Christian Singles Articles (Page 5)

Christian Singles Articles (Page 5)

christian singlesThis category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types singles articles and  life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on single men,  single women, single Christian parents,  single girls, teens, well, I think you get the point. :)

Christian Singles Resources

No matter if you are a Millennial,  Baby Boomer or a Senior Single,    hopefully you will find these singles articles useful. There are dozens of articles to choose from including “Learning How ti Argue and Fight“, Christian  Girls Who Date Bad Guys”, “Fears that Keep Men and Women Single“, “How to Mend a Broken Heart” and many others.

Need for Singles Ministries

Why yet another singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many  singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.

So if you are looking for anything singles related, this category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to single  of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.

Here you will find all types articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.

Another Rebound Dating Debacle

The following  article was by one of our readers: I entered into a rebound relationship with a woman who had only been divorced for 3 months after 16 years of marriage. Very stupid move on my part. She assured me that they had been separated for 18 months and she was completely over him. Not only that, but she was the one to initiate the divorce, so I really did think she was ready for a new relationship. She pursued…

The Gospel-Week 2-Victorious Living

Are you living a victorious Christian single life? If you are married, is your marriage all that you wish it could be? Listen in as Pastor David shares the some principles for victorious living in the 21st Century found in the words of Jesus. Christian Singles Home The Gospel – Week 3 – Living With Purpose http://media.blubrry.com/oasischurch/p/christian-dating-service-plus.com/audio1/TheGospelWeek2.mp3Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe Google Podcasts | RSS

No Perfect People Allowed-Week 3-Imperfect Relationships

So are you in an imperfect relationship and not quite sure how to deal with it? Whether dating or married,  it is safe to say that all relationships are somewhat imperfect because we are ALL imperfect. Of course, abusive relationships are obvious, but  but how about relationships that are subtly imperfect? How to Deal With Imperfect Relationships In today’s Church Podcast, Pastor Dave of Oasis-Church-NJ.com handles the question of how to deal with imperfect relationships…whether you are dealing with your…

Dating a Married Man

Are you dating a married man, or just tempted to? And while we’re on the subject, do you even know the signs you’re dating a married man? The following is a sober story of Tessa, a single Christian woman who was dating a married man, and lived to tell the whole sad story: I found your web site while searching for healing. I fell in love with a man I knew (and previously dated) in high school. I had broken…

How to Survive the End of the World – Week 1

Are you ready for the end of the world? Whether single, married or divorced with kids, the events of the last few weeks in the world can’t help but make us wonder, “What in the world is going on?” Some singles Christians I know only half  kiddingly joked that they don’t want to die before at least  getting married and enjoying  some great sex So what do you think about the end of the world talk going on lately? The…

Canadian Dating Sites for Christian Singles

Looking for Canadian dating sites that cater to Christians? There are a number of Canadian dating Christian singles wondering where they can find decent Canadian dating sites for finding a date in their own area. There are in fact a number of Canadian dating ites out there, but most suffer from either a lack of real available Canadian single Christians in their databases or simply are a rip off. In light of the above we have come up with the…

Valentines Day Sermons for Christian Singles

Valentines Day can be quite depressing for singles because it hammers home the reminder that they are not content being single at this juncture in their lives. That’s why we hope the following Valentines Day sermon on dating and love encourages those of us who will be struggling on the 14th of February. Valentines Day Sermon Podcast Today’s Christian dating church podcast comes from the Journey church in Brooklyn, NY and is entitled: “Dating-I want to Hold Your Hand.” This…

Next Steps Week 3-Connecting with Others

Connecting with others is what life is all about. As the Scripture states in Genesis, “It is not good for man to be alone.” We were made for relationships, vertically with God, and horizontally with each other.  Connecting with singles, married couples, single parents or any other kind of person should not have to be  a difficult endeavor. Connecting with Others Thru Connection Groups In today’s Christian podcast at Oasis-Church-NJ.com, the talk centers around the biblical reasons and emotional benefits…

eHarmony Promotional Code

Are you on this site looking for an Eharmony Dating promotional code? You’re not alone. Many singles are wondering where they can find a Eharmony Dating Service promotional code for dating. Well, all Christian singles have to do is Google “eHarmony Promotional Code” or “eharmony promotional codes”, and they you will find different sites. I even found an eHarmony promotional code for a free three month membership! Not bad, right? eHarmony Promotional Code Scam Beware. Before you guys get all excited,…

