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Single Guy Life Story

I love hearing how single guys and single girls came to Jesus Christ because those stories just ooze realness and power! Today’s Christian singles podcast ia a story about one single guy’s miraculous journey to faith in Jesus Christ. I am intimately acquainted with this single guy’s life story….because it’s my own! This Easter I had the great privilege of sharing how God found a lonely nineteen year-old single guy, and healed him physically, emotionally and spiritually. Don’t get me…

Single Dating-Sermon for Singles

Life as a single Christian can be confusing with all the different single dating and spiritual advice floating around. I mean just do a Google search on “single dating tips” or “singles advice”, and you will find millions of results! A Single Dating Message from the Heart This week our Christian Pod-cast comes from McLane Church in Edinburg, Pennsylvania (PA), with Pastor Brian Kelly speaking on “How to Live a Successful Single Life”, especially in the area of single dating.…

Dating Christians and Their Messed Up Sex Lives

Here’s a fact: Many dating Christians have messed up sex lives. No, I’m not talkin’ bout those dating Christians who are suffering through the agony of waiting until after marriage to unleash their passion. I am referring to dating Christians who do indulge in sex. Dating Christians and Spiritual Unhappiness Although survey after survey shows dating Christians have sex before marriage almost as frequently as your run of the mill unbeliever, many involved in this activity never planned on it…

Singleness and the First Single Guy and Gal

Our church pod-cast of the week has an interesting twist on the subject of the single life, that may change your concept of singleness and dating. Pastor Bill Lloyd of White Stone Fellowship in Stuart, Florida (FL), speaks on singleness, dating, mating, love and marriage, all from the from the perspective of Adam and Eve, the first single guy and gal. Did you ever look at this couple in that way? Singleness Equals Incomplete? Many Christian singles and certain married…

Dating Relationships and Sex for Singles

Our church podcast of the week is all about sex in a dating relationship. People I have to tell you, I’ve listened to a lot of messages on sex and dating relationships, but this is the most blunt talk about sex in dating relationship I’ve ever heard, and by far of the best. If you’re serious about sex and dating, you don’t want to miss this! Dating Relationships and sex for singles Podcast Lon Solomon, pastor of McLean Bible Church…

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The Gospel-Week 2-Victorious Living

Are you living a victorious Christian single life? If you are married, is your marriage all that you wish it could be? Listen in as Pastor David shares the some principles for victorious living in the 21st Century found in the words of Jesus. Christian Singles Home The Gospel – Week 3 – Living With Purpose http://media.blubrry.com/oasischurch/p/christian-dating-service-plus.com/audio1/TheGospelWeek2.mp3Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe Android | Google Podcasts | RSS

No Perfect People Allowed-Week 3-Imperfect Relationships

So are you in an imperfect relationship and not quite sure how to deal with it? Whether dating or married,  it is safe to say that all relationships are somewhat imperfect because we are ALL imperfect. Of course, abusive relationships are obvious, but  but how about relationships that are subtly imperfect? How to Deal With Imperfect Relationships In today’s Church Podcast, Pastor Dave of Oasis-Church-NJ.com handles the question of how to deal with imperfect relationships…whether you are dealing with your…

When God Seems Unfair-Oasis-Church-NJ.com Message Series

Ever feel God is unfair? Maybe you have been observing how all the good people get the short end of the stick while the good people seem to suffer needlessly? Do you ever wonder where God is when this happens? Let’s get a little personal. Maybe YOU are single and looking for that perfect soulmate, but never seem to find him or her? Maybe you are now suffering in a poor relationship after having done all you could to avoid…

How to Survive the End of the World – Week 1

Are you ready for the end of the world? Whether single, married or divorced with kids, the events of the last few weeks in the world can’t help but make us wonder, “What in the world is going on?” Some singles Christians I know only half  kiddingly joked that they don’t want to die before at least  getting married and enjoying  some great sex So what do you think about the end of the world talk going on lately? The…

Valentines Day Sermons for Christian Singles

Valentines Day can be quite depressing for singles because it hammers home the reminder that they are not content being single at this juncture in their lives. That’s why we hope the following Valentines Day sermon on dating and love encourages those of us who will be struggling on the 14th of February. Valentines Day Sermon Podcast Today’s Christian dating church podcast comes from the Journey church in Brooklyn, NY and is entitled: “Dating-I want to Hold Your Hand.” This…

Next Steps Week 3-Connecting with Others

Connecting with others is what life is all about. As the Scripture states in Genesis, “It is not good for man to be alone.” We were made for relationships, vertically with God, and horizontally with each other.  Connecting with singles, married couples, single parents or any other kind of person should not have to be  a difficult endeavor. Connecting with Others Thru Connection Groups In today’s Christian podcast at Oasis-Church-NJ.com, the talk centers around the biblical reasons and emotional benefits…

No Perfect People Allowed-Week 5-Growing Healthy Relationships

Growing healthy relationships with others takes time and intentionality.  Of the thousands of people who visit this site daily, most are here looking for relationship advice, whether it be for their Christian dating relationships, marriage or other platonic relationships. Relationships that are Healthy and Growing In a continuation from last week’s   No Perfect People Allowed Series, Pastor Dave of Oasis-Church-NJ.com discusses  from 1 Cor 12 the remaining ingredients necessary for growing relationships among individuals and the church as a whole.…

