Christian Singles Articles
This category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types singles articles and life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on single men, single women, single Christian parents, single girls, teens, well, I think you get the point. :)
Christian Singles Resources
No matter if you are a Millennial, Baby Boomer or a Senior Single, hopefully you will find these singles articles useful. There are dozens of articles to choose from including “Learning How to Argue and Fight“, Christian Girls Who Date Bad Guys”, “Fears that Keep Men and Women Single“, “How to Mend a Broken Heart” “Masturbation” and many others.
Need for Singles Ministries
Why yet another singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.
So if you are looking for anything singles related, this category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to single of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.
Here you will find all types articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.
7 Keys to Successful Romantic Relationships for Christian Singles
Let’s face it, navigating the world of dating as a Christian single can sometimes feel like trying to solve a Rubik’s cube blindfolded. You know there’s a formula, but half the time you wonder if you’re even in the right room! What does it take to find the one God has for you, without compromising on faith, standards, or…your sanity? Fear not, dear reader! We’re going to unlock seven keys to successful romantic relationships for Christian singles, and we’ll do…
How to Cure Boredom as a Christian Single
Ever wonder how to cure boredom as a Christian single? That pesky little feeling that creeps up when you’ve scrolled through your phone for the 152nd time, checked in on that distant cousin’s Facebook drama, and even reorganized your sock drawer for the thrill of it. Being single as a Christian can sometimes feel like you’ve been given the ultimate time-out—especially when you’re trying to remain intentional about your time and honor God with your life. But the truth is,…
Third Date Ideas for Christian Singles: Fun, Faith, and the Next Step
So, you’ve made it to the third date! Congratulations! In the world of Christian dating, the third date is kind of a big deal. You’ve likely passed the awkward small talk, possibly met their youth pastor’s name in conversation, and maybe even shared your favorite Bible verse (because that’s totally what happens on every first date, right? ?). Now, you’re in the sweet spot where you can get to know each other on a deeper level without things feeling rushed.…
Waiting on God for a Spouse: The Rollercoaster Journey of Patience
Are you one of the thousands of people waiting on God for a spouse? It’s a delightful mix of faith, prayer, a touch of confusion, and maybe the occasional “Lord, did You hear me?” moment. As Christian singles, we know the Bible has a lot to say about patience, trust, and the whole shebang when it comes to waiting on God’s timing. So let’s dive into this exciting (and sometimes amusing) rollercoaster ride of waiting on God to provide a…
How to Take Care of Your Metal Health as a Christian Single
Ever wonder how to take care of your mental health as a Christian single guy or gal? I’m not about to give you a 10-step routine to add to your ever-growing to-do list (you already have “be a functioning human” on there), but what I do want to chat about is mental health. Yeah, I said it—mental health. The thing we all know is crucial but sometimes feel too busy, too awkward, or too tired to take care of. So,…
Meeting the Right Person at the Wrong Time: A Christian Single’s Journey
Ah, the classic conundrum: meeting Mr. or Ms. Right at what seems like the wrong time. We’ve all heard it: “I met the right person, but it was the wrong time.” Or, if you’re a Christian single, it may sound more like, “God sent this amazing person, but I’m just not in the right season to receive it!” Cue the dramatic sigh, longing looks at the sky, and perhaps a prayer asking, “Why, Lord, why?!” But let’s take a moment…
Why Christian Singles Should Never Settle for Less
As a Christian single, it can feel like you’re constantly navigating a sea of advice and pressure about finding “the one.” Friends, family, and even pop culture might tell you to hurry up, settle down, or lower your standards because “nobody’s perfect.” But here’s the truth: You should never settle for less than what God has planned for you, especially when it comes to something as sacred as a life partner. Waiting for “the one” can be a challenging, emotional,…
The Gift of Singleness: 5 Top Reasons Why You Might Have It
