Christian Singles Articles (Page 3)

Christian Singles Articles (Page 3)

christian singlesThis category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types singles articles and  life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on single men, single women, single Christian parents, single girls, teens, well, I think you get the point. :)

Christian Singles Resources

No matter if you are a Millennial, Baby Boomer or a Senior Single,    hopefully you will find these singles articles useful. There are dozens of articles to choose from including “Learning How to Argue and Fight“, Christian  Girls Who Date Bad Guys”, “Fears that Keep Men and Women Single“, “How to Mend a Broken Heart” “Masturbation” and many others.

Need for Singles Ministries

Why yet another singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many  singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.

So if you are looking for anything singles related, this category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to single  of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.

Here you will find all types articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.

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Pre-Marital Questions for Single Christians

Pre-Marital Questions for Christian Singles

A number of single Christians have written us asking how appropriate it is to ask pre-marital questions with a date. Navigating the path of Christian dating can be both exciting and daunting. As Christian singles embark on this journey, it’s crucial to build a relationship founded on mutual faith, understanding, and respect. One effective way to achieve this is by asking thoughtful pre-marital questions. These pre-marital questions not only deepen your understanding of each other’s faith and values but also…
Signs he is not the man God has for you

5 Signs He Is Not the Man God Has for You

In the world of Christian dating, discerning whether someone is the right partner is a crucial task. As a Christian singles minister, I understand that finding a life partner who aligns with your faith and values is paramount. While it’s important to give people a chance, it’s equally vital to recognize signs that may indicate someone is not the man God has in store for you. In this article, we will explore five significant signs that should raise red flags…
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Stress Reducers for Single Parents

Stress reducers for single parents? That sounds great considering the many stress related symptoms some Christian single parents live with daily. Let’s see, there’s financial stress, job stress, dating stress, single parenting stress, custody and child support stress. Ugh! I’m getting stressed out. As single Christian parents, it is important to know how to reduce or relieve stress in your life. The following stress reducers for single parents  may help give you some relief. 7 Top Stress Reducers for Single…
Why do I keep getting attracted to unavailable men?

Why Do I Keep Getting Attracted to Unavailable Guys?

I get this question asked a lot: Why Do I Keep Getting Attracted to Unavailable Guys? As a Christian single girl, navigating the complexities of dating can be a perplexing journey, particularly when you find yourself repeatedly drawn to unavailable guys. This pattern can be emotionally draining and spiritually challenging. Understanding the underlying reasons for this tendency can shed light on healthier relationship paths aligned with Christian values. This article explores why some Christian single women might repeatedly find themselves…

Abusive Relationships-Are You Dating an Abuser?

Are you a single Christian in an abusive dating relationship? In 2023, Christian abusive dating relationships are not uncommon among dating single Christians. Some singles have been in an abusive relationship, and know the pain that goes with it. Sadly, other single Christians reading this article right now are presently in an abusive relationship, but may not realize it or be in denial over it. While in the rest of this article, we will designate the victim as a “she”,…
10 Signs of a Failing Relationship

10 Signs of a Failing Relationship: A Guide for Christian Singles

The top 10 signs of a failing relationship? Would you be able to the the signs your relationship is failing? As a pastor and previous court mediator, I’ve literally dealt with hundreds of couples in failing relationships. As a Christian single guy or girl, it’s important to know these signs, so that you can either rectify the situation or get out of that relationship to avoid the coming pain. In the world of Christian dating, recognizing the signs of a…
cheating boyfriends

Cheating Boyfriends: Signs of a Cheater

Cheating Boyfriends. Do you have a CB, a cheating boyfriend? And while we’re on this uncomfortable topic of cheating boyfriends, just how prevalent do you think cheating is? Well, according to the National Opinion Research Center at the University of Chicago, 22% of girlfriends have cheating boyfriends. Okay, I know at least one sex who’s dying to know this. The good news is that only 12% of boyfriends have a girlfriend who’s a cheater. We’ll talk about that at another time…
how to prepare for marriage

