Christian Singles Articles
This category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types singles articles and life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on single men, single women, single Christian parents, single girls, teens, well, I think you get the point. :)
Christian Singles Resources
No matter if you are a Millennial, Baby Boomer or a Senior Single, hopefully you will find these singles articles useful. There are dozens of articles to choose from including “Learning How ti Argue and Fight“, Christian Girls Who Date Bad Guys”, “Fears that Keep Men and Women Single“, “How to Mend a Broken Heart” and many others.
Need for Singles Ministries
Why yet another singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.
So if you are looking for anything singles related, this category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to single of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.
Here you will find all types articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.
Riots and Christian Singles | What Should We Think?
Simplistically speaking, a significant part of what America is witnessing on the streets are groups of multicultural 20-something singles who have become alienated from God, Country and Family. Some have crossed the line from peaceful protesting, which Americans should celebrate, to out and out violence. we have no one to blame but ourselves They bear responsibility for what they are doing. But we have let them down. Our families have let them down. Our schools have let them down. The…
George Floyd, Riots and Christian Singles
So who is going to suffer the most from the integrated (white and black) mob of thugs and looters who are now burning down our cities? The very law abiding, poor, disenfranchised folks who need our help the most! And most of these people are singles of one form or another! As if the pandemic is not enough. Single Protesters vs. Thugs But it’s very important that we clearly distinguish between the peaceful protesters (mostly young singles) who are rightly…
Love-Shy Singles: How to Overcome Shyness
Are you one of those love-shy singles who doesn’t date because you’re timid? Wish you knew how to overcome shyness? If you do, don’t be bashful about it because you’re in good company. According to Dr. Phillip Zimbardo, a Stanford psychologist, nearly 40% of singles are shy about asking someone out on a date. Love-Shy Singles Description A single person who is shy is often anxious (some have even been diagnosed with Social Anxiety Disorder) or uneasy around the opposite…
What Christian Single Girls Want in a Guy
What do Christian single girls look for in a single Christian guy when contemplating a soulmate or marriage partner? This question always seems to percolate in any singles groups I have ever attended or led. We found some online surveys about Christian single girls (ages 18-70) you may find quite interesting. Single Girls and Men Okay guys, so you’re no babe magnet? Don’t worry about it because the good news here is that single Christian girls of all ages appear…
Learning How to Argue and Fight
The best dating tip we could give Christian singles is learning how to argue and fight. That may sound like whacky dating advice unless you know that the top reason both dating and married couples break up is a lack of communication in the area of conflict-resolution. This is very important, so let me reiterate this dating advice a different way: Learning how to fight and argue successully is the best way to a lasting and happy dating and/or married relationship.…
How to Survive the Holiday Blues as a Single Person
Are you single person wondering how to survive the holiday blues as we enter the 2019 Christmas season? Join the Holiday Blues club! As single women and men dreading yet another holiday season alone, you’re probably struggling or thinking about: Where you’re going to spend the holidays to avoid depression and loneliness How unfair it is that another Christmas is coming, and you’re still single What you’re gonna tell or do to those annoying relatives who ask you again why you’re…
Body Language Flirting: How to Know When a Guy Likes a Girl
How do you know when a guy is flirting with you? Understanding body language flirting is essential for Christian singles. What exactly is body language flirting? It’s basically a collection of all the nonverbal clues a guy (whether he be a Christian or not) gives out when he’s interested in woman. Just to be clear, not all body language flirting is a conscious decision on the part of the single guy, but may in fact be a subconscious behavior. Therefore,…
Why Christians Singles Date Less Due to Anger Issues
It seems like everyone is so angry nowadays. Everyone seems to have a beef. Democrats hate Republicans: Republicans hate Democrats. This anger we see in the culture even permeates into the dating world. Nowadays dating profiles from sites like Tinder to Christian Mingle, often have an edge of anger to them. Lately, I’ve read more than a few profiles from Christian singles who state on their profiles: “If you are a Trump supporter please don’t contact me!” Really? Has it…
Christian Dating and Idol Worship: Making an Idol Out of Your Relationships
Christian dating and idol worship. I know what some of you are thinking: What in the world does my dating life have to do with idol worship? Maybe nothing. But maybe everything. Idol Worship Definition An idol can be can be ANYTHING in your life that you put before God. That includes your dating life with your boyfriend or girlfriend. It’s something that takes the glory that God alone deserves, including your time, attention, and money, and transfers it to…
