Christian Dating Advice

Christian Dating Advice

christian dating adviceEven in the age of COVID-19, online Christian dating advice is all over the internet, some of it good, some bad. Here you will find Christian singles advice and tips on a wide range of topics: Some of these subjects include: How to Break Up the Right Way Signs of a Good Christian Dating Relationship,  to  How to Know You are Dating an Abuser, and many more.  Check out the full list of  advice articles below. We consider Oasis singles a  holistic ministry for Christian singles, and not just one of those “run of mill” matchmaking advice sites that have tons of affiliate links just to make money. That is why you will find all kinds of singles advice here, geared toward your specific needs.

Christian Dating Advice WArning

Reader beware! There are a ton of so called Christian advice sites out there that are Christian in name only.  Just like some of the singles you may meet. We pledge to you right here and now, that all our dating advice is biblical, straight-forward and practical.

Interactive Dating Advice

The cool thing about Oasis Singles is that it is an interactive site. This means several things, First of all, you can comment on all the articles and leave your opinion. Second, if you feel you some original Christian dating advice  you would like to dish out to our 10s of thousands of weekly visitors, feel free to contact us and we may put it online, and include a nifty byline so others can reach out to you. Some of the topics may include how as Christian singles, we are dealing with the added anxiety of the Corona pandemic, which just makes if harder to meet that special someone.

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First Date Do’s and Don’t’s

Need a brush up on First date do’s and don’t’s? Going on your first date with someone you met though one of the online dating services like eHarmony can be fun and exciting, but also a little scary. Let’s face it, the primary purpose of a first date is to assess whether there is enough chemistry to spend even more time together. There are a number of first date “do’s and don’t’s” questions to consider: What will we do on…
When to dump a dating relationship

Dating Advice: When to Dump a Dating Relationship

Most Christian singles dating advice experts suggest that the primary purpose of a dating relationship is to determine whether or not the relationship is a match that will lead toward marriage. The problem is that many singles stay in potentially harmful dating relationships they should have ended long ago.  When to Dump a  Dating Relationship Whether the single people involved include a senior dating couple, single parents or college students, the top three reasons daters give for overstaying a romantic…
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Free Online Dating Advice Podcast

Getting into a dating relationship is easier than ever since there are so many decent  free online dating advice sites out there, including, Christian dating advice sites like Oasis Singles.  However, keeping that dating relationship growing will be almost impossible without good conversation starter skills. Free Online Dating Advice On Listening Skills In fact, most couples, whether they are married or in a dating relationship, give lack of communication and listening as the major reason for breaking up. These relationships…
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Christian Dating Advice for Men Seeking Marriage

This podcast is all about Christian dating advice for men seeking seeking to get hitched.  A whole lot of Christian men and woman for that matter  seek Christian dating advice on spiritual relationships soul mates, and what makes for good marriage material.  Many people feel the best determining factor in determining a successful marriage (or dating relationship for that matter) is how close the couple is spiritually.  Studies show that those couples who experience close spiritual relationships  with each other…
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Christian Dating Tips for Men and Women

Are you looking for Christian dating tips for men or women? I have to say the following Christian dating podcast for guys and girls is probably the best and practical  we have put on air. Pastor Marc Driscoll  gives out dating tips for men and women in terms that are both funny and informative Christian Dating Tips for Men and Women Huh? Yeah, I thought so too, but here is what happens: During his message on Christian dating people were…
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Codependency Relationships and Christian Singles

Are you in a codependent  dating relationship? Whether you are a Christian single or not,  codependent relationships can happen to anyone. What qualifies for a codependent relationship?  If you are in a codependent relationship you will feel like  that famous 60’s song line: ” Can’t live, if living is without you…” In addition to those feelings, another sign of a codependent relationship in dating is that the one or both daters will be seeking constant approval from the other, and…
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Online Dating Picture Advice

Here is some  online dating picture advice: Creating a great online dating profile without an online  dating picture of yourself is like having a nice, shiny new car with an empty tank. Huh? Yep, Christian singles who see your picture on dating service ads are over 12 times more likely to click on your dating profile to find out how wonderful you really are. For better or worse, while single guys are generally much more visual than girls, both sexes…
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Good Christian Dating Relationship Signs

