Christian Singles Articles

Christian Singles Articles

christian singlesThis category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types singles articles and  life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on single men, single women, single Christian parents, single girls, teens, well, I think you get the point. :)

Christian Singles Resources

No matter if you are a Millennial, Baby Boomer or a Senior Single,    hopefully you will find these singles articles useful. There are dozens of articles to choose from including “Learning How to Argue and Fight“, Christian  Girls Who Date Bad Guys”, “Fears that Keep Men and Women Single“, “How to Mend a Broken Heart” and many others.

Need for Singles Ministries

Why yet another singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many  singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.

So if you are looking for anything singles related, this category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to single  of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.

Here you will find all types articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.

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How to guard your heart

How to Guard Your Heart as a Christian Dating Single

Wondering how to guard your heart as a Christian dating a single person? Navigating the world of dating can be exciting, challenging, and sometimes overwhelming. For the Christian single, dating takes on an additional layer of complexity – guarding one’s heart while seeking a life partner. This task, while daunting, isn’t impossible. By grounding oneself in faith, establishing boundaries, and listening to the Holy Spirit’s guidance, a Christian single can journey through dating with confidence and peace. Here’s how to…
Opposites attract in Christian dating relationships

Opposites Attract in Christian Dating Relationships: The Good and the Not-So-Good

Do opposites attract in Christian dating relationships? The adage, “opposites attract,” is a sentiment that has stood the test of time, captivating the hearts and minds of many for generations. Within the realm of Christian dating, this idea often stirs much discussion and contemplation. By God’s intricate design, each individual is unique, bearing distinctive qualities, interests, and values. But does this mean that those with dissimilar characteristics are better suited for romantic relationships? Let’s delve deep into the world of…
Should i confess to my crush?

Should I Confess to My Crush? The Christian Perspective

The age-old question: Should I confess to my crush?  It’s a situation many of us have faced, and the answer often varies based on personal circumstances and beliefs. For the Christian single person, the answer may be further influenced by biblical teachings, personal convictions, and the importance of faith in decision-making. Let’s dive into the considerations of confessing feelings to a crush from a Christian perspective. Understanding Love and Emotion First, it’s important to understand that having a crush or…
Questions to Ask in a Christian Dating Relationship

Questions to Ask in a Christian Dating Relationship

If you are a single Christian, you may be wondering what questions to ask in a Christian dating relationship. Navigating the dating landscape can be daunting, especially when faith is at the center of your life. For Christian singles, dating isn’t just about finding someone you’re attracted to; it’s about finding a partner who shares your core values and beliefs. To ensure your relationship has a firm foundation, there are certain questions that can guide your discussions and help determine…
situationship red flags

Situationship Red Flags: Christian Single Situationships

For Christian singles, there are many situationship red flags inherent in this kind of relationship. In our modern world, relationships have taken on a myriad of forms and dynamics, one of which is the intriguing “situationship.” For those unfamiliar with this term, a situationship straddles the line between a committed relationship and casual dating. But what exactly is a situationship, and how does it align (or not) with Christian values? Let’s explore this topic from the perspective of a Christian…
how to deal with emotional baggage

How to Deal With Emotional Baggage as Single Christians

Many single Christians walk around wondering how to deal with emotional baggage from failed relationships and other experiences that they have gone through in their lives. When people hear the term “emotional baggage” they also think of “damaged goods.” Since very few singles that I know of want to be in a relationship with someone with emotional baggage, it’s important that singles in this situation learn to make peace with their past if they desire a serious, positive Christian dating…
What can Christian couples do sexually before marriage?

What Can Christian Couples Do Sexually Before Marriage?

Christian singles ask us this often: What can Christian couples do sexually before marriage? Another question I hear often is: Is it a sin to have sex before marriage? In today’s age of modern relationships, many Christian couples find themselves navigating the intricate boundaries of intimacy before marriage. Traditional Christian teachings emphasize the importance of preserving sexual purity, yet what does this actually entail? And when Christian couples falter, is a breakup the answer? Let’s explore the guidelines and the…
what is a platonic Christian relationship?

