Christian Singles Articles (Page 3)
This category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types singles articles and life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on single men, single women, single Christian parents, single girls, teens, well, I think you get the point. :)
Christian Singles Resources
No matter if you are a Millennial, Baby Boomer or a Senior Single, hopefully you will find these singles articles useful. There are dozens of articles to choose from including “Learning How ti Argue and Fight“, Christian Girls Who Date Bad Guys”, “Fears that Keep Men and Women Single“, “How to Mend a Broken Heart” and many others.
Need for Singles Ministries
Why yet another singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.
So if you are looking for anything singles related, this category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to single of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.
Here you will find all types articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.
Kissing A Christian Dating Service Hello
Only a few years ago, using an online Christian dating service was in large part taboo with Christian Singles. To be fair, it wasn’t just single Christians who thought using a Christian dating service or online dating site was a kooky or even sleazy thing to try. For example, a 2017 poll revealed that less than 5% of singles in the U.S. and abroad would even consider using a dating site or chatroom. Today, over 60% of singles have either…
Gain Self Confidence for Dating
Do you need to gain self confidence for asking someone out on a date? Some have lost that “confident dating” edge because they have just suffered through a failed long term relationship, and wonder if it’s worth the risk of getting heart broken or hurt again. Instead of approaching dating with a confident and expectant outlook as they wait on God, they approach relationship possibilities with fear and anxiety. Whatever your reason for a need to gain self confidence, remember…
Christian Dating Truths
Christian dating can be both wonderful and frustrating at the same time. There are so many different voices out there expounding their beliefs about Christian dating. Some of the voices out there are asking questions like: “Should we choose courtship over Christian dating?” “What are the signs of a good Christian dating relationship?” “If I can’t find a date through friends and church, how would I go about trying out a Christian dating service?” Christian Dating Teaching So what are…
Signs of Cheating in a Relationship
The following is not really about signs of cheating in a relationship, but rather the story of one of our Christian single women readers sharing her heartbreak on finding signs of cheating in her relationship. She also offers some some relationship advice when you find signs of cheating in a relationship. Hi All: My name is Ashley, and I would just like to share a glimpse of my story to encourage you all. I am 20 (married at 19) to…
Christian Singles Ministry Outreach
One of the goals of this Christian Singles Ministry is to connect single Christians with local churches, Christian singles groups or para-church organizations in their local area. Why? At Christian Dating Service PLUS! We believe fellowship with other Christians through a Christian singles ministry is essential for spiritual growth. Many single Christians have contacted us looking for a good ministry to plug into, because they have had trouble locating one. We know there are many great Christian singles ministries out…
Meet Christian Singles
Many singles want to meet Christian singles of the opposite sex for a relationship leading toward marriage. In fact several have written us for advice on how they can meet Christian singles in their own local area. There is one point I’d like to share before talking about how singles are more likely to meet single Christians worth dating: In order to meet the right Christian single for yourself, you need to get your own house in order. Yeah, I…
Christian Singles Girls Being Unequally Yoked
The following article on Christian single girls being in an unequally yoked dating relationship comes to us from Tracy: I thank the Lord for this site. After choosing to live in sin for the past two years, the Lord has been merciful and has forgiven me, and filled me with his Holy Spirit once again. I was angry with God for being “alone”, and being a single mother. I rebelled, and decided that I was going to be in an…
Do Not Be Unequally Yoked!