What are some signs of a good Christian dating relationship? What qualities would you look for in the “right one” for you as a Christian single? Generally, the following list of signs should be present in your Christian dating partner if you are considering a lifelong commitment in marriage. Good Christian Dating Relationships Your dating interest (we assume he or she is a Christian) is growing more and more in love with Jesus. Just as important, he/she has not caused…
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Discovering Your Christian Soulmate

Discovering your  Christian soulmate? Most Christian singles who visit Christian Dating Service PLUS! are interested in finding that special soulmate or dating match that will lead toward marriage.  Discovering Your Christian Soulmate Podcast Our featured Christian dating podcast this week comes from Pastor Tim at  Liquid Church,  a contemporary Christian church located in NJ. Every few days our Christian Dating Advice site broadcasts a different podcast/MP3 with Christian singles messages, music or video. This week the topic is soulmates; however, we…
How to Break Up a Dating Relationship

How to Break Up a Dating Relationship

A famous 50s break up song gives us this little bit of dating advice on how to break up: “Breaking up is hard to do.” No, ya think? Whether you are a Christian single couple in a courtship or an online dating relationship, how you break up a relationship will be emotionally painful for both of you. If you are contemplating a break up of your dating relationship, considering the following dating advice may help you avoid a wrong decision,…

Abusive Relationships-Are You Dating an Abuser?

In this #MeToo era, Abusive relationships are not uncommon among dating single Christians. Some singles have been in an abusive relationship, and know the pain that goes with it. Sadly, other single Christians reading this article right now are presently in an abusive relationship, but may not know it or be in denial over it. While in the rest of this article we will designate the victim as a “she”, over 10% of abusive relationships consist of women against men.…
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Cheating Boyfriends: Signs of a Cheater

Cheating Boyfriends. Do you have a CB, a cheating boyfriend? And while we’re on this uncomfortable topic of cheating boyfriends, just how prevalent do you think cheating is? Well, according to the National Opinion Research Center at the University of Chicago, 22% of girlfriends have cheating boyfriends. Okay, I know at least one sex who’s dying to know this. The good news is that only 12% of boyfriends have a girlfriend who’s a cheater. We’ll talk about that at another…
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Christian Singles Dating Mistakes Women Make

Christian Single women can get a little confused looking for Christin Singles dating tips online. Part of the problem (no, it’s not the men) is that Christian singles dating online could find 1000s of different dating tips for single women, and some would be totally contradictory to one another. It’s easy to see how some single Christian women could make some dating mistakes. Rethinking Your View on Christian Singles Dating Whether or not Christian single women follow some of the…

Attracting the Right Man or Woman to Date

Some single Christians have no problems attracting a man or woman to date. Especially when using an online dating service like eHarmony.  However, attracting the right man or woman to date is often a separate issue. By the right man or woman to date, we mean that special person with whom you may wish to spend the rest of your life.  Your soul mate. Since you only marry a man or woman you date, it’s important to get it right.…
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Baby Boomer Dating Tips

Looking for Baby Boomer dating tips? If you’re a baby boomer interested in dating online, there are several things to consider. Christian dating services for baby boomers is not a new idea as they’ve been around for years. However, if you take heed to the following baby boomer dating tips you will have more chances for success. ONLINE Baby Boomer Dating  The first thing that you should be looking for in a baby boomer dating service, is to make sure…
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Single Christian Dating Advice

As a single lady, there is one thing I have always come back to which works for me like a charm. This is the idea of approaching male/female relationships from a “friends only” perspective. In the article which follows, I will explain why I believe other Christian singles should choose the “friends only” approach, as a safe and heartbreak free alternative to single Christian dating. Single Christian Dating : Why Friends? I have found among friends of mine that date,…

