This category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types singles articles and life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on single men, single women, single Christian parents, single girls, teens, well, I think you get the point. :)
Why yet another singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.
So ifyou are looking for anything singles-related, this category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to singles of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.
Here you will find all types of articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.
Dating as a Christian single can feel like a tightrope walk over a very full baptismal pool. On one hand, there’s the deep desire for companionship and marriage; on the other, a host of creative excuses not to even try. If you’ve ever heard—or used—these excuses, you’re not alone. Let’s unpack them with a wink, a nudge, and a little encouragement. 1. “I’m waiting on the Lord’s timing.” Ah, the gold-standard excuse. While waiting on God’s timing is essential, sometimes…
So, you’ve landed yourself in the precarious position of dating someone “out of your league.” First off, congrats! You’ve achieved what most only dream of: someone so fabulous it makes you question your own fabulousness. But before you let self-doubt creep in or start nervously quoting Jeremiah 29:11 at every date, take a deep breath. You’re not alone, and believe it or not, you’re more than equipped to handle this. Let’s dive into this adventure with humor, faith, and a…
Christian single parents carry significant responsibilities and often face loneliness. Think about it. It can feel overwhelming to manage all the chores, attend to your children’s needs, and find time for personal well-being. In today’s world, single parenthood has become increasingly common, and the journey is seldom smooth. For Christian single parents, the task becomes even more significant as they seek to instill spiritual values while managing life’s challenges singlehandedly. This article will offer essential advice and strategies for Christian…
Ever wonder how to take care of your mental health as a Christian single guy or gal? I’m not about to give you a 10-step routine to add to your ever-growing to-do list (you already have “be a functioning human” on there), but what I do want to chat about is mental health. Yeah, I said it—mental health. The thing we all know is crucial but sometimes feel too busy, too awkward, or too tired to take care of. So,…
Learning how to deal with rejection as a single Christian is very important. If you are a single Christian who recently got dumped, or been told by the other party that they don’t want to date you, this could be very painful. ? In this regard, some people suffer from Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria, which entails having such an intense emotional response to being dissed or criticized, that it brings them close to a mental breakdown. This inevitably makes one feel…
Breaking up is never easy—whether you’re on the receiving end or initiating it yourself. But what if you could spot the signs before the big conversation happens? If you feel like something’s off in your relationship, this humorous and heartfelt guide will help you navigate the red flags, offering wisdom (and a dose of laughter) from a Christian single’s perspective. 1. The Text Messages Start Feeling Like Morse Code Remember when you’d exchange texts like you were each other’s personal…
How to Stop Procrastination as a Christin Single Are you a single Christian wondering to stop procrastination? Let’s be honest: procrastination is the ultimate relationship third wheel. Whether you’re putting off cleaning the kitchen (again), calling your mom back, or even signing up for that Bible study, procrastination can feel like an uninvited guest crashing every party in your life. As a single Christian, it’s easy to fall into the trap of saying, “I’ll get to it tomorrow,” only…
In the hustle and bustle of modern life, single Christians often face a unique set of challenges. One of the most significant concerns isn’t necessarily romance—it’s finances. Polls consistently show that single Christians worry more about money than finding a soulmate. And let’s face it, financial peace can pave the way for a calmer, more focused life. If you’ve ever wondered how to earn extra income or turn your passions into a purposeful venture, starting an online business or ministry…
Life can sometimes feel like a whirlwind of responsibilities, emotions, and uncertainties. For Christian singles, navigating life’s challenges while holding onto faith can be both comforting and complex. A question that often arises is whether Christians—especially those committed to their spiritual walk—can experience something as overwhelming as a nervous breakdown. The answer is simple yet profound: yes, Christians can have nervous breakdowns. Being a believer doesn’t make someone immune to the stresses and strains of life. However, the way faith…
Dating as a Christian in 2025 can feel like navigating a labyrinth with a flashlight that has low batteries. Between the ever-changing dating apps, societal pressures, and the quest to stay faithful to biblical principles, it’s a unique adventure. But fear not—here’s a humorous, warm, and Scripture-backed guide to help you thrive in your Christian dating journey this year. 1. Pray Before You Swipe In 2025, dating apps are still a thing (and yes, even Christians are using them). But…
Wondering how to stop those dumb negative thoughts that are destroying your joy in life as a single person, and wreaking havoc on your relationships? Negative thoughts can feel like an invisible weight pulling you down, stealing your joy, and clouding your perspective. As single Christians, we’re called to live with joy and hope, yet it’s easy to let discouragement and negativity creep into our minds. Whether you’re battling feelings of inadequacy, loneliness, or worry, God’s Word offers powerful tools…
Let’s face it: dating as a Christian single can feel like wandering through a labyrinth where every turn leads to questions like, “Have you prayed about it?” or “When are you getting married?” (Thanks, Aunt Karen.) In a rush to escape singleness and dive into a relationship, it’s easy to miss the warning signs that you might be sprinting when you should be strolling. So, grab your Bible and a cup of coffee (preferably decaf—you’ll need your wits about you),…
Burnout is an increasingly prevalent issue in today’s fast-paced world, affecting people across various life stages and vocations. For Christian singles, the challenges of balancing faith, relationships, work, ministry, and personal goals can lead to unique stressors. This article explores the signs and symptoms of burnout among Christian singles, providing compassionate insights and steps toward healing. What is Burnout? Burnout is a state of emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion caused by prolonged and excessive stress. It often manifests when someone…
Dating in 2025 is already a roller coaster, but throw in the unique dynamics of faith, emotional stability, and the search for compatibility, and you’ve got yourself a thrilling (sometimes terrifying) adventure. It’s essential to approach this with a mix of wisdom, humor, and a solid understanding of what makes someone a good or bad fit—especially when it comes to mental stability. Let’s dive into how you can identify signs of a mentally unstable Christian single, why dating them might…
Ah, the New Year—a time of resolutions, fresh starts, and if you’re single, a moment to maybe eye-roll at the universe for still not sending the one. But hold on, because being single isn’t a curse; it’s a season—a rather noisy, opinionated, yet oddly inspiring season. And what better way to start the year than by letting Scripture whisper sweet truths into your heart? So grab a cozy blanket, your favorite mug of something warm, and let’s dive into 15…
Picture this: you meet someone new, and suddenly the world feels brighter, every love song on the radio seems written for you, and you’re pretty sure the angels are arranging mood lighting just for your grocery-store run. Is this love? Or are we paddling in the much shallower waters of infatuation? For Christian singles, the difference between the two can make or break your journey toward a God-centered relationship. Let’s break this down—laughs, lessons, and maybe a few “aha” moments…