No Perfect People Allowed-Week 4-Growing Relationships

What single or married person is not concerned about growing relationships? Last week we learned that it’s all about Loving God and Loving Others. When you think about it, it all comes down learning how to grow in your relationship with the Lord and other people. You can read all the Christian relationship advice out that you want, but most ting fulfilled, joyful singles or married folks are the ones who have learned what it takes to grow a successful…

No Perfect People Allowed-Week 2-Transformed Lives

Many of us, whether single or married,   walk around with the burden of wishing we could take back the past mistakes and bad experiences in our lives. The cool thing with Jesus is that He not only takes us  as we are,  imperfect and all,  but that He transforms us into the people we were meant to be. How to Live Transformed Lives Listen in as Pastor Dave Butler of Oasis-Church-NJ.com  teaches  from Luke 5: 27-32 on how Jesus not…

What The Bible Says Happens When You Die?

Why is our week’s podcast about what happens when we die? Sounds like a bummer, right? Well first of all, many people, whether single or married, young or old, fear death. Secondly, not having a clear understanding of this topic will effect us in how we live out our lives in the present, and in our relationships with others. How to Conquer the Fear of Death? Today Pastor Dave at Oasis-Church-NJ.com, a new contemporary church in New Jersey geared toward…

Honesty In Relationships

This week, pastor Dave speaks on Exodus 20:16 – “Do not give false testimony against your neighbor.”  Pastor Dave takes a thorough look at the meaning of the verse and examines the way God desires us to live.  God hates lying because He is the Source of truth. In fact, Jesus used that very word to describe His character when He testified, “I am the Way and the Truth and the Life.” (John 14:6)  Hebrews 6 goes further to tell us “it…

Finding Hope In A Hopeless Situation

This week’s message is right out of the book of first peter.  Peter wrote this letter to christians who were either going through persecution, or were about to go through rough persecution.  Peter is praising God and encouraging the church by reminding them that they have been born again into a living hope through Christ’s finished work on the cross.  They are now sons and daughters of the Most High God and have been given an inheritance that is imperishable,…

No Perfect People Allowed Series-Week One

No surprise here: According to the Barna Group, 4 out of 10 single adult Americans (singles make up half of the adult population) avoid going to church not because they do not believe in God, but because of negative experiences they have had with church people. In this week’s church podcast, Pastor Dave Butler from Oasis-Church-NJ.com, a new contemporary Christian church in NJ, shares from Luke 18:9-14 on the attitude we should have regarding the unchurched singles and married folks…

How to Wait on God When Life Sucks

Learning how to wait on God is difficult, especially when you are going through a tough time like a relationship loss, a sickness, a jog loss or you fill in the blank. Many Christian single men and single women are waiting on God for their soulmates. Many married couples are waiting on God to bless them with children. The point is, we are all waiting on God for something. Today, in our Christian podcast from Oasis-Church-NJ.com, Alex Brooks, our church…

Christian Relationships – Love As Christ Loves

This week was our second week in the series ‘Man vs Wife’  Pastor Tommy is speaking mainly to the men this week as he examines what God’s word says about how husbands should love their wives with the love of Christ.  Of course, this is only possible with the Holy Spirit! “In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but…

Encouraging Bible Verses For Single Christians

As a Christian single waiting on God to bring my spouse into my life, I often times get frustrated, discouraged and overcome by loneliness.  These feelings start to creep up on me whenever I take my eyes off Jesus and focus upon myself instead.  The transition from Jesus to self happens slowly and subtly so that I don’t notice it until I look back and realize how spiritually dry and desolate I am!  I’ve learned to combat these feelings with my faith…

How To Be Rich – How To Give

This week, pastor Phil speaks about giving.  All throughout scripture, God makes it clear that giving and tithing are important aspects to our faith in Him.  Giving not only empowers the church to do the work of God, but it also causes you to surrender your financial life.  The good news is that God promises to bless us when we give! “Give, and you will receive. Your gift will return to you in full—pressed down, shaken together to make room for more, running over,…

The Love Of God VS The Love Of Money

What you love is what will drive you in life.  If you love money or “stuff” then the pursuit of that will drive you in life.  The end result is that you trade the glory of God for a lie that will not only turn your life and heart bitter, but will lead to your destruction!  This week, Dave encourages us to prayerfully examine where our hearts are so that we can live with the full joy that Christ offers us when we…

Single Christians Who Fully Depend On God

As humans, it is a natural thing to make plans and have dreams.  As  Christian singles waiting on God for a spouse or a relationship we naturally start to build up a mental plan of how we want things to happen instead of being open to God’s plan.  Although there is nothing wrong with planning ahead, we have to remember that God is sovereign over everything including our every day lives.  If we try to resist His plan, the outcome…

Christian Singles Going Through Trials

This week, Tommy spoke on James 1 and how going through trials produces faith and endurance.  Although it can be easy to want to give up when we face troubles, James reminds us that God uses the trials in our lives to cause us to fully rely on Him for everything!  As a single Christian, it is important to trust the LORD during any trial that comes your way believing that He will use the experience to prepare you for…