Christian Chat Rooms for Christian Singles Chat

Christian Chat rooms are locations on the web where Christian singles can chat or converse with other singles. In a mood for a nice Christian chat? In a Christian chatroom, one can find a date, share prayer requests or just have some fellowship. Many Christian dating services, including Christian Cafe and Christian Mingle have Christian chatrooms on their sites as a free service to both their free trial and paid members. Since there are literally hundreds of Christian chat rooms…

Dating Advice for Spiritual Compatibility

Need some helpful dating advice?  When it comes to Christian dating relationships, nothing is more important than making sure the two of you are on the same page about Jesus and seeking His will above all else.  If one person is totally surrendered to the Lord’s will and the other one is just “playing Christian” then the relationship is bound to fail.  Any Christian single would agree, however it can be hard to tell where somebody else stands with God until…

Christian Dating Tip – When To Start Dating A Friend

Are you seeking Christian dating tips on when to take a friendship to the next level and start dating?  As a Christian single, it is healthy to build friendly relationships. (with both sexes)  Whether it is a small group bible study, or just getting together for a planned event, fellowship with other Christians important as you continue to grow and mature in relationship with Jesus.  However, when you meet somebody and there seems to be a deeper connection between the two of…

Where Christian Singles Meet Other Singles

Ever wonder where Christian Singles meet other single Christians for dating and/or courting relationships? I know some lonely Christian single guys in one of the small groups I lead who sure do. A typical question in our support group goes along these lines: “So how do I go about meeting a nice Christian girl?” Since we we were curious ourselves (aren’t you guys?), we decided to do some research on the Internet. What we found was quite interesting. For example,…
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Christian Penpals for Christian Singles

Are you single and looking for Christian Penpals? Amazingly, you can find Christian Penpals in nearly every country of the world, from the UK and the rest of Europe, to Australia, Africa, South America, North America and Asia. Not only can one find Christian penpals from anywhere (did I leave out Antartica?), a single Christian can also zero in on the kind of Christian penpal they are seeking. For example, say you’re a Christian single guy looking for a Christian…

Dating Tips for Shy Guys

Over 800 people a month search for dating tips for shy guys and how to overcome shyness on the web each month. We know from the mail we receive that reading about dating tips for shy guys will benefit many  christian singles, both guys and girls. There are many different reasons why people are shy when it comes to dating and romance. Being love shy is not only a problem for Christian single guys. The problem pervades both sexes equally,…

What To Look For In Christian Dating A Relationship

Need some Christian dating advice on what to look for in a relationship or building solid relationships?  Many single Christians are so eager to find a relationship that they jump on the first opportunity that comes their way without taking the time to ask themselves: “What should I look for in a Christian dating relationship?”  Although what people look for in a potential dating partner differs from person to person, there are a few qualities that are very important for every Christian…

Background Record Checks for Online Christian Daters

Background record checks for online Christian daters are becoming more and more popular, as some internet dating services such as eHarmony are offering the option to their members. One of the online dating sites to offer background checks of their members is an interesting site called   WealthyMen.com which began doing criminal background checks. Some lawmakers have actually proposed legislation that would force matchmaking services, including all Christian Dating Services, to perform background record checks on all the folks who…

Christian Men Who Make Stupid Dating Mistakes

Christian Men Who Make Stupid Dating Mistakes. Many Christian men, myself included, have made dating mistakes. But yo, Christian Men! Can we talk? A lot of you Christian Men out there keep making the same stupid dating mistakes. In fact, I’m really tired of single Christian men whining about not being able to meet any nice girls, when it’s their own goofs that are driving away the promising possibilities. Our simple piece of dating advice is that many Christian men…

Christian Singles Websites for Dummies

Today, I’d like to talk about Christian singles websites.  There are tons of Christian singles websites and Christian dating websites out there, but not all are “really Christian”. Have you ever wondered how all these Christian singles websites got started? Well I did, and that’s how I began Christian Dating Service Plus, a website for single Christians. I had a heart for Christian singles, and I wanted to come up with a way where I could not only create a…

Romance Tips for Dating

Many singles come to this site in search of romance tips for dating. Many are also surprised to find a Christian dating site giving out romance tips, because to them, the two simply don’t mix. Of course, nothing can be further from the truth. Romance Tips Dating Podcast Not only is the Bible chock full of romance tips for single teens and adults, one can also find dozens of christianchurches podcasting messages about dating relationships. Our church podcast of the…