Have you ever thought about whether or not you have the “gift of singleness?” You’ve been praying, fasting, and maybe even sent up one of those emergency “God, if this is really your plan, please send a very clear sign because I’m not seeing it” kind of prayers. Yet, here you stand in the land of singleness, and you’re wondering: Could I actually have the gift of singleness? Let’s take a deep breath, laugh a little, and explore some reasons…
Why Is Searching for Available Singles So Difficult? (From a Christian Single’s Perspective)
Why is searching for available singles so difficult? As a Christian single, let me tell you, the search for that special soulmate can feel like a scavenger hunt where the map is upside down, the compass points nowhere, and everyone else is sprinting ahead with a partner in hand. It’s funny how in a world teeming with people, finding the right person feels more complicated than solving a Rubik’s cube while blindfolded. Why does it seem so hard to find…
What to Do When You’re Not Sure of God’s Will in a Situation
As a Christian single, you’ve probably found yourself at a crossroads more than once. Maybe you’re facing a significant decision about your career, moving to a new city, or discerning if someone you’re dating is the right person for you. Whatever the situation, one thing is for sure: It can be confusing and overwhelming to figure out what God’s will is in these moments. Should you settle for less? But don’t worry—you’re not alone in this! Even though it might…
Christian Dating Advice: Those Who Have Been Sexually Abuse
When you’re dating someone who has been sexually abused, the relationship requires deep levels of compassion, understanding, and patience. As Christians, we are called to love one another deeply (1 Peter 4:8), and that love extends to helping our partner heal from past wounds, especially those as profound as sexual abuse. This journey can be challenging, but it is also one of profound grace, and your relationship can grow stronger through Christ. Let’s talk about the biblical approach to dating…
Embracing Your Identity in Christ as a Christian Single
Do you embrace your identity in Christ as a Christian single? How does your identity in Christ affect you as a Christian Single? When you think about being single, it can sometimes feel like you’re in some kind of waiting room—waiting for that special someone to walk into your life and sweep you off your feet. For Christian singles, that waiting room can feel even more complex. There’s the usual dating landscape, but then there’s also this whole added layer…
Signs of a Healthy Relationship For Christian Boyfriends/Girlfriends
Wondering what the signs of a healthy relationship are for Christian boyfriends or girlfriends? Would you even be able to spot that good catch of a Christian boyfriend or girlfriend when they come into your sights? Recently, several singles sat down and came up with the following top seven signs you are in the right relationship with your Christian boyfriend or girlfriend: Top 7 Great Signs of a healthy relationship Jesus is the most important person in their lives. Remember,…
Christian Singles Secrets
Do you have Christian singles secrets bottled up in your heart? Many Christian singles walk around with the burden of carrying personal secrets bottled up deep in their hearts. Whether the secrets are unconfessed sexual sins, painful memories, regrets, shame-filled experiences, or totally whacked-out thoughts, God did not design us to deal with such raw issues by ourselves. From the Garden, the Lord created mankind for intimate fellowship with no room for secrets. Adam’s hiding from God after eating the…
Overcoming Societal Pressures to Marry as a Christian Single
Ah, societal pressure—the invisible weight that somehow finds its way into our holiday dinners, church pews, and even Facebook comments. If you’re a Christian single, you probably know the drill. “So, when are you going to settle down?” comes right after “Pass the mashed potatoes.” Society seems to have this unspoken checklist: graduate, get a job, get married, have kids—and do it all before 30! But what if God has other plans, or maybe you’re just not rushing? Here’s a…
Christian Dating Advice for Christian Single College Students
Looking for Christian dating advice for college single college students? Let’s be real—college dating is a wild ride. Between classes, late-night study sessions, and figuring out what to eat that’s not ramen, adding dating into the mix can feel like juggling fire. Now, throw in your desire to honor God while dating, and suddenly it feels like you’re navigating a maze in the dark! But hey, don’t panic—I’m here to help. As a pastor on the campus of Rutgers University…