Do you believe in the saying, “Do not be unequally yoked?” The following is the story of a single Christian teenager who is struggling with the Scriptures and being unequally yoked: I broke up with my boyfriend who is a unbeliever and I’m trying to tell myself that I did the right thing, but honestly I still have hope for our relationship. I’m having a hard time to see that it can’t work out. In 2 Corinthians 6:14-16, it says…
Valentines Day Gifts for Boyfriend
Looking for some Valentines Day gifts for your boyfriend? Since Valentines Day is right around the corner you may want to start thinking about what useful Valentines Day gift to give to your boyfriend. If you have no idea (and most of us don’t, the following list of top Valentines Day gifts for Boyfriends may help. Top Seven Valentines Day Gifts for Him Get him a Tshirt or a Hoodie. You can make your own iron-on design, order one online,…
Christian Dating Agency Questions
If you are considering using a Christian dating agency or Christian dating site, you may benefit by going over some of the questions we listed below. We are assuming you are a dedicated Christian single who is using a Christian dating dervice in order to find a serious dating relationship. The following checklist will assist you in weeding out the less desirable Christian dating agencies. Christian Dating Agency Checklist Is the Christian Dating Agency in line with your morals? For…
True Love Signs-How to Tell if it’s True Love or Lust
Is is true love signs or simple physical attraction and lust? What are true love signs for Christian singles dating? How do you know you’ve found your “true love” of a life time? Whether your relationship began in person or online thru a site like Eharmony this article may help Top True Love Signs ? The following true love prerequisites will help you gauge whether or not this person is “the one”: True Love: The relationship causes both parties to…
Rebound Relationships Dating Advice
What exactly is a rebound relationship or dating on the rebound? Rebound relationship dating is an intense dating relationship that begins very soon after a long-term relationship goes south. As one experienced single person described it: “A rebound relationship is kinda like jumping from one moving train to another. There’s no time for thinking about what you are about to do. Rebound dating is both exciting and dangerous at the same time.” Now that sounds intense! The fact is, rebound…
Marriage Builder Tips For Healthy Relationships
As single Christians, knowing marriage builder tips while dating will lay the foundation toward a healthy marriage relationship when you’re ready to make that commitment. Working in Family Court, I’ve seen lots of unhappy and unhealthy marriage relationships that sure could have used marriage builder tips. Not surprisingly, a recent University of Wisconsin study revealed that over 90% of our future happiness is related to the kind of mate we choose to date or marry. Therefore, having a healthy marriage…
Overcoming Jealousy: Jealous Dating
Do you have a jealous dating partner? Jealousy is one of the most destructive and painful emotions in a dating relationship. A jealous dater can think and do some wacky things he or she would not normally think of doing. That’s why overcoming jealousy when it crops up is so important. Jealous Dating Stats According to a North American survey of marriage counselors, 33% of all couples in marriage counseling have jealousy problems as a root issue. Since jealousy is…
Single Again: Tips for the Recently Single Woman and Man
If you are recently single-again due to divorce or the death of a husband or wife, you may be experiencing a whole gamut of different emotions including but not limited to: Fear Guilt Rejection Loneliness Anger Sadness Bitterness Discontenment Anxiety Having to suffer through emotions like these puts recently single-again folks in a vulnerable state, where manipulative people can take advantage of them, and poor decisions can be made. In Parent Education classes for newly single-again people, we teach a…
Dating Screen Names Advice for Christian Singles
Appealing online dating screen names are essential because it’s the first and only thing potential dates will see before deciding whether or not to read your dating profile. It’s really very simple: The greater the number of clicks from your screen name to your profile, the greater number of opportunities you will have of meeting your soulmate. Unfortunately, many christian singles put tons of time into writing a great dating profile, but make up their screen names and/or taglines as…
Rejection Hotline: Dating Advice for the Dumped
A Rejection hotline often offers this bit of dating advice that we all already know: Rejection is one of the hardest things to deal with as a single person. Getting rejected in connection with dating is absolutely the worst kind of rejection because it touches us on such a personal level. It doesn’t matter whether the rejection occurs while asking someone out on an initial date, or in the middle of a long term relationship. Rejection hurts. Period. In fact,…
Christian Singles Dating Unbelievers
If you are one of the many Christian singles dating unbelievers, save yourself additional troubles by getting out of the dating relationship as soon as possible. At the very least, the vast majority of Christians who date unbelievers or unsaved singles experience loss of sexual purity, loss of fellowship with the Lord and other believers, and heartache. Additionally, all throughout the Bible God warns us for our own protection not to partner (be unequally yoked) with unbelievers (ex.:2Cor 6:14). History…
