Christian Singles Articles

Christian Singles Articles

christian singlesThis category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types singles articles and  life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on single men, single women, single Christian parents, single girls, teens, well, I think you get the point. :)

Christian Singles Resources

No matter if you are a Millennial, Baby Boomer or a Senior Single,   hopefully you will find these singles articles useful. There are dozens of articles to choose from including “Learning How to Argue and Fight“, Christian  Girls Who Date Bad Guys”, “Fears that Keep Men and Women Single“, “How to Mend a Broken Heart” “Masturbation” and many others.

Need for Singles Ministries

Why yet another singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many  singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.

So if you are looking for anything singles-related, this category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to singles of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.

Here you will find all types of articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.

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How to deal with sadness as a Christian single

How to Deal with Sadness as a Christian Single

A lot of singles write me wondering how to deal with sadness. I understand. It doesn’t always feel comforting when you’re alone on a Saturday night with nothing but a tub of ice cream and your thoughts. And when the holiday season rolls around? Oh boy, bring on the awkward family gatherings and unsolicited questions about your love life. But here’s the good news: sadness is not your permanent roommate. With a little faith, humor, and practical action, you can…
Alone at Christmas

Alone at Christmas: Coping Strategies for Singles

For many, Christmas is a season of joy and family gatherings. However, being alone at Christmas this time of year can often amplify Christmas Blues feelings  loneliness and isolation, especially when family or a significant other is not present. Yet, this season also presents an opportunity for spiritual growth and personal reflection. This article explores the challenges of being alone during Christmas and offers heartfelt, scripture-based advice on how to find peace and joy during this time. Understanding the Challenges…
When dating girls too good to be true is dangerous

When Dating “Too Good to Be True” Girls Becomes Dangerous

It’s Saturday night. You’re a single guy with a bowl of popcorn in one hand and the remote in the other. Suddenly, a ping lights up your phone. It’s a message from her. You know who I’m talking about: the girl who seems to float three inches off the ground, speaks fluent charity work, and looks like an angel escaped from a Pinterest board. She’s perfect—or is she? Before you dive headlong into cloud nine, let’s have a little chat.…
bible verses about relationships

Bible Verses About Relationships: Uplifting Words for Single Christians

Ah, relationships. The beautiful, messy, and sometimes utterly bewildering dance of love. Whether you’re single, dating, or just trying to figure out if “God’s timing” means this year or next decade, the Bible has a lot to say about love, relationships, and navigating those butterflies in your stomach. Let’s dive into the Word, because—spoiler alert—God is the ultimate matchmaker, and He has some pretty solid advice! Bible Verses about Relationships with Boyfriend or Girlfriend 1. The Foundation: Love is Patient…
Signs of one sided relationship

10 Signs of a One-Sided Relationship: A Guide for Christian Singles

Dating is exciting—full of possibility, growth, and laughter. But let’s be real: sometimes, relationships feel less like teamwork and more like running a solo marathon. If you’re a Christian single seeking a partnership that glorifies God, the stakes are even higher. So how do you know if you’re walking the dating road alone? Let’s break it down with a little humor, practical wisdom, and biblical truth. Here are 10 signs your relationship might be one-sided—and what you can do about…
How to Prioritize as a Christian Single

How to Prioritize Tasks as a Christian Single

Wondering how to prioritize tasks and your life? Being a single Christian in today’s fast-paced world is no walk in the park. Between juggling work, church commitments, relationships, and the occasional Netflix binge, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. But don’t worry! With a little humor, a dash of faith, and a lot of practical wisdom, you can master the art of prioritizing tasks while staying grounded in God’s plan for your life. Let’s dive in! How to Prioritize Tasks 1.…
avoidant dismissive person

Loving a Dismissive-Avoidant Christian Single

Let’s face it, love is complicated enough without adding attachment theory into the mix. But when you find yourself head over heels for someone with a dismissive-avoidant attachment style—and they’re also a devoted Christian—you’re entering a unique adventure. Don’t worry, you’ve got God on your side (and me, your trusty cheerleader). Here’s how to navigate this path with humor, patience, and a sprinkle of divine grace What is Dismissive-Avoidant Attachment? For the uninitiated, dismissive-avoidant attachment is like the emotional equivalent…
How to hear from God as a Christian Single

How to Hear from God as a Christian Single:

