This category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types singles articles and life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on single men, single women, single Christian parents, single girls, teens, well, I think you get the point. :)
Why yet another singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.
So ifyou are looking for anything singles-related, this category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to singles of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.
Here you will find all types of articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.
Looking to find your love of a lifetime?You meet someone and may wonder: Is this the One? How quickly do you decide if this is the one? Imagine you are sitting in church and every Sunday he smiles at you. He never speaks, but he smiles every Sunday. Do you start imagining a two-car garage for matching mini-vans? Or the assistant manager at work keeps pausing at your desk to discuss the coffee flavors in the break room. Are you…
A lot of single Christian articles out there write about how to attract single guys. However, sometimes learning how not to attract a single guy can also be useful finding the right kind of person. Let’s explain. How Not to Attract a Single Guy Advice Single guys are a different breed compared to single girls. Many girls may try to attract guys by acting a certain way around them. Don’t do it girls! The fact is this may turn them…
Dating after a breakup of a serious relationship can be tricky experience for any single, Christian or not. Self esteem issues, rejection and the ever lurking possibility of a rebound relationships are things singles need to be cognizant of after reentering the the dating world after a breakup. Do you think you are ready for dating after a breakup? Most experts in the field suggest daters wait at least a year after you break up, whether you’re thinking about dating…
I’ve been ministering to Christian singles for a number of years, and have heard quite a number of complaints from singles over, well, being single. Top 5 Christian Singles Complaints The following Christian Singles complaints were compiled through a worldwide survey of 1000 singles conducted by Christian Dating Service Plus: 1. Churches look down on singles, and cater mostly to married people. 2. Difficulty finding Christian singles who are normal and available in the local area. 3. Nagging relatives who…
Only a few years ago, using an online Christian dating service was in large part taboo with Christian Singles. To be fair, it wasn’t just single Christians who thought using a Christian dating service or online dating site was a kooky or even sleazy thing to try. For example, a 2017 poll revealed that less than 5% of singles in the U.S. and abroad would even consider using a dating site or chatroom. Today, over 60% of singles have either…
Many Christian singles are interested in using an online Christian dating site like eHarmony, but are unsure of how or where to start. Other singles have tried online Christian dating, but are looking for some dating advice on how to improve their internet dating experiences. The following step by step online dating guide will help single Christians through the online Christian dating maze. Of course, we’re assuming that you’ve already gone to the Lord in prayer over this issue. Online…
Porn use among Christians is pretty much out of control. Some of you may even have been tempted to drop by a porn site before coming here. Hey, we’re glad you made it! So what’s the big deal about using porn? In our featured church podcast of the week from Church @ the Springs in Ocala, Florida (FL), Pastor Joe Lacognata speaks on the negative effects soft and hard porn has on romance and singles in dating relationships. Porn Help…
John Milton said loneliness is the first thing called called “not good.” We read in Genesis 2:18 that God said it was not good for man to be alone. But today loneliness is a “social pain” that chronically inflicts more than 60 million Americans, whether they are single or married. Many single Christians feel loneliness is a social ill just for singles. Not true. Loneliness, the experts tell us in not necessarily about being alone, but rather about being disconnected…
Are you a single Christian who is constantly breaking up because of relationship fights you are having with your dates? Are you a married person with the frequent stress of bickering and fighting with your spouse, who was once your soulmate? Well we have some great news. Relationship Fighting & Arguing Tips In today’s Christian podcast at Oasis-Church-NJ.com, Pastor Dave offered some biblical and practical suggestions on how to deal with fighting and conflicts in dating and marriage relationships. Enjoy!…
Many single Christians go around with guilt and shame over their past. In fact , we have already written an article regarding the issue of how to make peace with your past a few years ago. It’s really sad that many singles have problems conquering the sting of past relationship failures, abusive and just plain old bad memories Conquering Your Past Podcast If you are one of those people who still have problems getting over your past, the following Oasis-Church-NJ.com…
Dating tips are welcomed by most Christian singles, whether they are new to the dating scene, or just looking to find additional dating advice and assistance. Afterall, how many of us are dating tips experts with no need for learning anything more about the opposite sex and dating? Although there are tons of dating tips and articles out there, we sifted through the most relevant from a single Christian perspective. The following is sort of a Christian dating tip checklist…
Several Christian singles have emailed us about ChristianLifestyle.com. Started by First Beat Media, Christian Lifestyle is a relatively new dating site that’s totally free to use for now. ChristianLifestyle.com Features Christian Lifestyle has all the basic features of most of the other sites. The first thing you need to do once you sign up for free at Christian Lifestyle is to fill out your profile, where you can post up to five photos. On the site You can send “flirts”…
As single Christians in this world, we can all use a good Christian sex talk from time time time. Why? Because temptation toward sexual impurity is always knocking at the door. Christian Sex Talk Podcast This week’s Church podcast on the subject of Christian sex comes from the Vineyard Christian Church of Evanston, Illinois. Pastor Steve Nicholoson’s Christian sex talk centers on the top 5 costs of sex without commitment. Although some of us may be thinking we’ve heard it all…
Each year we list the best Christian dating sites on the web based on the views of our readers. Since we get over 100,000 guests per month, we feel this “best Christian dating sites” survey from our singles is an accurate indication of the best Christian dating sites out there. The best Christian dating sites were ranked according to the following: Database size User satisfaction on a scale of 1 to 5 Best Christian Dating Sites for 2017 eHarmony ChristianMingle…
I often times get asked the question: “Is it ok for me to date somebody if they are not a Christian?” Recently, I had a young woman come to me and ask for advice about a guy that she recently met and was into. She wanted to know my thoughts on the situation and whether or not it was a good idea to date. This guy wasn’t a Christian, but according to her, he was a great guy and they…
For those of you who do not know, Christian Cafe has now merged with Single Christian Network, one of the oldest Christian single dating services on the web. After several months of observing how Christian Cafe dating service has handled this, I feel Christian singles will now be benefited by this merger. Christian Cafe Dating Service Now Has More Members While I originally trashed Single Christian Network (SingleC) in one of our Christian dating service reviews, looks like I’m gonna…