Christian Singles Articles
This category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types singles articles and life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on single men, single women, single Christian parents, single girls, teens, well, I think you get the point. :)
Christian Singles Resources
No matter if you are a Millennial, Baby Boomer or a Senior Single, hopefully you will find these singles articles useful. There are dozens of articles to choose from including “Learning How to Argue and Fight“, Christian Girls Who Date Bad Guys”, “Fears that Keep Men and Women Single“, “How to Mend a Broken Heart” “Masturbation” and many others.
Need for Singles Ministries
Why yet another singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.
So if you are looking for anything singles related, this category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to single of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.
Here you will find all types articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.
Should I Date a Godly Person I’m Not Attracted To?
As a Christian singles blogger, I get this question a lot: Should I date a godly person I’m not attracted to? As a Christian single, navigating the world of dating can feel like a delicate balancing act. Faith, values, and attraction all play pivotal roles in the decision-making process. One challenging question that often arises is: Should I date a godly person I’m not attracted to? While this is a deeply personal decision, it’s worth exploring both the pros and…
Bible Verses for Christian Singles About Hope in Hard Times
Hope in hard time times. It’s that elusive spark that keeps us moving, even when the path feels like it’s covered in Legos, sharp stones, and the occasional banana peel. For Christian singles, hope often feels like a delicate balance between trusting God’s perfect timing and navigating the reality of waiting. And let’s be honest, waiting can sometimes feel like being stuck in the world’s longest elevator ride. One verse that resonates deeply in times like these is Proverbs 13:12:…
First Date Do’s and Don’t’s
Need a brush up on First date do’s and don’t’s? Going on your first date with someone you met though one of the online dating services like eHarmony can be fun and exciting, but also a little scary. Let’s face it, the primary purpose of a first date is to assess whether there is enough chemistry to spend even more time together. There are a number of first-date “do’s and don’t’s” questions to consider: What will we do on our…
How to Stop Worrying About Everything: A Christian Single’s Guide
Having personal experience in this area, it’s easy for Christians, especially singles, to fall into the trap of constant worrying. This concern can pertain to aspects of daily life, relationships, future plans, and even spiritual growth. However, the Bible provides profound wisdom and practical advice on how to release these anxieties and find peace in God’s promises. Understanding Worry Through a Christian Lens Worry is often a reaction to the uncertainties and potential problems that we might face. But as…
Surviving the Holidays as a Single Person
Well, the holiday season is upon us again. Surviving the holidays as a single person can be tough. As single women and men dreading yet another holiday season alone, you’re probably struggling or thinking about: Where you’re going to spend the holidays to avoid depression and loneliness How unfair it is that another Christmas is coming, and you’re still single What you’re gonna tell or do to those annoying relatives who ask you again why you’re not yet married. The holiday…
Top 5 Relationship Lessons for Christian Singles: Laughing Through Love’s Lessons
Hey there, Christian singles! Let’s talk relationships—those mysterious, emotional mazes that sometimes feel like an escape room where God holds the key. If you’ve ever found yourself praying, “Lord, give me a sign,” while overanalyzing a text message, you’re in good company. Here are the top 5 lessons to navigate the dating world with faith, humor, and maybe even some grace (fingers crossed). Lesson 1: God’s Timing is Better Than Netflix Timing You know the feeling: it’s a Friday night,…
A Christian Single’s Response to the 4B Movement: A Biblical Perspective
The 4B movement has created a ripple through the world of Christian singles, and if you’re reading this, you might be wondering how you, as a Christian single, should respond to it. You’re not alone! Let’s dive into what the 4B movement is all about, its core messages, and a biblical response that will leave you feeling rooted in your faith and purpose. In today’s world, the landscape of relationships, marriage, and family is constantly evolving. Among the latest trends…
How to Overcome FOMO in Christian Dating (Without Losing Your Mind)
Christian dating isn’t exactly known for being stress-free; add FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) to the mix, and it’s a recipe for sleepless nights and endless “Why am I still single?” monologues. It’s easy to feel like everyone else is finding the perfect partner (preferably someone with a deep knowledge of the Bible and excellent barista skills) while you’re on a perpetual quest for “the one.” But take heart! With a humorous and warm approach, we’re diving into practical steps…
5 Things Christian Single Women Should Know Before Tying the Knot
Marriage is one of the biggest decisions you’ll ever make. In the midst of butterflies, dreams of shared cups of coffee, and that warm, fuzzy glow of romantic bliss, it’s easy to gloss over some of the finer details. As a Christian woman, you’re called to think carefully about this commitment, not just as a partnership but as a covenant with God. So, if you’re single and considering marriage, here are five wise (and hopefully a bit humorous) pieces of…
Is “Playing the Field” in Christian Dating Biblical?