How to Prepare for Marriage: Christian Dating Tips

As a Single Christian man or woman, are you curious about how to prepare for marriage? The process of preparing for marriage can be a mix of excitement and nervousness. As someone who’s been in your shoes, I totally get it! In this article, we’ll explore some practical tips to help you get ready for the adventure of a lifetime. How to get prepared for marriage Steps Know Your Identity  Before you can share your life with someone else, it’s…
learning how to argue and fight

Learning How to Argue and Fight

Learning how to argue and fight is the best dating tip we could give Christian singles. That may sound like whacky dating advice unless you know that the top reason both dating and married couples break up is a lack of communication in the area of conflict-resolution. This is very important, so let me reiterate this dating advice a different way: Learning how to fight and argue successfully is the best way to a lasting and happy dating and/or married…
when to introduce your significant other to your child

When and How to Introduce Your Child to a Significant Other

“I don’t like them! I’m never going to like them!” That exchange might be what your child says and what you think after you’ve tried to introduce them to your new significant other. If you’ve already introduced them and it hasn’t gone well, you can’t put the genie back in the bottle, so this article is more for when you are considering introducing the new person at all. is the timing Right How long has it been since you were…
A sign a guy likes you

A Sign a Christian Guy Likes You

Do you know a sign a guy likes you? The journey of discovering whether someone holds special feelings for you can be both exciting and nerve-wracking. Amid the modern dating landscape with its nuances and complexities, Christian singles might often wonder: What are the signs that a guy is genuinely interested? While signs of attraction can vary widely, let’s dive deep into deciphering these signs with an emphasis on Christian values. 1. He Respects Your Boundaries Christian dating often emphasizes…
Dating Someone With Kids

Christian Dating Someone with Kids

When embarking on a new relationship, especially as a Christian single, dating someone with kids presents a unique set of experiences that can enrich your life in unexpected ways. It’s a journey that requires compassion, understanding, and a heart open to the blessings and challenges that come with it. Here’s a warm, personal look at what you can expect when you find yourself in this beautifully complex situation. Entering a Ready-Made Family Dating someone with children means that you’re not…
Should i confess to my crush?

Should I Confess to My Crush? The Christian Perspective

The age-old question: Should I confess to my crush?  It’s a situation many of us have faced, and the answer often varies based on personal circumstances and beliefs. For the Christian single person, the answer may be further influenced by biblical teachings, personal convictions, and the importance of faith in decision-making. Let’s dive into the considerations of confessing feelings to a crush from a Christian perspective. Understanding Love and Emotion First, it’s important to understand that having a crush or…
dating during separation

Is Dating While Separated Ok?

Whether Christian or not, some have asked us, “Is dating allowed during marriage separation?” Or “Is dating during separation adultery?” Of course, I always tell them it’s none of my business. However, I also realize the issue of dating during a marriage separation is a hot-button issue,  and so needs to be talked about in the church in an honest, biblical, and open way. As both a family court mediator and minister, I’m just gonna shoot from the heart and…
How to Make My Christian Dating Relationship Last?

How Do I Make My Christian Dating Relationship Last?

I get a lot of emails asking questions like: “How do I make my Christian dating relationship last? When you’re dating in the Christian single scene with marriage as the goal, you’re essentially trying to find someone who’s not just your better half but your better three-quarters. It’s about finding that partner with whom you can not only share your favorite Bible verses but also your Wi-Fi password. So, how do you make a relationship last in such a setting?…
Humble Christian Single Man

Signs of a Humble Christian Single Man

Looking for a humble Christian single man? Finding a genuine, down-to-earth partner can feel like searching for a needle in a haystack. For those in the Christian community, this search often focuses not just on mutual interests or physical attractions, but on deeper, spiritual qualities like humility. A humble Christian single man can be a rare gem—quietly impressive and rich in the fruits of the Spirit. 1. He’s Modest About His Achievements A humble Christian man doesn’t trumpet his own…