How to Deal with Bitterness as a Christian Single
Today we’re going to deal with bitterness as a Christian single. Many of us today are hiding a bitter spirit. Maybe some of us feel bitter because we are still single. If you came here today feeling bitter because you are still single, you’re in good company. People are bitter about many things. The good news is that whatever junk is in your hearts Jesus can change all that if you really want Him to. How to Deal With Bitterness…
Dealing With Addictions as a Christian Single
It’s a shame but true. Many Christian singles, married and divorced people have addictions and strongholds in their lives that hold them in bondage. Although dealing with addiction is essential if we are to enjoy our relationship experiences and life to the fullest, many are in a pickle over how to exactly conquer drug and alcohol use and abuse addiction. Dealing with Addiction Podcast If you are in this situation, or you know of a Christian woman or man who…
Dealing with Rejection as Singles
If you are a single Christian waiting on God for your soul mate, dealing with feelings of rejection can be very difficult! In a previous article we already mentioned how difficult it is getting over with unrequited love. I was recently talking to a young man, who after months of searching for a potential Christian dating partner online using eHarmony and Christian Mingle to no avail, developed strong feelings for a young woman who had recently started going to his church. They…
Dealing with Past Relationships as Single Christians
Fact: How people deal with past relationships is a great predictor of future success in other relationships. Many Christian singles I know are in bondage to the past hurts through cheating, disappointments, secret sins and relationship breakups of the past. Under the weight The emotional relationship baggage of the past, many singles gals and guys fail at their attempts to form positive dating relationships How To Deal With Past Relationships The great news about our following Christian podcast from Oasis-Church-NJ.com…
Free Christian Singles Advice on Dating
Did the title Free Christian Singles Advice grab your attention? you know there is a lot of free Christian singles dating advice on dating on the internet today, and most of it is totally unbiblical or just plain sucks. To counter this problem, each week we search the web for the best free Christian singles podcasts advice out there for our thousands of listeners. Free Christian Singles Advice Podcast This week we have a free Christian singles podcast from Elevation…
Managing Transition-Making the Most of Change as Christian Singles
Making the most of changes and managing transitions in our lives is often a difficult thing to do, but essential if one is to prosper in this life. How do you manage transitions in your life? Life’s transitions and changes can be a great opportunity, but also a threat. Managing Transitions as Singles If you are having a rough go managing transition and making the most of change, you are not alone. The fact is singles go through more life…
Living Alone and Lonely as a Single Christian
As a single person, have you discovered the key to living alone without being lonely? If loneliness is a daily struggle, know that many others are going thought he same thing. In fact, according to our ongoing singles survey, one of the worst things Christian singles find about single life are the lonely feelings that go with the territory. Dealing with Living Alone After scouring the web for a church podcast that addresses the subject of being lonely, we came…
Signs of Physical Attraction
Do you know the signs of physical attraction? Experts tell us that there are certain signs of physical attraction that gives away a girl likes a guy, or when a dude is attracted to girl. In fact, if you were to go and Google “signs of physical attraction”, you would find a whole boatload of relationship advice on how to tell when there is a spark. Signs of Physical Attraction Podcast This week’s church podcast on signs of physical attraction…
Single Chat-Hope for Singles
Single Chat? No, by using the term “single chat” we are not talking about the many single chat rooms out there on the internet. What we are referring to is single chat message for single Christians regarding the trials and tribulations of single life. It’s not easy living alone as a godly Christian single in today’s world. Many of us feel pressure on all sides. Others have written us telling of their heartbreak, guilt and discouragement. Well, the following “single…
Best Sex Tips for Christian Singles
Sex tips and tricks for Christians? Well, okay, maybe the words in the title “Sex Tips and Tricks” is a little bit over the top, but but I happen to know Christian singles are desperately looking for some straight talk on how they can balance the fact that God created them to be both sexual and holy beings. Best Sex Tips Christian Podcast Without a doubt our Christian podcast of the week from Pastor Tim of Liquid Church is the…
Unique Valentine’s Day Gifts for Singles
Well it’s time again to think about Unique Valentine’s Day Gifts for those special Christian singles in your life. If you need some help thinking about some unique Valentine’s day gifts for your sweetheart, the following list will give you some ideas. The unique Valentine’s day gifts with an asterisk next to it would be appropriate for those singles who maintain an online or long distance dating relationship: Top 5 Unique Valentine’s Day Gifts Unique Valentine’s Day Gift #1- Online…
Compatibility Love Test-How Compatible Are You With Your Date?
