Christian Singles Articles

Christian Singles Articles

christian singlesThis category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types singles articles and  life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on single men, single women, single Christian parents, single girls, teens, well, I think you get the point. :)

Christian Singles Resources

No matter if you are a Millennial, Baby Boomer or a Senior Single,   hopefully you will find these singles articles useful. There are dozens of articles to choose from including “Learning How to Argue and Fight“, Christian  Girls Who Date Bad Guys”, “Fears that Keep Men and Women Single“, “How to Mend a Broken Heart” “Masturbation” and many others.

Need for Singles Ministries

Why yet another singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many  singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.

So if you are looking for anything singles-related, this category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to singles of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.

Here you will find all types of articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.

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Signs of a Narcissist Christian Boyfriend

Signs of a Narcissist Boyfriend: A Christian Single’s Guide

I wish all Christian singles were able to recognize the signs of a narcissist boyfriend or girlfriend. They would have saved themselves so much pain if they could have avoided such people.  in the journey of Christian dating, it’s crucial to recognize traits that align with Christ’s teachings of love, humility, and respect. Unfortunately, in today’s dating world, it’s not uncommon to encounter individuals who exhibit narcissistic tendencies, which starkly contrast these values. Understanding what narcissism is and recognizing the…
long term singleness

Dealing with Long-Term Singleness as a Christian Single

Singleness can be a challenging season, particularly when it extends over a long period. For many Christian singles, this time can feel like an extended waiting room—a period of self-discovery, spiritual growth, and profound personal development. However, it can also be a season of loneliness, self-doubt, and societal pressure. In this comprehensive guide, we will explore practical and faith-based strategies to navigate the complexities of long-term singleness while staying rooted in your Christian values. 1. Understanding the Purpose Behind Singleness…
Valentines Day and Christian Singles

A Christian Single’s Guide to Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day, a celebration often associated with romantic love, can evoke a mix of emotions for Christian singles. In a world where this day is heavily commercialized and often centered around couples, it can be challenging to navigate for those who are single. However, this day also presents a unique opportunity for Christian singles to reflect on their personal journey, embrace their faith, and find joy and fulfillment living single in unexpected ways. Understanding the Emotions of Valentine’s Day For…
learning how to argue and fight

Learning How to Argue and Fight

Learning how to argue and fight is the best dating tip we could give Christian singles. That may sound like whacky dating advice unless you know that the top reason both dating and married couples break up is a lack of communication in the area of conflict-resolution. ? This is very important, so let me reiterate this dating advice a different way: Learning how to fight and argue successfully is the best way to a lasting and happy dating and/or…
first date do's and dont's

First Date Do’s and Don’t’s

Need a brush up on First date do’s and don’t’s? Going on your first date with someone you met though one of the online dating services like eHarmony can be fun and exciting, but also a little scary. Let’s face it, the primary purpose of a first date is to assess whether there is enough chemistry to spend even more time together. There are a number of first-date “do’s and don’t’s” questions to consider: What will we do on our…
Excuses Christian singles make for not dating

Excuses, Excuses: 15 Reasons Christian Singles Dodge Dating 

Dating as a Christian single can feel like a tightrope walk over a very full baptismal pool. On one hand, there’s the deep desire for companionship and marriage; on the other, a host of creative excuses not to even try. If you’ve ever heard—or used—these excuses, you’re not alone. Let’s unpack them with a wink, a nudge, and a little encouragement. 1. “I’m waiting on the Lord’s timing.” Ah, the gold-standard excuse. While waiting on God’s timing is essential, sometimes…

How to Date Someone “Out of Your League”

So, you’ve landed yourself in the precarious position of dating someone “out of your league.” First off, congrats! You’ve achieved what most only dream of: someone so fabulous it makes you question your own fabulousness. But before you let self-doubt creep in or start nervously quoting Jeremiah 29:11 at every date, take a deep breath. You’re not alone, and believe it or not, you’re more than equipped to handle this. Let’s dive into this adventure with humor, faith, and a…
christian single parents

