Christian Singles Articles (Page 4)

Christian Singles Articles (Page 4)

christian singlesThis category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types Christian singles articles and  life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on Christian single men, Christian single women, single Christian parents, Christian single girls, Christian single teens, well, I think you get the point. :)

Christian Singles Resources

No matter if you are a Millennial,  Baby Boomer or a Senior Single Christian,  hopefully you will find these Christian singles articles useful. There are dozens of articles to choose from including “Learning How ti Argue and Fight“, Christian Single Girls Who Date Bad Guys”, “Fears that Keep Men and Women Single“, “How to Mend a Broken Heart” and many others.

Need for Christian Singles Ministries

Why yet another Christian singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many Christian singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional  church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this single Christian site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.

So if  you are looking for anything Christian singles related, this single Christian category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to single Christians of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.

Here you will find all types articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.

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Christian Single Career Women

Single career women make up 30% of the US labor force. If you are  a Christian single girl and one of those single career women out there, you probably know well the pressures that go along with a single woman in the workforce. Christian Single Career Women Trap Many successful single career women have succumbed to this trap: You go to college, and after graduation your main goal was to work up the proverbial ladder of success. Maybe you became a successful…

40 Somethings, 50 Somethings Dating

40 something, 50 something Christians dating online? Baby Boomers are currently using eHarmony Dating Service  almost as much as the average 20 something singles, who was the group that brought internet dating into the mainstream seven years ago. More telling is that 40 something and 50 something daters also make up the fastest growing demographic of those seeking seeking a date online. Amazingly, with a dating service like PerfectMatch.com, nearly 65% of the singles who sign up are 30 somethings,…

eHarmony.com Style of Online Dating

If you had a chance to review eHarmony.com, you would have found that they depart from the traditional dating sites’ way of helping singles meet their match. Since some singles didn’t like (and some still don’t like) the idea of having to search the internet for a soulmate on their own, in 2000 eHarmony.com became the first to develop a matching system that basically does all the searching for its members. The eHarmony.com process is as follows: Christian Singles (or…

Making Room for Love-Loneliness and Lonely People

John Milton said loneliness is the first thing called called “not good.” We read in Genesis 2:18 that God said it was not good for man to be alone. But today loneliness is a “social pain” that chronically inflicts more than 60 million Americans, whether they are single or married. Many single Christians feel loneliness is a social ill just for singles. Not true. Loneliness, the experts tell us in not necessarily about being alone, but rather about being disconnected…

Relationship Break Ups

Believe it or not, instead of dating issues the topic of relationship break ups takes up most of the mail we receive at Christian Dating Service Plus! I guess the reason for this is that relationship break ups are one of the most painful experiences to endure, right up there with unrequited love. The fact is, relationship breakups cause lots of heartbreak, even when we know it wasn’t a healthy relationship and we probably should have dumped it a while…

Match Dating Service for Christian Singles

Well Match Dating Service has made a huge comeback, not only increasing sales over 25%the last year in the UK and US, but also buying up some of the largest dating sites in China and Europe. Although Match.com advertises to Christian singles in the UK, it is not a Christian dating site, per se. However, we decided to review Match.com on this site simply because there are tens of thousands of believers who use this site. Also, it has the…

Making Room for Love-How to Love Yourself

Experts say that loving yourself is essential if you are to find loving and committed relationships with others. Not being able to love yourself, you will never be able to love others the way we want them to love you. Unfortunately, many single Christians and married Christians alike have a difficult time loving themselves, and their dating or married relationships suffer for it. How to Love Yourself In this week’s podcast from Oasis-Church-NJ.com’s relationship series, Making room for Love week…

Making Room for Love-Relationship Fights

Are you a single Christian who is constantly breaking up because of relationship fights you are having with your dates? Are you a married person with the frequent stress of bickering and fighting with your spouse, who was once your soulmate? Well we have some great news. Relationship Fighting & Arguing Tips In today’s Christian podcast at Oasis-Church-NJ.com, Pastor Dave offered some biblical and practical suggestions on how to deal with fighting and conflicts in dating and marriage relationships.  Enjoy!…

What is a Soulmate?