Online Christian Dating: Advice on How to Start
Many Christian singles are interested in using an online Christian dating site like eHarmony, but are unsure of how or where to start. Other singles have tried online Christian dating, but are looking for some dating advice on how to improve their internet dating experiences. The following step by step online dating guide will help single Christians through the online Christian dating maze. Of course, we’re assuming that you’ve already gone to the Lord in prayer over this issue. Online…
Dating Email Etiquette
As a Christian single who uses email in online dating services, you may have dating email etiquette questions. Say you’re interested in a particular person’s dating profile, and you want to contact them via email. However, you’re not sure what to say and how to say it. Don’t worry about it! If you follow these dating advice tips on email etiquette you will succeed. Dating Email Etiquette Tips Email Etiquette Tip #1: Think Safety First Familiarize yourself with online safety…
Dating After Divorce
Dating after divorce for Christians is wrought with theological and emotional minefields. So before discussing dating tips for the newly divorced, let us express our simple views on what we feel the Bible teaches about divorce and remarriage. A future article will discuss this in depth. The bottom line is God hates divorce (Mal. 2:16), and desires couples to reconcile if at all possible. However, under certain circumstances where there has been unrepentant infidelity, the offended party may divorce and…
Speed Dating Questions
A number of folks seem to have speed dating questions. What is speed dating? It is an interesting way of obtaining dates by permitting a single guy or girl to meet other singles in a number of minutes. If there is a potential dating match, the singles can contact each other afterwards. If you have any further speed dating questions We have an article about Christian speed dating right here. Speed Dating Questions Prep Perhaps the biggest question people have…
Conversation Starter Tips for Dating
Knowing some good conversation starter tips are key to any successful dating or marriage relationship. Have you ever seen a dating couple enjoying a great conversation? You can just see and feel those sparks flying all over the place! Learning how to have good conversations with your potential soul mate will not only help you both grow closer, but will also make for a much more enjoyable dating experience. Yet, how many of us seem at a loss when we…
Courtship Love or Casual Dating
The casual dating versus courtship love debate rages on in some conservative Christian circles. Ever since Joshua Harris’ bestselling book, I Kissed Dating Goodbye came out, this question has come to the forefront: Should Christian singles interested in the opposite sex practice casual dating or Christian courtship? But let’s pose another question that cuts to the heart of the matter: Which model, casual dating or courtship, has better end results viz-a-viz pre-marital sex, domestic violence, infidelity and divorce rates? Both…
Thirty-Something Singles Online Dating
In the late 80’s Newsweek reported that women in the thirty-something singles age group had at best, only a 20% chance of getting married. I can’t tell you how many of my single women friends got depressed over this prediction. Now, 30 years later Newsweek finally told singles and the world that the findings on thirty-something dating and marriage was inaccurate. Why? The older research was based in part on faulty conjectures on how many available thirty-something plus singles there…
Loneliness and Singles
Many singles have a difficult time dealing with loneliness. This is especially true in cases where the single person had suffered a recent dating relationship break up, divorce or sudden loss of a loved one. Whatever the reason for loneliness, some singles feel as if their whole existence has become an empty and meaningless experience. My dear brothers and sisters, if you are suffering this kind of lonliness, there are several practical steps you can take to help ease…
Online Christian Dating Advice: Diversify
You’ve decided to give online Christian dating a try. Great! But unless you’re really sold on one particular online Christian dating site, the dating advice here is to diversify by using several dating services. There are several positive reasons why you would benefit by using more than one online Christian dating service. Why Try Several Online Christian Dating Sites? Dating advice: You can compare sites for FREE before buying You have nothing to lose by way of money because most…
Online Dating Services for Single Christians
Many single Christians interested in using online dating services are confused not only by the sheer number of choices, but also with what makes a good online dating service. Several days back we wrote an article on how online dating services like eHarmony and PerfectMatch differ from most other online dating services out there. We mentioned that the major difference between these online dating services and all the others is that they do all searching and matching for members. For…
How to Spot a Dating Married Man
This dating advice is about How to Spot a Dating Married Man and how to avoid dating married men. Don’t laugh, the sad but true fact according to an MSNBC dating tips survey is that 30% of men using online dating services such as eHarmony are married! Surprised by the number of cheating, married rats? Don’t be. In fact, whether a single woman meets her date through an online dating service, or at off line places like church or the market…
Pathological Liars: Are You Dating a Liar?
