Christian Singles Articles
This category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types singles articles and life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on single men, single women, single Christian parents, single girls, teens, well, I think you get the point. :)
Christian Singles Resources
No matter if you are a Millennial, Baby Boomer or a Senior Single, hopefully you will find these singles articles useful. There are dozens of articles to choose from including “Learning How to Argue and Fight“, Christian Girls Who Date Bad Guys”, “Fears that Keep Men and Women Single“, “How to Mend a Broken Heart” “Masturbation” and many others.
Need for Singles Ministries
Why yet another singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.
So if you are looking for anything singles-related, this category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to singles of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.
Here you will find all types of articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.
Love vs. Lust from a Christian Singles Perspective
If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “Is this love, or am I just really, really into that person’s haircut?“—congratulations! You’ve entered the grand ring of Love vs. Lust, a battle fought by many, but understood by few. For Christian singles, the struggle to discern between love and lust can feel like trying to navigate through a fog with only a flashlight. But don’t worry! In this article, we’re going to clear up some of that fog and, hopefully, give you…
Facing the Future with Joy as a Single Christian
In today’s world, the pressure to define your worth by your relationship status can be overwhelming—especially for Christians who strive to walk faithfully with God while single. But what if this season of singleness isn’t a waiting room for “real life,” but a vital, joyful chapter in your spiritual journey? Jesus, the ultimate teacher, not only lived a single life but also offered profound guidance on how to approach the future—with hope, not fear. This article will explore how to…
Is Online Dating Biblical? A Theological Perspective
I get a lot of emails from people asking this question: Is online dating biblical? This question doesn’t have a cut-and-dry answer. The Bible, written long before the digital age, obviously doesn’t mention apps like Tinder, Bumble, or Christian Mingle. However, Scripture provides profound principles on relationships, human connection, and divine guidance that can be applied even in the modern realm of online dating. This article explores the theological dimensions of online dating, comparing the heart of biblical teachings with…
Excuses, Excuses: 15 Reasons Christian Singles Dodge Dating
Dating as a Christian single can feel like a tightrope walk over a very full baptismal pool. On one hand, there’s the deep desire for companionship and marriage; on the other, a host of creative excuses not to even try. If you’ve ever heard—or used—these excuses, you’re not alone. Let’s unpack them with a wink, a nudge, and a little encouragement. 1. “I’m waiting on the Lord’s timing.” Ah, the gold-standard excuse. While waiting on God’s timing is essential, sometimes…
How to Stop Thinking Negative Thoughts
Wondering how to stop those dumb negative thoughts that are destroying your joy in life as a single person, and wreaking havoc on your relationships? Negative thoughts can feel like an invisible weight pulling you down, stealing your joy, and clouding your perspective. As single Christians, we’re called to live with joy and hope, yet it’s easy to let discouragement and negativity creep into our minds. Whether you’re battling feelings of inadequacy, loneliness, or worry, God’s Word offers powerful tools…
7 Signs Your Boyfriend or Girlfriend Is About to Break Up with You
Breaking up is never easy—whether you’re on the receiving end or initiating it yourself. But what if you could spot the signs before the big conversation happens? If you feel like something’s off in your relationship, this humorous and heartfelt guide will help you navigate the red flags, offering wisdom (and a dose of laughter) from a Christian single’s perspective. 1. The Text Messages Start Feeling Like Morse Code Remember when you’d exchange texts like you were each other’s personal…
The Christian Single’s Guide to Dating Your Best Friend’s Ex
In the world of Christian dating, emotional and spiritual boundaries matter just as much as romantic intentions. Few situations are more emotionally layered—or potentially explosive—than dating your best friend’s ex. As a Christian single, you’re not just navigating personal desires; you’re also upholding biblical values like loyalty, integrity, forgiveness, and love. But what happens when your heart starts leaning toward someone your best friend once called “theirs”? Is it betrayal, divine timing, or something in between? This in-depth blog post…