The following article, “What is a Soulmate?” was written by a Christian single girl: There is no such thing as “soul mate” in the sense of there being one person on earth that God has already picked for you and now you are on this journey to find them. On the contrary, there are several possible mates that can fit into your life and help you walk out the purpose God has already ordained for your life. This idea of…

Making Room for Love-Week 1-Positive Relationship Qualities

When it comes to dating and sex, many Christian singles struggle  or are confused when it comes to living a Godly life while waiting on God for a marriage partner. Making Room for Love, a new series at Oasis-Church-NJ.com, offers biblical and practical sex  and relationship advice for both singles and married partners. Positive Relationship Qualities-The Top 4 In today’s Christian podcast, Pastor Dave  examines the top 4 positive relationship qualities that make for a lasting and healthy relationship with…

Great Christian Boyfriend-Girlfriend Signs

Looking to find a Christian boyfriend or girlfriend.? Would you even be able to spot that good catch of a Christian boyfriend or girlfriend when they come into your sights? Recently, several singles sat down and came up with the following top seven signs of a worthwhile Christian boyfriend or girlfriend: Top 7 Great Christian Boyfriend/Girlfriend Signs Jesus is the most important person in their lives. Remember, if a Christian girlfriend or boyfriend loves the Lord above all, she or…

GLEE Week 6-Living or Existing?

Many people , single Christians or married, go through life simply existing rather tan enjoying the abundant life Jesus promises. In this week’s Christian podcast at Oasis-Church-NJ.com, Pastor Dave discusses the importance of aligning our purpose for living with Christ’s purpose for coming to Earth. In this podcast listeners will also hear about the vision and purpose of Oasis-Church-NJ.com, a brand new contemporary Christian church. How to Find God’s Will for Your Life? Christian Dating Service http://media.blubrry.com/oasischurch/p/christian-dating-service-plus.com/audio1/OasisVision.mp3Podcast: Play in new…

Crown Financial Advice for Singles

During  financial difficulties, Crown Financial Ministries offers tons of help for singles looking to make it through the pending worldwide economic depression. Many singles are “freaking out” over how they are going to make ends meet as the reality of layoffs and higher proces looms in the future.  Crown Financial offers some sound financial advice for singles of all stripes (singles-never-married, single parents, divorcees, widows, etc)  during this economy downturn. Crown Financial Ministry Meets Church Services Let’s face it, single…

Dating the Wrong Date?

Sometimes Christian singles can feel that they have gotten themselves in a mess when they look at their relationships. Normally your “Dr Phil” would say “get out while you still can”. However, getting out isn’t always the solution, but getting though it may be exactly what your dating relationship needs now. It has been said quite a few times already that communication is the key to a successful relationship. At this point you feel like if you hear that phrase…

GLEE Week 3-Conquering Your Past

Many single Christians go around with guilt and shame over their past. In fact , we have already written an article regarding the issue of how to make peace with your past a few years ago. It’s really sad that many singles have problems conquering the sting of past relationship failures, abusive and just plain old bad memories Conquering Your Past Podcast If you are one of those people who still have  problems getting over your past, the following Oasis-Church-NJ.com…

Emotional Baggage and Singles

Many single Christians walk around with emotional baggage from failed relationships and other expereinces that they have gone through in their lives. When people hear the term “emotional baggage” they also think of “damaged goods.” since very few singles that I know of want to be in a relationship with someone with emotional baggage, in important that singles in this situation learn to make peace with their past if they desire a serious, positive Christian dating relationship. So what in…

Christian Women Complaints

Christian women complaints? The following article on single Christian women was written by one of our single readers who has used dating sites like eHarmony and Christian Mingle. Any comments girls? “I find that to many Christian women are confused about what values they should be looking for in a Christian man. I think to many Christian women take the word “Christian” vary loosely. Guys will say anything to get a good looking women. There is a shallowness on Bible Theology…

Meeting .Com Single Parent Needs

Never heard of a .com single parent? Well meet my friend Sue. She is a .com single parent with two kids in the home, two jobs to pay the bills and no time to relax (let alone date) in the fast paced communication age in which she lives. Sound familiar? Meeting .com single parents’ needs can be daunting considering the sheer number of issues. Additionally, although U.S. Census estimates claim that 59 percent of kids will live in a single…

Finding a Date in Your Local Area

Are you a  Christian single complaining on  how hard it is finding a date in your  local area? Oftentimes, the churches they attend either have no Christian singles group, or the available single people in their respective churches are not what we would call “keepers” (I thought I just heard a few amens out there!). In fact, we recently found out through our own survey that this dearth of good single catches locally is one of the reasons why Christians…