When it comes to the world of dating, the term “playing the field” brings to mind someone casually seeing multiple people, weighing options, and generally enjoying a bit of variety in their romantic pursuits. It’s not the exclusive “one-and-only” approach; rather, it’s more like “let’s see where things go with different people.” But in the context of Christian dating, this practice can bring up a few eyebrows—and maybe even an awkwardly raised hand from someone asking, “Is this biblical?” 1.…
How to Choose a Book on Christian Singleness
Navigating the world of Christian singleness is like attempting to assemble a jigsaw puzzle with some pieces missing and no picture on the box. You might know where you want to go, but not quite how to get there. For Christian singles, finding a book that speaks to this journey, with guidance, encouragement, and a dash of humor, can feel like finding a treasure. But with so many books out there, each promising to be the one to help you…
Top 4 Ways Satan Tempts Christian Singles – and How to Laugh Your Way Through It!
Being single as a Christian often comes with its own set of challenges. While relationships and marriage are revered, we singles often find ourselves navigating life with pep talks from friends and prayers from parents about “finding the one.” But it’s not all sunshine and roses. Sometimes, being single as a Christian can feel like a battlefield, with temptations sneaking in, wearing all kinds of disguises. The good news? Once we identify these temptations, we’re halfway to laughing them off…
How to Deal with the Pain of Being a Christian Single
Let’s be real: being a single Christian can feel like a lifelong membership to the Waiting Room Club, where the chairs are a little too hard, the magazines are way outdated, and the receptionist keeps saying, “He’ll be with you shortly.” We wait, we pray, and sometimes we even feel a little bit lost. So, if you’re feeling the pinch (or maybe even the pain) of being a single Christian, this article is for you. We’ll dive into some biblical…
How to Deal with Passive-Aggressive People: A Christian Single’s Guide
Let’s be real: dealing with a passive-aggressive person can feel like navigating a minefield in flip-flops. They say one thing but mean the exact opposite, and by the time you’ve decoded the first sentence, they’ve hit you with another “bless your heart” disguised as a compliment. So, as a Christian single who may encounter a few passive-aggressive folks along the journey, how do you handle this with grace, patience, and maybe a sprinkle of humor? Here’s a lighthearted guide filled…
Signs Someone has Feelings for You Over Text
Texting—the modern equivalent of passing notes in class, only with emojis and GIFs. As a Christian single navigating the digital world of romance, it’s natural to wonder: does this person actually like me, or are they just being polite? While we all wish for some grand heavenly revelation, most of us are left to decipher the cryptic world of texts. But fear not, because God gave us wisdom, discernment, and a little humor to help us along the way. So,…
Fear of Being Alone Forever as Single Christians
Perhaps one of the greatest fears single Christians face is the fear of being alone forever. Some of us fear being alone as we contemplate the possibility of growing lonely, old, and sick. I know of one single gal who actually works herself into an anxiety attack as she thinks about the fear of being alone. Yet, she paradoxically also has a fear of commitment. Go figure. Understanding the Fear of being alone The fear of being alone forever is…