Christian Single Parents | Single Christian Parents

Christian single parents carry significant responsibilities and often face loneliness. Think about it. It can feel overwhelming to manage all the chores, attend to your children’s needs, and find time for personal well-being. In today’s world, single parenthood has become increasingly common, and the journey is seldom smooth. For Christian single parents, the task becomes even more significant as they seek to instill spiritual values while managing life’s challenges singlehandedly. This article will offer essential advice and strategies for Christian…
How to Take Care of Your Mental Health

How to Take Care of Your Mental Health as a Christian Single

Ever wonder how to take care of your mental health as a Christian single guy or gal? I’m not about to give you a 10-step routine to add to your ever-growing to-do list (you already have “be a functioning human” on there), but what I do want to chat about is mental health. Yeah, I said it—mental health. The thing we all know is crucial but sometimes feel too busy, too awkward, or too tired to take care of. So,…
dealing with rejection as a single christian

How to Deal with Rejection as a Single Christian

Learning how to deal with rejection as a single Christian is very important. If you are a single Christian who recently got dumped, or been told by the other party that they don’t want to date you, this could be very painful. ? In this regard, some people suffer from  Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria, which entails having such an intense emotional response to being dissed or criticized, that it brings them close to a mental breakdown. This inevitably makes one feel…
Signs your boyfriend or girlfriend is going to breakup with you

7 Signs Your Boyfriend or Girlfriend Is About to Break Up with You

Breaking up is never easy—whether you’re on the receiving end or initiating it yourself. But what if you could spot the signs before the big conversation happens? If you feel like something’s off in your relationship, this humorous and heartfelt guide will help you navigate the red flags, offering wisdom (and a dose of laughter) from a Christian single’s perspective. 1. The Text Messages Start Feeling Like Morse Code Remember when you’d exchange texts like you were each other’s personal…
How to Stop Procrastination as a Christin Single

How to Stop Procrastination as a Single Christian@

  How to Stop Procrastination as a Christin Single Are you a single Christian wondering to stop procrastination? Let’s be honest: procrastination is the ultimate relationship third wheel. Whether you’re putting off cleaning the kitchen (again), calling your mom back, or even signing up for that Bible study, procrastination can feel like an uninvited guest crashing every party in your life. As a single Christian, it’s easy to fall into the trap of saying, “I’ll get to it tomorrow,” only…
How to start an online business

How to Start an Online Business as a Christian Single

In the hustle and bustle of modern life, single Christians often face a unique set of challenges. One of the most significant concerns isn’t necessarily romance—it’s finances. Polls consistently show that single Christians worry more about money than finding a soulmate. And let’s face it, financial peace can pave the way for a calmer, more focused life. If you’ve ever wondered how to earn extra income or turn your passions into a purposeful venture, starting an online business or ministry…
Nervous Breakdown and Christian Singles

Can Christians Have Nervous Breakdowns?

Life can sometimes feel like a whirlwind of responsibilities, emotions, and uncertainties. For Christian singles, navigating life’s challenges while holding onto faith can be both comforting and complex. A question that often arises is whether Christians—especially those committed to their spiritual walk—can experience something as overwhelming as a nervous breakdown. The answer is simple yet profound: yes, Christians can have nervous breakdowns. Being a believer doesn’t make someone immune to the stresses and strains of life. However, the way faith…
Christian dating couple

10 Ways to Improve Your Christian Dating Life in 2025

Dating as a Christian in 2025 can feel like navigating a labyrinth with a flashlight that has low batteries. Between the ever-changing dating apps, societal pressures, and the quest to stay faithful to biblical principles, it’s a unique adventure. But fear not—here’s a humorous, warm, and Scripture-backed guide to help you thrive in your Christian dating journey this year. 1. Pray Before You Swipe In 2025, dating apps are still a thing (and yes, even Christians are using them). But…
How to to stop negative thinking

How to Stop Thinking Negative Thoughts

Wondering how to stop those dumb negative thoughts that are destroying your joy in life as a single person, and wreaking havoc on your relationships? Negative thoughts can feel like an invisible weight pulling you down, stealing your joy, and clouding your perspective. As single Christians, we’re called to live with joy and hope, yet it’s easy to let discouragement and negativity creep into our minds. Whether you’re battling feelings of inadequacy, loneliness, or worry, God’s Word offers powerful tools…