Navigating Life’s Storms as a Single Person

As singles we sometimes think that our lives are in balance and we have things under control. Suddenly, however, we find the rug is pulled out from under us. I can finally pay those bills each month that I used to dread. My relationship with my family has been restored. My heart is at peace and I can feel complete without having a partner at my side. Then a large gust of wind comes along and all of the things…

No Perfect People Allowed-Week 5-Growing Healthy Relationships

Growing healthy relationships with others takes time and intentionality.  Of the thousands of people who visit this site daily, most are here looking for relationship advice, whether it be for their Christian dating relationships, marriage or other platonic relationships. Relationships that are Healthy and Growing In a continuation from last week’s   No Perfect People Allowed Series, Pastor Dave of Oasis-Church-NJ.com discusses  from 1 Cor 12 the remaining ingredients necessary for growing relationships among individuals and the church as a whole.…

No Perfect People Allowed-Week 4-Growing Relationships

What single or married person is not concerned about growing relationships? Last week we learned that it’s all about Loving God and Loving Others. When you think about it, it all comes down learning how to grow in your relationship with the Lord and other people. You can read all the Christian relationship advice out that you want, but most ting fulfilled, joyful singles or married folks are the ones who have learned what it takes to grow a successful…

No Perfect People Allowed-Week 2-Transformed Lives

Many of us, whether single or married,   walk around with the burden of wishing we could take back the past mistakes and bad experiences in our lives. The cool thing with Jesus is that He not only takes us  as we are,  imperfect and all,  but that He transforms us into the people we were meant to be. How to Live Transformed Lives Listen in as Pastor Dave Butler of Oasis-Church-NJ.com  teaches  from Luke 5: 27-32 on how Jesus not…

Honesty In Relationships

This week, pastor Dave speaks on Exodus 20:16 – “Do not give false testimony against your neighbor.”  Pastor Dave takes a thorough look at the meaning of the verse and examines the way God desires us to live.  God hates lying because He is the Source of truth. In fact, Jesus used that very word to describe His character when He testified, “I am the Way and the Truth and the Life.” (John 14:6)  Hebrews 6 goes further to tell us “it…

Hope for Divorced Christians

The following article, “Hope for Divorced Christians”, was written by a divorced Christian guy, who answers the question, “Is there any hope for divorced Christians?”, through the lens of his own personal experience. The view he espouses is not necessarily the view of Christian Singles Blog: As a divorced, Christian male in his late 40’s I have observed that in Western culture we have lost respect for and a Godly perspective of the institution of Christian marriage itself.  I am…

Christian Relationship Tips: Should I Date Or Marry An Unbeliever?

I often times get asked the question: “Is it ok for me to date somebody if they are not a Christian?”  Recently, I  had a young woman come to me and ask for advice about a guy that she recently met and was into.  She wanted to know my thoughts on the situation and whether or not it was a good idea to date.  This guy wasn’t a Christian, but according to her, he was a great guy and they…

Stress and the Stressful Christian Single Life

Too much stress can be a killer. Studies also show that because of stress, single guys live on average five years less than their married counterparts. Does stress stink, or what? Truth be told, dealing with the responsibilities and pressures of life alone is stressful. While I truly believe that being a Christian single parent (whether you are a single mom or single dad) can be one of the most difficult and stress filled jobs in the world, all singles…

Finding Hope In A Hopeless Situation

This week’s message is right out of the book of first peter.  Peter wrote this letter to christians who were either going through persecution, or were about to go through rough persecution.  Peter is praising God and encouraging the church by reminding them that they have been born again into a living hope through Christ’s finished work on the cross.  They are now sons and daughters of the Most High God and have been given an inheritance that is imperishable,…

No Perfect People Allowed Series-Week One

No surprise here: According to the Barna Group, 4 out of 10 single adult Americans (singles make up half of the adult population) avoid going to church not because they do not believe in God, but because of negative experiences they have had with church people. In this week’s church podcast, Pastor Dave Butler from Oasis-Church-NJ.com, a new contemporary Christian church in NJ, shares from Luke 18:9-14 on the attitude we should have regarding the unchurched singles and married folks…

How to Wait on God When Life Sucks

Learning how to wait on God is difficult, especially when you are going through a tough time like a relationship loss, a sickness, a jog loss or you fill in the blank. Many Christian single men and single women are waiting on God for their soulmates. Many married couples are waiting on God to bless them with children. The point is, we are all waiting on God for something. Today, in our Christian podcast from Oasis-Church-NJ.com, Alex Brooks, our church…

Christian Relationships – Love As Christ Loves

This week was our second week in the series ‘Man vs Wife’  Pastor Tommy is speaking mainly to the men this week as he examines what God’s word says about how husbands should love their wives with the love of Christ.  Of course, this is only possible with the Holy Spirit! “In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but…