Many romance sites have a compatibility love test on them. For those of you who don’t know what a compatibillity love test is, it’s a set of quiz questions that’s suppose to determine if your love interest is compatible with you. Quite frankly, most of these compatibility love tests are bogus, and should only be taken tongue in cheek. That being said, compatibility does play a huge role in how successful any dating relationship will be. While the old saying…
I Feel Lonely Podcast for Singles
Do you ever get the “I feel lonely’ blues? Although surrounded by people I still feel lonely at certain times. The fact is there are many lonely hearts out in the world: Lonely single moms, lonely men, lonely teens. As singles loneliness and feeling lonely are all part of the territory. Worse yet, as we approach Christmas, dealing with the holiday blues as singles often means fighting that “I feel lonely” and empty feeling. How to Deal with Loneliness the…
Broken Hearted: How to Mend a Broken Heart
How to mend a broken heart for singles who are broken hearted? Almost everyone has had their own “broken heart confession” of a lost relationship. A broken heart is a broken heart, whether that relationship was in a dating context or a marriage. All I can say is it’s one of the most painful things I’ve ever suffered. While mending a broken heart takes different amounts of time for each person, the following points on how to mend a broken…
Purposeful Living-Finding Your Purpose as a Single Christian
Looking for Purposeful living? Whether single or married, most all people desire to find purpose, to discover where they “fit in” to this thing we call life. It’s so sad that there are so many people out there who are not living with purpose, and have no reason to get up each morning. Would you fall into this category? Purposeful Living and Finding Your Shape The great news today is that God created each of us for a mission in…
Contentment in Singleness: Why You Should Avoid Comparing Yourself to Others
Are you content in the single life? Do you compare yourself to others? Our podcast for the day just on this subject. Contentment in singleness is a real gift. So how much contentment do you have living this Christian single life?
How To Be Rich as Christian Singles
Wondering how to be rich? Did you know Christian singles worry more about money than relationships? That’s crazy but true. In most Christian dating relationships, money issues can cause lots of problems! Even if we try not to worry about money, it can still find a way to sneak into many different areas of our lives to create stress and even cause relationship problems. How to Be Rich as Singles Podcast This week our speaker speaks out of 1 Timothy…
Lonely Holidays | Holidays Make Me Feel Lonely
Lonely Holidays and singleness often go hand in hand. Are you single, lonely, and just dreading the upcoming holiday season because they are depressing? I know holidays make me feel lonely. If you are also in this category of being single and hating the holiday season, you’re not alone. Lonely Holidays Podcast Loneliness during the holidays is tough. The following Christian podcast is our Oasis singles Christmas Eve service. It’s very apropos for those feeling lonely and sad at Christmas.…
Dating Tips on How to Prepare for Marriage
Looking for dating tips on how to prepare for marriage? Our Christian podcast this week is on dating tips, and Pastor Matthew Ro, of the Journey Church in Atlanta, GA, gives us some dating tips for marriage preparation. He speaks about finding the perfect dating match, and what true love signs to look for along the way. Speaking from Genesis 2:18-24, Pastor Ro’s dating tips cover the gamut from how to know you’re in a good relationship to courtship and how…
Christian Single Girls Who Date Bad Guys
Most Christian single women and men we surveyed feel that many girls seem to prefer to date “bad guys”. Yup, hands down most single girls (Christians included) would rather date Jack Sparrow, the pirate, than Richie Cunningham, the Happy Days all-around good guy. One depressed single Christian guy (I’m assuming he’s a good one) lamented: “I just don’t get it. Here I am, a sensitive, passionate Christian with a caring heart and a good job, but I can’t find a…
Christian Single Moms and Dating Tips
Single moms have it rough. Christian single moms who are dating may have it even worse: Not only do Christian single moms have to deal with all the responsibilities that go along with being a custodial single parent, they also have to battle the stigma of being a single mom in the church. Whether we admit it not, more than a few women in the church look at single moms (especially if they’re hot looking) with subtle suspicion. Translation: Is…
Christian Single Parents