Dating Tips for the Christian Single

Dating tips are welcomed by most Christian singles, whether they are new to the dating scene, or just looking to find additional dating advice and assistance. Afterall, how many of us are dating tips experts with no need for learning anything more about the opposite  sex and dating? Although there are tons of dating tips and articles out there, we sifted through the most relevant from a single Christian perspective. The following is sort of a Christian dating tip checklist…

Interpersonal Dating Relationship Tips

The following article on interpersonal relationship tips was writtten by a Christian single by the name of Hazel: I have just broken up with a guy who I was convinced was the one. I truly believe God in his providence allowed me to pursue a relationship with this guy to prepare me for the person he truly has for me. The truth is this guy became like an idol to me and was way more important than Jesus, (although I…

Desperate Dating for Christians

Are you dating a desperate person? Are you a desperate dater? Some single Christians seeking a true love relationship, sometimes are tempted to practice what we call “desperation dating.” Desperate dating can occur for a number of reasons. Some singles do so out of loneliness and a lack of contentment. Some others see their friends getting married off, and become afraid of being alone and single for the rest of their lives. Desperate dating is not cool because more often…

Christian Ladies Night Out Ideas

The following Christian ladies night out ideas were written by a single Christian female tired on hiatus from  the dating scene: As a Christian single woman, it shouldn’t be all about looking for a date.  I have found that waiting for that dating match can be a tedious and draining experience. My thought here is one needs a break fro time to time in any endeavor. The best way I have found to “recharge my batteries” is to spend time…

ChristianLifestyle.com Dating Review

Several Christian singles have emailed us about ChristianLifestyle.com. Started by First Beat Media, Christian Lifestyle is a relatively new dating site that’s totally free to use for now. ChristianLifestyle.com Features Christian Lifestyle has all the basic features of most of the other sites. The first thing you need to do once you sign up for free at Christian Lifestyle is to fill out your profile, where you can post up to five photos. On the site You can send “flirts”…
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Dating Allowed During Marriage Separation

Whether Christian or not, some have asked us, “Is dating allowed during marriage separation?” Of course, I always tell them it’s none of my business. However, I also realize the issue of dating during a marriage separation is a hot button issue,  and so needs to be talked about in the church in an honest, biblical and open way. As both a family court mediator and minister, I’m just gonna shoot from the heart and let it fly. What the Bible…
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Christian Sex Talk for Singles

As single Christians in this world, we can all use a good Christian sex talk from time time time. Why? Because temptation toward sexual impurity is always knocking at the door. Christian Sex Talk Podcast This week’s Church podcast on the subject of Christian sex comes from the Vineyard Christian Church of Evanston, Illinois. Pastor Steve Nicholoson’s Christian sex talk centers on the top 5 costs of sex without commitment. Although some of us may be thinking we’ve heard it all…

Christian Single Gives Dating Advice

Many people feel that it is difficult to find Christian singles. However it is actually very easy no matter how old you are or how badly you want a relationship. Christian singles can be found everywhere. If you want to meet Christian singles, then look at church, school, or even online. You wont have to look hard at all to meet Christian singles around your area. Church is obviously a great place to meet Christian singles. Get into a small…

Christian Teen Dating Ideas

Looking for great Christian Teen dating ideas? Before we get into that let’s go over the purpose of teen dating. There are two main purposes for teens to date: To enjoy each ‘company, and enjoy a fun activity together. These two points not only hold true for Christian teens, but adults as well. When deciding what to do on a date, while keeping these two purposes in mind, you need to ensure that both of you will have a good…

Single Guy Life Story

I love hearing how single guys and single girls came to Jesus Christ because those stories just ooze realness and power! Today’s Christian singles podcast ia a story about one single guy’s miraculous journey to faith in Jesus Christ. I am intimately acquainted with this single guy’s life story….because it’s my own! This Easter I had the great privilege of sharing how God found a lonely nineteen year-old single guy, and healed him physically, emotionally and spiritually. Don’t get me…

Single Dating-Sermon for Singles

Life as a single Christian can be confusing with all the different single dating and spiritual advice floating around. I mean just do a Google search on “single dating tips” or “singles advice”, and you will find millions of results! A Single Dating Message from the Heart This week our Christian Pod-cast comes from McLane Church in Edinburg, Pennsylvania (PA), with Pastor Brian Kelly speaking on “How to Live a Successful Single Life”, especially in the area of single dating.…