Single Christians Practical Bible Study: James

Sometimes it can be hard for a single Christian to live out their faith in the Lord Jesus in a practical way.  If you are looking for a spouse via an online dating service such as ChristianCafe or Christian Mingle or just looking for singles at their church, it can be hard to focus on doing God’s work and seeking His will for your life!  The book of james is full of practical advice to help keep you on the right track as…

Christian Singles And Their Church Family

As a single christian waiting for God to bring your future spouse into your life, it can be easy to get distracted from what God is saying to you in the here and now by focusing on finding a relationship.  This can lead to a self centered view of church. A “what can I get out of this” mentality can easily develop.  Some single Christians even leave their church family to find a church with more single people!  This mindset…

Remembering God’s Promises During the Holidays

Not sure why this is the case , but many people get  more depressed during the holidays than any other time. Depression during the holidays can strike both married and singles. In fact, I have written quite a  bit on how to beat the holiday blues. almost all professionals agree that one of the major reasons for depression and discouragement is a  loss of a lack of perspective on who God is. This would include forgetting to  remember the wonderful…

Single Christians Living for Christ

As  a single Christians, living your life for Christ is the single most important thing you can do!  Many Christian singles get it backwards!  They think that they should find a soul mate before they surrender their all to Jesus Christ!  Instead, they should surrender to Him first before hand, trusting His guidance for their lives.  Jesus wants our everything!  God won’t force His way into our lives; we need to yield to His guidance and listen to His voice.…

Central Jersey Church for Divorced Single Parents

Since we realize how difficult it is to be a divorced single parent, we already wrote a number articles about divorced single parents, and how difficult it is. Finding a good church for divorced people, whether with kids or not, is one of the most important things to do is to find a good church that accepts divorced people, and has divorce supopoer groups in place like Celebrate Recovery, divorce care or other similar type divorce self help groups. Central…

Persevering as a Christian

Sometimes life is tough, whether you are married, single with kids, widowed or single and looking for mate. In today’ Christian podcast  at Oasis-Church-NJ.com, leadpastor Dave Butler shares a relevant message from  Hebrews 12: on how  Christian singles  and all others can persevere in this race we call lfe. Oasis Church is a NJ non-denominational church for families and singles of all walks  of life including 20-somethings, 30-somethings, 40-somethings and more. Oasis serves Union, Somerset, Middlesex and Essex Counties including Springfield,…

Praying for a Christian Soul Mate

Do you ever pray to God fr a job, a  Christian soulmate or for any other reason, and feel that he is not answering your prayers? I know one Christian single girl who has waited  to date Mr Right for over 20 years, and feels at this point that God will NEVER answer her. Well, if you feel like her at times, this week’s NJ Church podcast from Oasis-Church-NJ.com will help you. Pastor Dave Butler goes over four principles to remember…

Overcoming Loneliness in Relationships

Many Christians go through periods of loneliness and dryness. Feeling alone in our burdens is common to all of us whether we are married or a single Christian looking for a soulmate. Yet, as single Christians  the pain of loneliness and abandonment seems more prevalent. Overcoming Loneliness Podcast In today’s Christian podcast at Oasis Church, Pastor David Butler discusses the life of Elijah (who by the way was single) and how he overcame the loneliness and lack of  human companionship…

Power for Living for Christian Singles

Christian singles often feel powerless in their lives. Why is this? Some who I meet simply lack confidence. Other Christians find life because they are going “at it” alone. In today’s Christian podcast from Oasis-Church-NJ.com, Pastor Dave Butler discusses how the Holy Spirit can give us power for living life to the full, whether single-never married and looking for a soulmate, married or divorced. Praying for a Christian Soul Mate Christian Dating Home   http://media.blubrry.com/oasischurch/p/christian-dating-service-plus.com/audio1/2-26-12.mp3Podcast: Play in new window |…

Take a Leap of Faith

Are ready to take a leap of faith? In our LEAP series at Oasis, we are teaching how God wants us to take a leap of faith, trusting Him for amazing things in 2012. Now I realize many of the Christian singles and married folks reading this are already soured on 2012, and we’ve reverted into safe mode to ride the year out. Bit without taking a leap of faith, single Christians will never become all the God has created…

Next Steps 2-Gallup Poll on Bible Reading

Did you see the recent Gallup Poll on Bible ? Do know how to read the Bible? A better question would be, “Do you even read the Bible.” According to a recent Gallup Poll on Bible reading, only 10% of professing Christian singles (married Christian couples were a little better, sorry) read their Bibles on a daily basis. However, if you’re like me, do you sometimes read the Bible, but feel like you get nothing out of studying God’s word?…

Christian Single Parent Support

Single parent support is so necessary for Christian single parents. Why? Christian single parenting is one of the hardest jobs around. It’s hard enough being a parent in a household where mom and dad are together. A single parent also has to to balance, work, money worries, school, housing, etc. Forget about single parent dating. Being a single parent multiplies the stress in the whole household. Often times, what occurs is that the single parenting mother or father ends up…