First Date Do’s and Don’t’s
Need a brush up on First date do’s and don’t’s? Going on your first date with someone you met though one of the online dating services like eHarmony can be fun and exciting, but also a little scary. Let’s face it, the primary purpose of a first date is to assess whether there is enough chemistry to spend even more time together. There are a number of first-date “do’s and don’t’s” questions to consider: What will we do on our…
Widowed and Dating Again: A Christian’s Honest Take on Love After Loss
Losing a spouse is like having your heart torn in half. The silence, the empty side of the bed, the moments you instinctively reach for someone who’s no longer there—it all aches. For many widowed Christians, the thought of dating again feels like crossing a fragile, holy line. You’re grieving, you’re praying, and somewhere deep inside, you’re wondering if it’s okay to love again. Let’s talk about it. Informally. Honestly. Like two friends sitting on the porch with coffee. Whether…
Life in Iran as a Single Christian in June 2025
Since Israel struck key Iranian military and nuclear sites on June 13, 2025, and the U.S. joined with B2 missions on June 22, Iran’s single Christians have been living under the shadow of war. Iranian Christians—many practicing underground—now face amplified danger. According to one pastor, Shahrokh Afshar, fears have surged: “hundreds of civilians have died … one church member decided to stay in Tehran … she described a scene of fear and suffering” 1. Difficult Daily Realities Air raids and…
Christian Single Girls Who Date Bad Guys
Most Christian single women and men we surveyed feel that many girls seem to prefer to date “bad guys”. Yup, hands down most single girls (Christians included) would rather date Jack Sparrow, the pirate, than Richie Cunningham, the Happy Days all-around good guy. ? One depressed single Christian guy (I’m assuming he’s a good one) lamented: “I just don’t get it. Here I am, a sensitive, passionate Christian with a caring heart and a good job, but I can’t find…
Fears That Keep Women And Men Single
Many fears keep women and men single and alone. Did you know that fear of being alone and single throughout life is one of the greatest fears of Christian single women and men? Paradoxically, many single women and men who yearn to get married often allow fears and phobias to keep them from entering into a relationship. Furthermore, instead of meeting the love of their lives, they end up battling feelings of loneliness and frustration. So just what are some…
God’s Plan or Your Desire? How to Tell the Difference
We all crave clarity—especially when faced with big life decisions: a new relationship, a career shift, a move across the country, or starting a new chapter altogether. But sometimes, our emotions can cloud our judgment. What feels good might not be God. So, how can we know whether we’re following God’s plan or our own desire? Discerning God’s will doesn’t require mystical insight—it requires spiritual maturity, honest self-reflection, and an intimate relationship with Him. This article will help you evaluate…
How to Pray for the Person God Has for You
Intercession Strategies for Future Love, Rooted in Scripture Praying for the person God has for you is not just an act of hope—it’s an act of faith. Whether you’re waiting for your future spouse, newly dating, or even healing from past relationships, lifting your desires to the Lord in prayer can bring peace, clarity, and purpose. Scripture calls us to trust in God’s timing and sovereignty, even in matters of the heart. In this article, we’ll explore how to pray…
Christian Matchmaking Services: The Pros and Cons
In a world where technology has transformed the way we connect with one another, it’s no surprise that matchmaking services have made their way into the realm of Christian dating. As a single Christian who has explored the world of online dating and matchmaking, I want to share my perspective on the pros and cons of Christian matchmaking services. These platforms promise to help us find a compatible partner who shares our faith and values. But are they really worth…
Top Lies Single Christians Believe That Keep Them Single
For those committed to their faith, the journey to finding love isn’t just about compatibility—it’s also about conviction. Unfortunately, many single Christians unknowingly hold onto false beliefs that sabotage their chances of building meaningful, godly relationships. In this article, we’ll expose the top lies single Christians believe that keep them single, and offer practical, biblical truth to break free from these myths. Whether you’re seeking a spouse, healing from past heartache, or trying to discern God’s timing, this is for…