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Christian Single Girls Who Date Bad Guys

Most Christian single women and men we surveyed feel that many girls seem to prefer to date “bad guys”. Yup, hands down most single girls (Christians included) would rather date Jack Sparrow, the pirate, than Richie Cunningham, the Happy Days all-around good guy. One depressed single Christian guy (I’m assuming he’s a good one) lamented: “I just don’t get it. Here I am, a sensitive, passionate Christian with a caring heart and a good job, but I can’t find a…
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What Christian Single Guys Need in a Wife

What do Christian single guys need in a wife? Most Christian single guys are familiar with the proverb: “Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing.” Amen! In fact, this is a main reason why many single Christian guys seek out online Christian Dating Services. Since the beginning of time, it’s been a good deal for a single man to have a wife. Remember, in Genesis the Lord said, “It’s not good for man to be alone. I will make…
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Love-Shy Singles: How to Overcome Shyness

Are you one of those love-shy singles who doesn’t date because you’re timid? Are you single, shy and looking for love? Wish you knew how to overcome shyness? If you do, don’t be bashful about it because you’re in good company. According to Dr. Phillip Zimbardo, a Stanford psychologist, nearly 40% of singles are shy about asking someone out on a date. Love-Shy Singles Description A single person who is shy is often anxious (some have even been diagnosed with…
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Christian Singles Dating Unbelievers

If you are one of the many Christian singles dating unbelievers in a missionary dating sort of way,  save yourself additional troubles by getting out of the dating relationship as soon as possible. At the very least, the vast majority of Christians who date unbelievers or unsaved singles experience loss of sexual purity, loss of fellowship with the Lord and other believers, and heartache. Additionally, all throughout the Bible God warns us for our own protection not to partner (be…
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A Fool in Love? How to Be a More Sensible

Are you a fool in love? Love is patient. Love is kind. Love means never having to say you’re sorry unless you don’t heed the advice you are about to read. Don’t be a fool in love!  My friend David runs this site and I asked him if I could pen (who pens anymore in the age of computers?) an article for his readers. A Fool in Love Advice In my professional life in the court system, I have observed…
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Any Good Books Out There Besides the Good Book?

When you are out there in the dating world, one of the hardest things to do is strike up a conversation with a date. What do you talk about? Is there anything you have in common? If you are a Christian single, you know that you have your love for the Lord and a yearning to find someone to share your walk of life and faith. One topic you might want to talk about is books that you have read…
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How to Deal With Emotional Baggage as Single Christians

Many single Christians walk around wondering how to deal with emotional baggage from failed relationships and other experiences that they have gone through in their lives. When people hear the term “emotional baggage” they also think of “damaged goods.” Since very few singles that I know of want to be in a relationship with someone with emotional baggage, it’s important that singles in this situation learn to make peace with their past if they desire a serious, positive Christian dating…
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Signs of Cheating Girlfriend in a Christian Relationship

Are you searching for signs of cheating girlfriend? Look, whether or not you are in a Christian dating relationship, the signs of cheating are pretty much the same. We already spoke about cheating boyfriends. In the realm of Christian relationships, trust, fidelity, and mutual respect are of paramount importance. The Bible tells us that love “does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth” (1 Corinthians 13:6). As such, the fear of a partner being unfaithful can be deeply…
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Single Again: 12 Tips for Recently Single Christian Women and Men

Single again as a Christian single woman or man? Life can sometimes thrust us into an unfamiliar territory that we never thought we’d tread, such as the loss of a spouse either through death or divorce. Suddenly being single again in such circumstances can feel like an insurmountable challenge, an intense emotional rollercoaster. As a Christian, you’re not alone in this struggle. This article aims to provide a Christ-centered guide to dealing with the reality of being single again, offering…
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Dating a Married Man? Things You Should Know

This article is about why a Christian woman should avoid dating a married man and secondly,  how to spot a dating married man. The sad but true fact according to an MSNBC dating tips survey is that 30% of men using online dating services are married! Surprised by the number of cheating, married rats? Don’t be In fact, whether a single woman meets her date through an online dating service, or at offline places like church or the market down…
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Sexual Feelings of Christian Single Women

The following article, Sexual Feelings of Christian Single Women, was written by a single Christian woman who is also a mental health professional. The writer thought it important that single Christian men, in their fight against lust and quest for sexual purity in dating relationships, understand how the sexual feelings of Christian single women work: I just want to say to all the Christian men who think single Christian women don’t think as much about sex as you do –…
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Christian Singles Dealing With A Broken Heart

Are you a Christian single suffering from a broken heart?  Let’s face it: at one point or another, EVERYBODY gets their heart broken from a lost relationship.  Speaking from personal experience, heartbreak is one of the most bitter and painful experiences one can go through.  Everybody I talk to about it says the same thing.  As painful as it can be, the good news is that a broken heart never lasts forever!  While the healing process takes different amounts of…

Navigating Life’s Storms as a Single Person

As singles, we sometimes think that our lives are in balance and we have things under control. Suddenly, however, we find the rug pulled out from under us. I can finally pay those bills each month that I used to dread. My relationship with my family has been restored. My heart is at peace and I can feel complete without having a partner at my side. Then a large gust of wind comes along and all of the things that…

Christian Singles Groups and Singles

There are Christian singles groups (although not enough) scattered all over the place. Yet, most Christian singles groups are not making a positive impact on the lives of Christian singles Since we believe singles groups have great potential to minister to singles, one of the goals of Christian Dating Service PLUS! is to help connect folks locally with a singles group. Unfortunately, more and more single Christians report that they are simply bypassing the Christian singles group route entirely. Why…

Christian Singles Girls Being Unequally Yoked

The following article on Christian single girls being in an unequally yoked dating relationship comes to us from Tracy: I thank the Lord for this site. After choosing to live in sin for the past two years, the Lord has been merciful and has forgiven me, and filled me with his Holy Spirit once again. I was angry with God for being “alone”, and being a single mother. I rebelled, and decided that I was going to be in an…

Courtship Love or Casual Dating

The casual dating versus courtship love debate rages on in some conservative Christian circles. Ever since Joshua Harris’ bestselling book, I Kissed Dating Goodbye came out, this question has come to the forefront: Should Christian singles interested in the opposite sex practice casual dating or Christian courtship? But let’s pose another question that cuts to the heart of the matter: Which model, casual dating or courtship, has better end results viz-a-viz pre-marital sex, domestic violence, infidelity and divorce rates? Both…
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