. She too was a single gal, a pregnant teenager with some heavy needs of her own. Single Gal Problems First of all, she was…
christian singles events

Christian Singles Events and Conferences : How to Publicize

Does your church, singles site, or ministry have Christian singles events or single Christian conferences you’d like to promote? Did you do a search for “Christian singles events near me?” We’d be happy to publicize your Christian singles event right here because we consider that part of our mission at Christian Dating Service Plus! is to encourage other single Christians to edify and encourage one another by meeting regularly together for fellowship. It’s tough living a Christlike single life in…

Christian Singles Blog

Welcome to the new singles blog side of  Oasis-Church-NJ.com! This is a safe place where Christian singles, pastors or  seeking pagans can share, view, comment and read  “stuff” on a variety of different topics  of concern to Christian singles that many churches need to address, but simply don’t.  Singles are crying out for help! One purpose on this Christian singles site is to listen and pray for them, whether they are sharing about their struggles with masturbation or some other …

Blessed Assurance for Christian Singles

Do you have that blessed assurance that you are in fact a child of God? Fanny Crosby, who happened to be blind, wrote the lyrics of Blessed Assurance, that ageless Christian song that opens like this: ~Blessed assurance, Jesus is mine! O what a foretaste of glory divine! Heir of salvation, purchase of God, born of his Spirit, washed in his blood~ Wow! We can have this kind of blessed assurance simply by trusting God’s word and what it says.…