This category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types singles articles and life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on single men, single women, single Christian parents, single girls, teens, well, I think you get the point. :)
Why yet another singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.
So ifyou are looking for anything singles-related, this category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to singles of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.
Here you will find all types of articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.
Picture this: you meet someone new, and suddenly the world feels brighter, every love song on the radio seems written for you, and you’re pretty sure the angels are arranging mood lighting just for your grocery-store run. Is this love? Or are we paddling in the much shallower waters of infatuation? For Christian singles, the difference between the two can make or break your journey toward a God-centered relationship. Let’s break this down—laughs, lessons, and maybe a few “aha” moments…
“Will I ever find love?” It’s a question that carries a weight of longing, hope, and maybe just a sprinkle of frustration (or a vat, depending on the day). If you’re a single Christian woman over 30, this question might feel as persistent as that one aunt at family gatherings who keeps asking, “So, when’s the wedding?” First off, let me just say: You are not alone. Whether you’re feeling hopeful or downright exasperated, this journey is shared by many.…
Being a single dad is a bit like starring in your own reality show—complete with the chaos, triumphs, and plenty of snack-time drama. Add to that the desire to raise your kids with biblical principles, and you’ve got a role that requires faith, patience, and a sense of humor sharper than a toddler’s “why” phase. Let’s unpack the joys and challenges of being a single Christian dad, with some laughs along the way, because, let’s face it, we all need…
Christian dating isn’t exactly known for being stress-free; add FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) to the mix, and it’s a recipe for sleepless nights and endless “Why am I still single?” monologues. It’s easy to feel like everyone else is finding the perfect partner (preferably someone with a deep knowledge of the Bible and excellent barista skills) while you’re on a perpetual quest for “the one.” But take heart! With a humorous and warm approach, we’re diving into practical steps…
Have you made your New Year’s resolutions yet? —You know, that yearly ritual where we promise to eat fewer carbs, exercise more, and suddenly become a morning persona? For Christian singles, however, the new year is more than a chance to start fresh; it’s an opportunity to realign our lives with God’s purpose, grow spiritually, and maybe, just maybe, find the humor in navigating singlehood in 2025. If you’re a Christian single wondering how to make 2025 your best year…
When someone invites you, a single Christian, to a marriage seminar, your first reaction might be, “Why would I go to that? I don’t even have a spouse to bring!” But before you politely decline (or pretend you didn’t see the email), let’s talk about why attending a marriage seminar as a single person might just be one of the smartest moves you make. In fact, it’s downright biblical. Proverbs 24:27 says, “Prepare your work outside; get everything ready for…
So, you’re a single Christian trying to stay holy while navigating a world that seems determined to throw temptation at you from every direction. It’s like walking through a dessert buffet when you’re on a strict diet. Except instead of desserts, it’s a never-ending stream of, well… you get the idea. Fear not, friend. This guide is here to help you keep your focus on God while keeping your sense of humor intact. Let’s dive into some practical, warm, and…
Have you ever pondered whether God has a special someone set aside just for you? It’s a question as old as time—and as modern as swiping left on your favorite dating app. Let’s explore this theological quandary with a dash of humor, a heap of warmth, and a foundation in biblical advice. Ready to find out if your love life is preordained by divine matchmaking? Let’s go! 1. The “Soulmate Theory”: Romantic or Mythical? Many Christians—and rom-com enthusiasts—believe that God…
A lot of singles write me wondering how to deal with sadness. I understand. It doesn’t always feel comforting when you’re alone on a Saturday night with nothing but a tub of ice cream and your thoughts. And when the holiday season rolls around? Oh boy, bring on the awkward family gatherings and unsolicited questions about your love life. But here’s the good news: sadness is not your permanent roommate. With a little faith, humor, and practical action, you can…
For many, Christmas is a season of joy and family gatherings. However, being alone at Christmas this time of year can often amplify Christmas Blues feelings loneliness and isolation, especially when family or a significant other is not present. Yet, this season also presents an opportunity for spiritual growth and personal reflection. This article explores the challenges of being alone during Christmas and offers heartfelt, scripture-based advice on how to find peace and joy during this time. Understanding the Challenges…
It’s Saturday night. You’re a single guy with a bowl of popcorn in one hand and the remote in the other. Suddenly, a ping lights up your phone. It’s a message from her. You know who I’m talking about: the girl who seems to float three inches off the ground, speaks fluent charity work, and looks like an angel escaped from a Pinterest board. She’s perfect—or is she? Before you dive headlong into cloud nine, let’s have a little chat.…
Ah, relationships. The beautiful, messy, and sometimes utterly bewildering dance of love. Whether you’re single, dating, or just trying to figure out if “God’s timing” means this year or next decade, the Bible has a lot to say about love, relationships, and navigating those butterflies in your stomach. Let’s dive into the Word, because—spoiler alert—God is the ultimate matchmaker, and He has some pretty solid advice! Bible Verses about Relationships with Boyfriend or Girlfriend 1. The Foundation: Love is Patient…
Dating is exciting—full of possibility, growth, and laughter. But let’s be real: sometimes, relationships feel less like teamwork and more like running a solo marathon. If you’re a Christian single seeking a partnership that glorifies God, the stakes are even higher. So how do you know if you’re walking the dating road alone? Let’s break it down with a little humor, practical wisdom, and biblical truth. Here are 10 signs your relationship might be one-sided—and what you can do about…
Wondering how to prioritize tasks and your life? Being a single Christian in today’s fast-paced world is no walk in the park. Between juggling work, church commitments, relationships, and the occasional Netflix binge, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. But don’t worry! With a little humor, a dash of faith, and a lot of practical wisdom, you can master the art of prioritizing tasks while staying grounded in God’s plan for your life. Let’s dive in! How to Prioritize Tasks 1.…
Let’s face it, love is complicated enough without adding attachment theory into the mix. But when you find yourself head over heels for someone with a dismissive-avoidant attachment style—and they’re also a devoted Christian—you’re entering a unique adventure. Don’t worry, you’ve got God on your side (and me, your trusty cheerleader). Here’s how to navigate this path with humor, patience, and a sprinkle of divine grace What is Dismissive-Avoidant Attachment? For the uninitiated, dismissive-avoidant attachment is like the emotional equivalent…
Being a Christian single trying to discern God’s voice can feel like trying to hear a whisper in a rock concert. Between the noise of everyday life, unsolicited advice from well-meaning friends, and your own inner doubts, tuning into God’s voice may seem like an impossible task. But fear not! This warm (and slightly humorous) guide is here to help. Why Hearing from God is Crucial Let’s face it: life is already full of choices—do you want oat milk or…