Being a Christian single trying to discern God’s voice can feel like trying to hear a whisper in a rock concert. Between the noise of everyday life, unsolicited advice from well-meaning friends, and your own inner doubts, tuning into God’s voice may seem like an impossible task. But fear not! This warm (and slightly humorous) guide is here to help. Why Hearing from God is Crucial Let’s face it: life is already full of choices—do you want oat milk or…
Why Many College Singles Support Luigi Mangione & Protests Against Corporate America

Why Many College Singles Support Luigi Mangione & Protests Against Corporate America

Not including the large level  of support of support for Luigi Mangione, the suspected shooter of  UnitedHealthcare’s CEO. in recent years, the rise of protests against corporate America has seen significant support from college students, particularly singles. This demographic, characterized by its dynamic energy and forward-thinking ideals, is uniquely positioned at the intersection of societal awareness and personal growth. By examining the underlying motivations behind this support, we can uncover the values and aspirations that fuel their advocacy. 1. Economic…
How long should couples date before getting married?

How Long Should Christian Couples Date Before Getting Engaged?

The question of “how long should Christian couples date before getting engaged?” is one that sparks plenty of debate. Some might say, “As long as it takes to learn their favorite pizza topping,” while others might suggest a timeline that feels more like the gestation period of an elephant. Here’s the truth: there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. Every relationship is unique, but there are some principles, milestones, and, yes, laughable moments to consider. Let’s dive into this topic with warmth, wisdom,…
Financial Independence for Gen Z Singles

Top 5 Ways Gen Z Christian Singles Can Gain Financial Independence

Financial independence is a goal that resonates deeply with many, including Gen Z Christian singles navigating today’s complex economic landscape. It’s a pursuit of freedom—freedom from financial stress, from reliance on others, and from the burden of debt. Yet, as followers of Christ, we are reminded that financial wealth is not the ultimate measure of our lives. It is God who grants us the ability to accumulate wealth (Deuteronomy 8:18), and with that blessing comes the responsibility of stewardship. As…
Christian Dating Advice for Men

8 Christian Dating Tips for Single Men

So, you’re a single Christian guy looking to dive into the world of dating, huh? Let me start by saying: Godspeed, my brother. Finding love in the era of dating apps, text abbreviations, and coffee dates where “Netflix and chill” is considered a personality trait can be…let’s call it, “character building.” But fear not! With a bit of faith, humor, and some handy tips, you’ll be on your way to navigating the dating world like a pro—or at least without…
Self Care Ideas for Singles

Self-Care Ideas for Christian Singles During the Holidays

Looking for self-care ideas for Christian singles?  Being single during the holidays can feel like you’re the odd ornament on an otherwise perfectly curated tree. But guess what? You’re not alone. (Literally, Jesus is always with you. Can I get an amen?) ? Whether you’re navigating Christmas as a solo flier or dodging mistletoe like it’s a dodgeball tournament, there’s one thing you can absolutely own this season: self-care. So, grab your peppermint mocha, cozy up in that onesie, and…
How to Survive Holiday Blues

Surviving the Holidays as a Single Person

Well, the holiday season is upon us again. Hallmark Christmas movies are fun, but just don’t cut it. Look, surviving the holidays as a single person can be tough.  As  single women and men dreading yet another holiday season alone, you’re probably struggling or thinking about: Where you’re going to spend the holidays to avoid depression and  loneliness How unfair it is that another Christmas is coming, and you’re still single What you’re gonna tell or do to those annoying relatives…
Life Balance as a Christian Single

How to Have Work-Life Balance as a Christian Single

Life as a Christian single can feel like an intricate dance—a delicate balancing act between work, ministry, family, friendships, and the looming question of whether God’s calling for you includes a partner. It’s easy to tip the scales in one direction, neglecting self-care, relationships, or your walk with Christ. But fear not! Balancing life as a single Christian doesn’t have to feel like juggling flaming torches while riding a unicycle. Let’s explore some practical (and hopefully funny) ways to find…
Mariage Advice for Christian Singles

Marriage Advice for Christian Singles

Marriage is one of the most sacred institutions designed by God, symbolizing the union between Christ and the Church. As Christian singles, it’s natural to desire a spouse who aligns with your values and deepens your walk with God. However, navigating singleness with a Christ-centered focus can be challenging in today’s world. Whether you’re waiting, dating, or considering engagement, this guide provides marriage advice tailored to Christian singles seeking to honor God in their relationships. 1. Embrace Singleness as a Season…