Christian Singles Articles
This category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types singles articles and life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on single men, single women, single Christian parents, single girls, teens, well, I think you get the point. :)
Christian Singles Resources
No matter if you are a Millennial, Baby Boomer or a Senior Single, hopefully you will find these singles articles useful. There are dozens of articles to choose from including “Learning How to Argue and Fight“, Christian Girls Who Date Bad Guys”, “Fears that Keep Men and Women Single“, “How to Mend a Broken Heart” “Masturbation” and many others.
Need for Singles Ministries
Why yet another singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.
So if you are looking for anything singles-related, this category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to singles of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.
Here you will find all types of articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.
The 3 Types of Christian Single Narcissists: A Candid Exploration
Christian singles often grapple with balancing faith, identity, and emotional well-being. Among them, some wrestle with personality traits that may signal deeper issues—such as narcissism. Narcissistic traits, when mixed with spiritual language and Christian culture, can become particularly confusing, even damaging, in relationships. In this article, we’ll unpack a challenging yet necessary topic: the three types of Christian single narcissists. We’ll dive into their behavioral patterns, how their narcissism uniquely manifests within faith-based contexts, and how to spot them—with the…
How Do I Make My Christian Dating Relationship Last?
I get a lot of emails asking questions like: “How do I make my Christian dating relationship last? When you’re dating in the Christian single scene with marriage as the goal, you’re essentially trying to find someone who’s not just your better half but your better three-quarters. It’s about finding that partner with whom you can not only share your favorite Bible verses but also your Wi-Fi password. So, how do you make a relationship last in such a setting?…
What to Do When Singleness Lasts Longer than You Expected
Singleness can sometimes feel like an unexpected guest that overstays its welcome. You had a timeline in mind: marriage by a certain age, a family, the “happily ever after” neatly aligned with your dreams. But what happens when that timeline doesn’t match God’s plan? If you’re a Christian navigating a longer-than-expected season of singleness, you’re not alone—and there’s profound hope, purpose, and even joy available to you in this season. In this guide, we’ll explore biblical encouragement, practical steps, and…
How to Deal with the Fear of Losing a Dating Relationship
Dating can be one of the most exhilarating and vulnerable experiences in life, especially when you’re dating with purpose as a Christian single. You’re not just looking for fun or a fleeting connection; you’re pursuing God’s design for love, partnership, and maybe even marriage. But with that intentionality often comes a haunting fear: What if I lose this person? What if this doesn’t work out? Whether it’s due to past heartbreak, insecurities, or simply the weight of high hopes, the…
Single Parenting Advice Before Dating
Mixing single parenting responsibilities with a dating relationship is a tricky proposition for most single parents. Christian Single Parents have added stress units. This article discusses practical steps you can take to address this issue. Single Parenting Tips There are several steps Christian single moms and dads can take in order to become what we call “relationship ready” for a healthy dating experience. Here is some practical advice for divorced Christian singles Step 1: Blow Off Steam Successfully reducing stress…
7 Tips for Christian Single Introverts and Extroverts Successfully Dating Each Other
Recently someone wrote to me questioning whether introverts and extroverts can successfully date each other. Whether you’re an introvert who loves quiet nights in or an extrovert who thrives on social gatherings, dating someone with a different personality type can be a fun and rewarding experience. It might seem like a challenge at first, but with a little understanding and compromise, introverts and extroverts can create a beautiful, balanced relationship. Here are seven top tips to help you navigate the…
Love vs. Lust from a Christian Singles Perspective
If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “Is this love, or am I just really, really into that person’s haircut?”—congratulations! You’ve entered the grand ring of Love vs. Lust, a battle fought by many, but understood by few. For Christian singles, the struggle to discern between love and lust can feel like trying to navigate through a fog with only a flashlight. But don’t worry! In this article, we’re going to clear up some of that fog and, hopefully, give you…
How to Survive Financially as a Single Christian