Biblical Relationship Advice

Here at Oasis Church, we are starting a new series on relationships called “Man vs Wife”  This week, pastor Dave open God’s Word and examine what the bible has to say about christian marriage relationships.  This series isn’t only for married people either!  Even if your in a Christian dating relationship or single, this series if for you! Copendency Christian Dating   Christian Dating Advice Christian Dating Service http://media.blubrry.com/oasischurch/christian-dating-service-plus.com/audio1/manvswifeweek1.mp3Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe Google Podcasts | RSS

Benefits of Seeking a Soulmate Online

A little over a decade ago, most Christian singles sought a soulmate through more traditional means. Looking for a soulmate online was taboo, and dating services had not yet grown into the $400+ million dollar business industry it is today. Back then, if a Christian guy or girl did not find their Christian soulmate through church singles groups, friends, colleagues or relatives, the only other options would have been to try out the bar scene (never a good idea). While…

Soul Mate Test-How To Make Sure You Don’t Marry a Loser

A soul-mate test on how to make sure you don’t marry a loser? Don’t get excited. Unfortunately, there is no such soul-mate test. However, if you’re a dating single person interested in marriage someday, this week’s church pod-cast for single Christians is relevant to you. Pastor Lee McFarland, of the Radiant Church located in Surprise, Arizona (AZ), brings a message, “”How To Make Sure You Don’t Marry a LOSER!”, that’s a wakeup call for anybody seeking a mate-God’s way! Do…

Christian Dating for Women

Are you a Christian single looking for some Christian dating advice for women? Did you know that 66% of the tens of thousands of visitors to this site each week are women looking for  Christian dating advice? Therefore, I got the idea that I should put together all of our top Christian dating relationship advice for women articles, and put them right here. I really hope these online dating advice for women articles answer some of your questions.  Dating Advice…

Dating Plan-Christian Dating Plans

Are you a Christian single with a dating plan? If God has burdened your heart with a vision to find a Christian soulmate, you need to have a dating action plan to help bring it to fruition. After all, as we learn in today’s Christian podcast, a vision without a plan is like a ship without a rudder. For example, Nehemiah not only had a vision from God to rebuild Jerusalem’s city walls, he also had a plan ready to…

Christian Dating Services for Single Christians

Christian Dating Services like eHarmony listed on Christian Dating Service PLUS are the most popular dating sites Christian singles use. In fact, one of the purposes of this website is to help singles find godly relationships through reputable Christian dating sites. We felt especially strongly about this since there are so many dating websites purporting to be Christian dating sites. Before Using Christian Dating Services If you’re thinking about using a Christian dating service, please keep in mind the following…

Christian Dating Courting

In regard to Christian dating courting, find it interesting that christians are still in the dating scene. Dating, to me, is simply a psuedo-marriage arrangement between two people. What I mean by ‘psuedo-marriage’ is that you get to pretend that you’re married (be exclusive, tell others that you are ‘taken’, have sex, cuddle and make out, etc), but never actually make any promises or commitments. When you are dating, it is saying to others that you are ‘taken’, but you…

Christian Counseling for Singles

25 years ago I probably needed Christian counseling, but most churches considered the term “ Christian counseling” an oxymoron. Well today Christian counseling services are in the mainstream of church body life. In fact, many larger churches employ ministers who provide professional Christian counseling services for their congregations. How to Choose a Christian Counselor Many Christian singles use Christian counseling for a variety of issues including dealing with abusive dating relationships, commitment phobia issues, anxiety/panic attacks, depression, low self esteem…

Christian Singles Dating

Most Christian singles dating are seeking to meet other single Christians who complement them spiritually. However, as many Christian singles dating will also tell you, finding a date or potential mate with similar beliefs is not so easy. As opposed to non-Christians who have a larger available pool to meet someone, Christian singles dating who are passionate about their faith are much more limited in their choices. These types of single Christians interested in dating will not be cruising the…