This category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types singles articles and life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on single men, single women, single Christian parents, single girls, teens, well, I think you get the point. :)
Why yet another singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.
So ifyou are looking for anything singles-related, this category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to singles of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.
Here you will find all types of articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.
Are you a single Christian in an abusive dating relationship? In 2024, Christian abusive dating relationships are not uncommon among dating single Christians. Some singles have been in an abusive relationship, and know the pain that goes with it. Sadly, other single Christians reading this article right now are presently in an abusive relationship, but may not realize it or be in denial over it. While in the rest of this article, we will designate the victim as a “she”,…
The top 10 signs of a failing relationship? Would you be able to the the signs your relationship is failing? As a pastor and previous court mediator, I’ve literally dealt with hundreds of couples in failing relationships. As a Christian single guy or girl, it’s important to know these signs, so that you can either rectify the situation or get out of that relationship to avoid the coming pain. In the world of Christian dating, recognizing the signs of a…
Cheating Boyfriends. Do you have a CB, a cheating boyfriend? And while we’re on this uncomfortable topic of cheating boyfriends, just how prevalent do you think cheating is? Well, according to the National Opinion Research Center at the University of Chicago, 22% of girlfriends have cheating boyfriends. Okay, I know at least one sex who’s dying to know this. The good news is that only 12% of boyfriends have a girlfriend who’s a cheater. We’ll talk about that at another time…
As a Single Christian man or woman, are you curious about how to prepare for marriage? The process of preparing for marriage can be a mix of excitement and nervousness. As someone who’s been in your shoes, I totally get it! In this article, we’ll explore some practical tips to help you get ready for the adventure of a lifetime. How to get prepared for marriage Steps Know Your Identity Before you can share your life with someone else, it’s…
“I don’t like them! I’m never going to like them!” That exchange might be what your child says and what you think after you’ve tried to introduce them to your new significant other. If you’ve already introduced them and it hasn’t gone well, you can’t put the genie back in the bottle, so this article is more for when you are considering introducing the new person at all. is the timing Right How long has it been since you were…
Do you know a sign a good Christian guy likes you? The journey of discovering whether someone holds special feelings for you can be both exciting and nerve-wracking. Amid the modern dating landscape with its nuances and complexities, Christian singles might often wonder: What are the signs that a guy is genuinely interested? While signs of attraction can vary widely, let’s dive deep into deciphering these signs with an emphasis on Christian values. 1. He Respects Your Boundaries Christian dating…
When embarking on a new relationship, especially as a Christian single, dating someone with kids presents a unique set of experiences that can enrich your life in unexpected ways. It’s a journey that requires compassion, understanding, and a heart open to the blessings and challenges that come with it. Here’s a warm, personal look at what you can expect when you find yourself in this beautifully complex situation. Entering a Ready-Made Family Dating someone with children means that you’re not…
The age-old question: Should I confess to my crush? It’s a situation many of us have faced, and the answer often varies based on personal circumstances and beliefs. For the Christian single person, the answer may be further influenced by biblical teachings, personal convictions, and the importance of faith in decision-making. Let’s dive into the considerations of confessing feelings to a crush from a Christian perspective. Understanding Love and Emotion First, it’s important to understand that having a crush or…
Whether Christian or not, some have asked us, “Is dating allowed during marriage separation?” Or “Is dating during separation adultery?” Of course, I always tell them it’s none of my business. However, I also realize the issue of dating during a marriage separation is a hot-button issue, and so needs to be talked about in the church in an honest, biblical, and open way. As both a family court mediator and minister, I’m just gonna shoot from the heart and…
I get a lot of emails asking questions like: “How do I make my Christian dating relationship last? When you’re dating in the Christian single scene with marriage as the goal, you’re essentially trying to find someone who’s not just your better half but your better three-quarters. It’s about finding that partner with whom you can not only share your favorite Bible verses but also your Wi-Fi password. So, how do you make a relationship last in such a setting?…
Looking for a humble Christian single man? Finding a genuine, down-to-earth partner can feel like searching for a needle in a haystack. For those in the Christian community, this search often focuses not just on mutual interests or physical attractions, but on deeper, spiritual qualities like humility. A humble Christian single man can be a rare gem—quietly impressive and rich in the fruits of the Spirit. 1. He’s Modest About His Achievements A humble Christian man doesn’t trumpet his own…
I have a problem dealing with jealousy. I admit it. when I saw my friends getting married, I felt a weird mix of emotions, including happiness for them but also jealousy. I hated feeling this way and made me feel guilty. Can any of you identify? Understanding and navigating these feelings of jealousy from a Christian perspective is essential for maintaining peace of mind and spiritual growth. how to Deal with Jealousy as a Christian Single When Friends Are Getting…
Learning how to tell someone you don’t want to date them without hurting them is a tough order. This is especially true within the Christian singles community where values and intentions often take a front seat. If you find yourself in a situation where you need to communicate that you’re not interested in dating someone, doing so with kindness and honesty is crucial. Here’s a comprehensive guide on how to gently break the news without causing undue hurt, all while…
Divorce can be a deeply challenging experience, especially for individuals within the Christian community where marriage is often viewed as a lifelong commitment. For Christian singles who are navigating the waters of divorce, the journey can feel isolating and fraught with emotional and spiritual turmoil. However, this period also presents an opportunity for personal growth, renewed faith, and a deeper understanding of one’s path. This article offers practical advice for divorced Christian singles, providing strategies to heal, rebuild, and thrive…
Wondering how to deal with a Christian single Break Up? Dealing with a relationship breakup can be an incredibly challenging experience, especially for Christian singles who often view relationships through the lens of faith and long-term commitment. In this article, we’ll explore practical and faith-based strategies for navigating the emotional landscape of a post-breakup period. How to Deal with a Christian Relationship Breakup In Christian dating, there’s often a strong emphasis on seeking a lifelong partner and maintaining sexual purity…
Whether you’re waiting for that special someone or currently in a relationship, understanding and addressing common relationship problems faced by Christian singles can lead to healthier and more fulfilling interactions. Let’s delve into some prevalent relationship problems faced by Christian singles and explore how scriptural insights can offer guidance and comfort. 1. Finding Someone with Similar Values One of the foremost challenges Christian singles face is finding a partner who shares a similar depth of faith and values. In a…