What is a Platonic Relationship? | Christian Singles Platonic Love

What is a platonic relationship you may ask? And what does a Christian singles platonic love relationship look like? Navigating friendships and relationships in today’s complex societal tapestry can be quite challenging, especially when considering connections between individuals of the opposite sex. As Christian singles, it’s essential to approach relationships with clarity rooted in faith. One of the often debated questions is the feasibility of platonic relationships between opposite sexes. Can two Christian singles genuinely share a bond devoid of…
missionary dating

Missionary Dating for Christian Singles

For those unfamiliar with the term, missionary dating refers to a Christian dating a non-Christian with the hope of converting them to Christianity. Here, we’ll dive deep into both the advantages and pitfalls of this approach. The term derives from the idea of “going on a mission” to introduce, convince, or convert the other individual to Christianity. While some see it as an opportunity to share their faith with their partners, critics argue it’s fraught with potential pitfalls, including unequal…
how to overcome jealousy in a relationship

How to Overcome Jealousy in a Christian Dating Relationship

Are you wondering how to overcome jealousy in a relationship? Do you have a jealous dating partner? Jealousy is one of the most destructive and painful emotions in a Christian dating relationship. A jealous dater can think and do some wacky things he or she would not normally think of doing. That’s why learning how to overcome jealousy when it crops up is so important. How to Overcome Jealousy Dating Stats According to a North American survey of marriage counselors,…
signs of a healthy relationship

Signs of a Healthy Relationship For Christian Boyfriends/Girlfriends

Wondering what the signs of a healthy relationship are for Christian boyfriends or girlfriends?  Would you even be able to spot that good catch of a Christian boyfriend or girlfriend when they come into your sights? Recently, several singles sat down and came up with the following top seven signs you are in the right relationship with your Christian boyfriend or girlfriend: Top 7 Great Signs of a healthy relationship Jesus is the most important person in their lives. Remember,…
creative date ideas for christian singles

Creative Date Ideas for Christian Singles

New and creative date ideas for Christian singles are difficult to come by, but essential in order to keep your dating relationship with your potential christian soul mate fresh and exciting. When you’re navigating the world of Christian dating, it’s essential to find activities that align with your values while also providing a platform to get to know your potential partner better. Cultivating a bond built on faith and mutual interests can make for a fulfilling relationship. Here are some…
how to stop porn addiction

How to Stop Porn Addiction in Christian Singles

“How to Stop Porn Addiction” is a popular search term among  That’s because many Christian single men and women struggle with pornography and its negative effects. In fact, surveys show 25% of pastors suffer from some form of porn addiction.  His addiction not only poses spiritual dilemmas but also impacts his mental and emotional well-being. The fact is, having a porn addiction will also keep a single Christian man or woman seeking marriage from developing godly relationships with the opposite…
how to deal with shame

How to Deal with Shame as a Single Christian

Wondering how to deal with shame as a Christian single girl or guy? The journey of faith is a personal and intimate one. For many Christians, the pressure to conform to certain ideals can sometimes lead to feelings of shame, especially regarding marital status. In a community that often celebrates marriage and family, being single might sometimes feel like an anomaly. How can one navigate these feelings of shame, while staying true to oneself and one’s faith? Here’s a guide…
christian singles secrets

Christian Singles Secrets

Do you have Christian singles secrets bottled up in your heart? Many Christian singles walk around with the burden of carrying personal secrets bottled up deep in their hearts. Whether the secrets are unconfessed sexual sins, painful memories, regrets, shame-filled experiences, or totally whacked-out thoughts, God did not design us to deal with such raw issues by ourselves. From the Garden, the Lord created mankind for intimate fellowship with no room for secrets. Adam’s hiding from God after eating the…
signs of true love

Signs of True Love in a Christian Relationship

What are signs of true love in a Christian relationship?  What are the signs of true love from a man or woman?  How do you know you’ve found your “true love” of a lifetime? In the realm of Christian relationships, love is the cornerstone that fortifies the bond between two individuals. True love in a Christian relationship goes beyond infatuation or fleeting emotions, it embodies the selfless, sacrificial, and Christ-centered devotion that nurtures a blessed union. In this article, we…