This category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types singles articles and life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on single men, single women, single Christian parents, single girls, teens, well, I think you get the point. :)
Why yet another singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.
So ifyou are looking for anything singles related, this category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to single of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.
Here you will find all types articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.
Learning how to deal with disappointment in life is one of the most important life skills to acquire. In the journey of Christian singleness, navigating the waters of disappointment can often feel like a daunting task. The longing for companionship, the pressures of societal expectations, and the silent battles with loneliness can lead to profound moments of disappointment. However, within the Christian faith lies a reservoir of strength, hope, and joy that can transform these moments into opportunities for growth…
I get a lot of mail from 40 Something Christian singles bemoaning how difficult it is at this age. As a 64 year old dude, I don’t really feel sorry for them. in truth, life as a 40 something Christian single can sometimes feel like a unique adventure with its own set of challenges and joys. Here are a few common struggles many in this group might face: Top Struggles of 40 something christian singles Social Expectations: Society often…
Recently someone wrote to me questioning whether introverts and extroverts can successfully date each other. Whether you’re an introvert who loves quiet nights in or an extrovert who thrives on social gatherings, dating someone with a different personality type can be a fun and rewarding experience. It might seem like a challenge at first, but with a little understanding and compromise, introverts and extroverts can create a beautiful, balanced relationship. Here are seven top tips to help you navigate the…
Hey there, fellow Gen X Christian singles! If you’re in your 40s or 50s and feeling a bit overwhelmed by the dating scene, you’re not alone. Many of us are juggling careers, family responsibilities, and personal faith journeys while trying to find that special someone. Let’s dive into some of the top worries we face and how to tackle them with faith, hope, and a good dose of humor. Balancing Faith and Modern Dating One of the biggest concerns for…
Do opposites attract in Christian dating relationships? The adage, “opposites attract,” is a sentiment that has stood the test of time, captivating the hearts and minds of many for generations. Within the realm of Christian dating, this idea often stirs much discussion and contemplation. By God’s intricate design, each individual is unique, bearing distinctive qualities, interests, and values. But does this mean that those with dissimilar characteristics are better suited for romantic relationships? Let’s delve deep into the world of…
Do you have Christian singles secrets bottled up in your heart? Many Christian singles walk around with the burden of carrying personal secrets bottled up deep in their hearts. Whether the secrets are unconfessed sexual sins, painful memories, regrets, shame-filled experiences, or totally whacked-out thoughts, God did not design us to deal with such raw issues by ourselves. From the Garden, the Lord created mankind for intimate fellowship with no room for secrets. Adam’s hiding from God after eating the…
Hey there! I want to chat with you about something that often confuses many people: the difference between solo parenting and single parenting. These terms may seem interchangeable, but they hold distinct meanings and experiences. As a fellow Christian single parent, who has had my ups and downs, I know the journey we walk as single parents is filled with unique challenges, yet some beautiful rewards. Defining Solo Parenting vs Single Parenting First things first, let’s get our definitions straight:…
One of the most difficult things is telling someone you no longer have feelings for them. However, honesty and compassion are crucial in such situations. I personally have been on the losing of this proposition, and I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. I really believe the following points are offered with sensitivity, rooted in Christian values, to ensure both you and the other person can find peace and understanding. Understanding the Importance of Honesty Honesty is a cornerstone…
Any Christian Single Women looking for some Christian dating advice? Did you know that 66% of the tens of thousands of visitors to this site each week are single Christian women looking for Christian dating advice? Therefore, I got the idea that I should put together some of our top articles for Christian single women and put them right here. Dating can be an exciting but sometimes challenging journey for Christian single women. Navigating the modern dating scene while staying…
Let me make a confession here. I’m married. I’m a (gasp!) senior citizen about to turn freakin’ 65 in July, and I HATE growing old, although I realize it beats the alternative. 🙂 However, the pitfalls of growing old as a single Christian Baby Boomer come with its own set of issues that I’d like to hit on here. Growing old is a journey marked by twists and turns, highs and lows. So, let’s delve into the heartfelt exploration of…
Christian single parents carry significant responsibilities and often face loneliness. Think about it. It can feel overwhelming to manage all the chores, attend to your children’s needs, and find time for personal well-being. In today’s world, single parenthood has become increasingly common, and the journey is seldom smooth. For Christian single parents, the task becomes even more significant as they seek to instill spiritual values while managing life’s challenges singlehandedly. This article will offer essential advice and strategies for Christian…
Learning how to deal with rejection as a single Christian is very important. If you are a single Christian who recently got dumped, or been told by the other party that they don’t want to date you, this could be very painful. Dealing with feelings of rejection can be very difficult! In a previous article, we already mentioned how difficult it is getting over with unrequited love. Rejection is an inevitable part of life. As a single Christian guy or…
Wondering how to stop being a people pleaser? In the journey of Christian dating, singles often face the challenge of balancing their own desires with the expectations of others. The inclination to please people can be deeply ingrained, especially within the context of relationships. However, for a fulfilling and authentic connection, it’s essential to recognize and overcome this tendency. This article will explore the concept of people pleasing in Christian dating and provide ten practical steps for singles to cultivate…
How do you attract the right person to date? Some single Christians have no problems attracting people to date. However, attracting the right man or woman to date is often a separate issue. By the right man or woman to date, we mean that special person with whom you may wish to spend the rest of your life. Your soul mate. Since you only marry a man or woman you date, it’s important to get it right. Right? There are several…
What do Christian single girls look for in a single Christian guy when contemplating a soulmate or marriage partner? What qualities make a good guy catch? This question always seems to percolate in any singles groups I have ever attended or led. We found some online surveys about girls (ages 18-70) you may find quite interesting. Christian Single Women and Men Okay guys, so you’re no babe magnet? Don’t worry about it because the good news here is that…
Woohoo! You made it to the second date because you didn’t blow it on the first date. So just what would constitute a successful second date? The following second date tips come from several folks who have been there. Your first date is really to see if you would like to keep seeing that person. Your second date is the time when the two of you start to open up and reveal your self to the other person. On the…