Christian single parents? Kermit the frog says it not easy being green. Move over Kermie, being Christian single parents is a much harder job…and more lonely. Perhaps this prayer by an anonymous Christian single parent says it all: “Lord, grant me Time Enough to do all the chores, join in the games, help with the lessons, and say the night prayers, and still have a few moments left over for me; Energy Enough to be bread-baker and breadwinner, knee patcher…
Stress Reducers for Single Parents
Stress reducers for single parents? That sounds great considering the many stress related symptoms some Christian single parents live with daily. Let’s see, there’s financial stress, job stress, dating stress, single parenting stress, custody and child support stress. Ugh! I’m getting stressed out. As single Christian parents, it is important to know how to reduce or relieve stress in your life. The following stress reducers for single parents may help give you some relief. 7 Top Stress Reducers for Single…
Find Your Love | How to Find Your Love as a Single Christian
Looking to find your love of a lifetime?You meet someone and may wonder: Is this the One? How quickly do you decide if this is the one? Imagine you are sitting in church and every Sunday he smiles at you. He never speaks, but he smiles every Sunday. Do you start imagining a two-car garage for matching mini-vans? Or the assistant manager at work keeps pausing at your desk to discuss the coffee flavors in the break room. Are you…
Fears That Keep Women And Men Single
There are many fears that keep women and men single. Paradoxically, many single women and men who yearn to get married often allow fears and phobias to keep them from that very goal. Furthermore, instead of meeting the love of their lives, they end up battling feelings of loneliness and frustration. So just what are some of the top fears single women and men face? A survey of several hundred singles revealed the following: Top 3 Fears of Single Women…
Low Self-Esteem in Christian Singles
Low self-esteem in Christian singles is keeping them from finding a serious dating relationship. It’s really simple: If you don’t feel real good about yourself, you’re not going to think anyone else will either. Sadly, problems with low self-esteem can not only effect our dating relationships, but all other areas of our life, including our emotional health. Single men and women with low self-esteem suffer more depression and discouragement, loneliness and anxiety in their lives than other people. These negative emotions…
Single Parent Sex Struggles
The following story was written by a female single parent on the nature of her sexual struggles: I am a 36 year old female single parent and have been single for 15 years in this situation. I was sexually abused as a child and as such have been sexually aware since my early single digits. Because of this early awareness and other abusive childhood experiences I began to masturbate. For me this had become a habit and with it some…
Ready to Date Again Signs
Ready to date again? Have you been out of a relationship for a while now, and unsure when it would be kosher to get in the market for dating again? A lot of Christian singles ask us about rebound dating relationships, and how to know when that’s not something to fear or freak out about. While we can’t put “time limits” on this subject, the following list of “ready to date” signs have some good Christian dating rules you may…
Dating Older or Younger Women and Men
Are you a single man or woman thinking about dating someone older or younger than yourself? Dating an older man? Dating an older woman? Many Christian singles are confused over the issue of dating someone outside of their own age group. It’s no wonder since some Christians actually teach that it is unequally yoked to marry outside of one’s age group. I suppose these are some of the same folks who taught the same about interracial dating. Although dating older…
Failed Relationship Advice
When a relationship has failed the first time and you both decide to try again, prepared for some hard work. A number of things can cause Christian marriages to fail, such as infidelity or dishonesty in all forms. But there are times when a couple feels that the relationship deserves a second try or third, fourth and so forth. Failed Relationship Advice The second time around is definitely not going to be like the first time. Your partner can say…
Christian Personals: Personal Ads for Christian Singles
Christian personals are personal ads that single Christians create in order to find a date and soulmate. This is the ultimate goal of a Christian personals ad. That’s why if you are a Christian single submitting Christian personals, you want to get as many potential mates reading your personals ad as possible. The simple reason is that the more the number of singles reading your Christian personals, the more the number of potential dates from which to choose. This holds…