Fear of Being Alone as Single Christians

Perhaps one of the greatest fears single Christians face is the fear of being alone. Some of us fear being alone as we contemplate the possibility of growing lonely, old and sick. I know of one single gal who actually works herself into an anxiety attack as she thinks about the fear of being alone. Yet, she paradoxically also has a fear of commitment. Go figure. The idea of simply not finding a lifelong, true love relationship is a very…

PerfectMatch

Perfectmatch dating service has three million members worldwide and growing, is for singles looking for anything from a date to lasting, meaningful relationships leading to marriage. Perfectmatch is a Scientific Approach to Find The One You Belong with Forever. Perfectmatch is the only matchmaking and personals service to offer the Duet Total Compatibility System, co-developed by Pepper Schwartz, internationally renowned matchmaker and dating authority. The PerfectMatch Duet Total Compatibility System , based on 30 years of research, is a set…

Dating Christians and Their Messed Up Sex Lives

Here’s a fact: Many dating Christians have messed up sex lives. No, I’m not talkin’ bout those dating Christians who are suffering through the agony of waiting until after marriage to unleash their passion. I am referring to dating Christians who do indulge in sex. Dating Christians and Spiritual Unhappiness Although survey after survey shows dating Christians have sex before marriage almost as frequently as your run of the mill unbeliever, many involved in this activity never planned on it…

Singleness and the First Single Guy and Gal

Our church pod-cast of the week has an interesting twist on the subject of the single life, that may change your concept of singleness and dating. Pastor Bill Lloyd of White Stone Fellowship in Stuart, Florida (FL), speaks on singleness, dating, mating, love and marriage, all from the from the perspective of Adam and Eve, the first single guy and gal. Did you ever look at this couple in that way? Singleness Equals Incomplete? Many Christian singles and certain married…

Dating Relationships and Sex for Singles

Our church podcast of the week is all about sex in a dating relationship. People I have to tell you, I’ve listened to a lot of messages on sex and dating relationships, but this is the most blunt talk about sex in dating relationship I’ve ever heard, and by far of the best. If you’re serious about sex and dating, you don’t want to miss this! Dating Relationships and sex for singles Podcast Lon Solomon, pastor of McLean Bible Church…

Best Christian Dating Sites

Each year we list the best Christian dating sites on the web  based on the views of our readers. Since we get over 100,000 guests per month, we feel this “best Christian dating sites” survey from our singles is an accurate indication of  the best Christian dating sites out there. The best Christian dating sites were ranked according to  the following: Database size User satisfaction on a scale of 1 to 5 Best Christian Dating Sites for 2017 eHarmony ChristianMingle…

PerfectMatch Discounts and Perfectmatch.com Coupon Codes

This now in: Perfectmatch is now offering a number of holiday discounts and coupon codes from Perfectmatch.com. In order to access the following Perfectmatch bargain deals you can use any of the below Perfectmatch exclusive special links provided by Christian Dating Service Plus! These are the best Perfectmatch codes you will find anywhere on the web and make for great gift memberships. Enjoy! Top PerfectMatch Discounts Buy 2, Get 2 Free at Perfectmatch Save $79.00 with a 3-month subscription at…

First Date Etiquette on How to End a First Date

Christian or not, first date etiquette can be tricky when it comes to knowing how to end a first date. It’s hard to be dogmatic about first date etiquette for the simple reason that each first date is different from all others. However the following first date etiquette guidelines on how to end a first date may help. For first date etiquette rules for first dates in general, please go here. First Date Etiquette for Ending a First Christian Date…

Another Rebound Dating Debacle

The following  article was by one of our readers: I entered into a rebound relationship with a woman who had only been divorced for 3 months after 16 years of marriage. Very stupid move on my part. She assured me that they had been separated for 18 months and she was completely over him. Not only that, but she was the one to initiate the divorce, so I really did think she was ready for a new relationship. She pursued…

The Gospel-Week 2-Victorious Living

Are you living a victorious Christian single life? If you are married, is your marriage all that you wish it could be? Listen in as Pastor David shares the some principles for victorious living in the 21st Century found in the words of Jesus. Christian Singles Home The Gospel – Week 3 – Living With Purpose http://media.blubrry.com/oasischurch/p/christian-dating-service-plus.com/audio1/TheGospelWeek2.mp3Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe Android | Google Podcasts | RSS