Navigating financial stability as a single Christian can be challenging, especially when you’re striving to uphold biblical values while managing everyday expenses. Balancing faith and finances requires intentional planning, discipline, and reliance on God’s wisdom. Here’s a comprehensive guide filled with practical tips and spiritual insights to help you thrive financially as a single believer. 1. Create a God-Honoring Budget A well-structured budget is essential to track your income, expenses, and savings. As Proverbs 21:5 advises, “The plans of the…
Why Many Christian Singles Are Forsaking Marriage: A Comprehensive Analysis
In recent years, a noticeable shift has emerged within Christian communities: increasing numbers of Christian singles are choosing to forgo marriage. While marriage has traditionally been viewed as a sacred covenant and a key aspect of Christian living, social, cultural, and spiritual dynamics are reshaping this narrative. Understanding the reasons behind this trend requires a deeper look at evolving societal norms, shifting priorities, and individual faith journeys. 1. Changing Cultural Norms and Societal Expectations Delayed Milestones Modern society has shifted…
Embracing Your Identity in Christ as a Christian Single
Do you embrace your identity in Christ as a Christian single? How does your identity in Christ affect you as a Christian Single? When you think about being single, it can sometimes feel like you’re in some kind of waiting room—waiting for that special someone to walk into your life and sweep you off your feet. For Christian singles, that waiting room can feel even more complex. There’s the usual dating landscape, but then there’s also this whole added layer…
How Do You Know When God is Preparing You for Marriage?”
As a Christian single, the journey towards marriage often intertwines with spiritual growth and discernment, seeking to understand God’s will and timing. The question “How do you know when God is preparing you for marriage?” is one that resonates deeply within the hearts of many believers, eager to align their path with divine intentions. In this exploration, we delve into the signs and experiences that may indicate God’s preparation for this significant life transition, guided by Scripture and prayerful reflection.…
Top Ways the Church Can Encourage Single Christian People
The church is called to be a welcoming and nurturing place for all believers, regardless of their life stage. While married couples and families often receive abundant attention in church programming, single Christian people can sometimes feel overlooked. Encouraging and supporting singles is vital for building a strong, inclusive church community. Here are the top ways the church can actively uplift and engage single believers. 1. Create Inclusive Church Culture Churches should promote an environment where all members feel equally…
Dealing with the Negative Influence of Social Media as a Christian Single
Social media has transformed the way we communicate, share our lives, and form relationships. For Christian singles, it can be a powerful tool for connection, but it also presents unique challenges that can impact faith, self-worth, and relationships. The curated perfection of online life, the pressure to conform, and the temptation to compromise Christian values can create a spiritual struggle. If you are a single Christian navigating the digital world, it’s essential to recognize social media’s potential pitfalls and arm…
Christian Dating Advice for Couples Who Argue Regularly
Relationships, even the most God-centered ones, can sometimes be challenging. Arguments and disagreements are part of every relationship but for Christian couples, navigating these conflicts with grace, patience, and biblical wisdom is essential. If you and your partner argue regularly, don’t be discouraged—there are ways to communicate more effectively, grow closer to each other, and strengthen your relationship with Christ. In this article, we’ll explore Christian dating advice for couples who argue often, backed by biblical principles and practical solutions.…
The Rise of Singles in America: Implications for Christian Dating
The landscape of relationships in America has shifted dramatically over the past few decades. Today, 53% of American adults are single, and the number of single-person households has skyrocketed from 7 million in 1960 to 37 million today. These numbers highlight a cultural transformation that affects every aspect of life—including Christian dating. For Christian singles seeking relationships that align with their faith, these demographic shifts present unique challenges and opportunities. In this article, we’ll explore the implications of this rise…
Red Flags in a Christian Dating Relationship
Knowing the top red flags in a Christian dating relationship is important, The problem is that many Christian singles ignore the silent red flags in a relationship and so stay longer than they should have. The top three reasons daters give for overstaying a romantic or dating relationship are as follows: Fear of being alone Fear and/or guilt over what the other person will feel or do Fear of exchanging the familiar for the unknown Let’s face it, dating relationships…