Pathological liars are so good at lying that I pity the poor soul who is dating one, whether through an online Christian service like eHarmony, or some other way. What makes a pathological liar so different from every other big fat liar in a dating relationship? Psychologists feel the answer is found in a paradox: Pathological liars may actually believe the twisted stories they tell their dates, but at the same time know that what they are doing is lying.…
Christian Singles Groups Benefits
Christian Singles Groups can be very benificial to Christian singles. However, not all single Christians who use online Christian personals sites such as eHarmony and online Christian chatrooms regularly attend Christian singles groups. However, there are many reasons why a person may benefit from joining a Christian singles group. Top 5 Reasons to Attend Christian Singles Groups Christian singles groups provide a place to belong. In order to be healthy and enjoy life to the max, people need to feel…
Creative Dating Ideas
New and creative dating ideas are difficult to come by, but essential in order to keep your dating relationship with your potential christian soul mate fresh and exciting. Most singles find it a breeze to come up with their first few creative dating ideas; however, it’s the fourth dating idea and beyond that dating couples usually find difficult to plan. That’s why we put together the following dating ideas arranged in categories: Romantic Creative Dating Ideas Go on a picnic in…
Internet Dating for Christian Singles
A substantial portion of this site has internet dating advice for Christian singles. This is part of our ministry at Christian Dating Service Plus. In addition to Christian singles internet dating relationship articles and Christian podcasts, we review a wide range of dating services that internet dating Christian singles use. Top Internet Dating Reviews for Single Christians This means that not all the internet dating sites we review are specifically Christian internet dating sites. Since internet dating single Christians use…
Christian Dating Tips
You can find Christian dating tips all over the Internet. Christian Dating Service PLUS! is just one of hundreds of Christian dating tips sites that spouts info from how to ask someone out on a date to how to breakup. The only problem with most (Ahem, not us, of course) Christian singles dating advice is that most of it isn’t true or even Christian. Christian Dating Tips Pod-cast In our Christian singles pod-cast of the week, Pastor John Mark, from…
Online Christian Dating or Courtship?
Recently, a pastor friend of mine explained why he is not only against online Christian dating, but also the concept of dating in general. While he did not come out and say that dating is unbiblical (there are some Christians who feel this way), he argued that it cheapens the courtship process and encourages single Christians to enter casual relationships that are here today and gone tomorrow. The pastor started out by rightly reminding me that dating is a relatively…
Online Dating Profile Writing Tips
Writing your online dating profile is the first and most important step when using online Christian Dating Services. However, while almost all the top internet Christian matchmaking services offer free trial memberships where you can post an online dating profile, very few offer dating profile writing tips. The purpose of this article is to gve you some practical steps toward writing a successful dating profile. Before beginning to write your dating profile, consider what your actual goals are. For most…
What Christian Single Guys Need in a Wife
Most Christian single guys are familiar with the proverb: “Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing.” Amen! In fact, this is a main reason why many single Christian guys seek out online Christian Dating Services. Since the beginning of time, it’s been a good deal for a single man to have a wife. Remember, in Genesis the Lord said, “It’s not good for man to be alone. I will make him a suitable helpmate.” So when the average…
Porn Use, Christian Singles and Dating Relationships
Porn use among Christians is pretty much out of control. Some of you may even have been tempted to drop by a porn site before coming here. Hey, we’re glad you made it! So what’s the big deal about using porn? In our featured church podcast of the week from Church @ the Springs in Ocala, Florida (FL), Pastor Joe Lacognata speaks on the negative effects soft and hard porn has on romance and singles in dating relationships. Porn Help…
Single Parents Dating and their Kids
In Parent Education classes, single parents dating or those looking into a Christian matchmaking dating service routinely ask this question: “When can I introduce my children to the person I am dating?” In a previous article, we discussed how difficult it is being a Christian Single Parent. But it doesn’t matter whether the single parents dating are Christian singles or unbelievers, the issues are still the same. All single parents, custodial or non-custodial, need to take special care when brooching…
SingleC-Single Christian Network
Since 1991, SingleC, also known as Single Christian Network, claims to have been meeting the matchmaking needs of Christian dating singles of all backgrounds. One of the oldest online Christian dating services, Single Christian Network states they have thousands of single Christians from all denominations and age groups. SingleC clearly states its goal is to help Christians singles who are looking to find lasting relationships and true love. The only problem with this, is that Single Christian Network simply DOES…