Singleness And Society

Lets face it:  We live in a society that promoting the idea that marriage (if you even want to get married, that is) should be put off until you have 3 college degrees, an established career and steady income.  The concept of being single isn’t foreign at all, in fact the media is portraying it as being the norm.  Singles are being shouted at by our society that a life focused on bettering yourself, materialism and casual sex is better than settling…

Encouraging Bible Verses For Single Christians

As a Christian single waiting on God to bring my spouse into my life, I often times get frustrated, discouraged and overcome by loneliness.  These feelings start to creep up on me whenever I take my eyes off Jesus and focus upon myself instead.  The transition from Jesus to self happens slowly and subtly so that I don’t notice it until I look back and realize how spiritually dry and desolate I am!  I’ve learned to combat these feelings with my faith…

How To Be Rich – How To Give

This week, pastor Phil speaks about giving.  All throughout scripture, God makes it clear that giving and tithing are important aspects to our faith in Him.  Giving not only empowers the church to do the work of God, but it also causes you to surrender your financial life.  The good news is that God promises to bless us when we give! “Give, and you will receive. Your gift will return to you in full—pressed down, shaken together to make room for more, running over,…

The Love Of God VS The Love Of Money

What you love is what will drive you in life.  If you love money or “stuff” then the pursuit of that will drive you in life.  The end result is that you trade the glory of God for a lie that will not only turn your life and heart bitter, but will lead to your destruction!  This week, Dave encourages us to prayerfully examine where our hearts are so that we can live with the full joy that Christ offers us when we…

Single Christians Who Fully Depend On God

As humans, it is a natural thing to make plans and have dreams.  As  Christian singles waiting on God for a spouse or a relationship we naturally start to build up a mental plan of how we want things to happen instead of being open to God’s plan.  Although there is nothing wrong with planning ahead, we have to remember that God is sovereign over everything including our every day lives.  If we try to resist His plan, the outcome…

Remembering God’s Promises During the Holidays

Not sure why this is the case , but many people get  more depressed during the holidays than any other time. Depression during the holidays can strike both married and singles. In fact, I have written quite a  bit on how to beat the holiday blues. almost all professionals agree that one of the major reasons for depression and discouragement is a  loss of a lack of perspective on who God is. This would include forgetting to  remember the wonderful…

Great Single Christian Dating Partner Indicators

Are you a Christian Single looking for a great Christian girlfriend or boyfriend?  Do you know what qualities you should be on the look out for while waiting of your future dating partner to come into your life?  We talked to a bunch of Christian singles and this is what we came up with! Great Single Christian Boy/Girlfriend Indicators They put Jesus Christ first in their life:  If a person puts Jesus first, everything else in their life will be…

Single Christians Living for Christ

As  a single Christians, living your life for Christ is the single most important thing you can do!  Many Christian singles get it backwards!  They think that they should find a soul mate before they surrender their all to Jesus Christ!  Instead, they should surrender to Him first before hand, trusting His guidance for their lives.  Jesus wants our everything!  God won’t force His way into our lives; we need to yield to His guidance and listen to His voice.…

Dating Game-Waiting Game

Waiting for that perfect Christian dating match is not always fun, but often feels like some sort of cosmic waiting game. Problem is in our busy lives we don’t have very much patience to wait on things. Funny though, how we will always wait for things that are important to us. We will wait by the phone for our new love interest to call or a report from the doctor’s office. We wait in line to get into the newest…

NJ Church Services for Singles-Oasis Church

Living in NJ, finding a NJ church service for singles has not always been easy. That’s why when we started Oasis-Church-NJ.com, we wanted to create NJ church services for singles-whether single moms, single dads, single and divorced, etc., would feel at home. Now understand that Oasis is NOT a NJ singles church. In fact we are a NJ family friendly church and have many married couples here. However, we are a New Jersey church that puts single adults on an…

Central Jersey Church for Divorced Single Parents

Since we realize how difficult it is to be a divorced single parent, we already wrote a number articles about divorced single parents, and how difficult it is. Finding a good church for divorced people, whether with kids or not, is one of the most important things to do is to find a good church that accepts divorced people, and has divorce supopoer groups in place like Celebrate Recovery, divorce care or other similar type divorce self help groups. Central…

Persevering as a Christian

Sometimes life is tough, whether you are married, single with kids, widowed or single and looking for mate. In today’ Christian podcast  at Oasis-Church-NJ.com, leadpastor Dave Butler shares a relevant message from  Hebrews 12: on how  Christian singles  and all others can persevere in this race we call lfe. Oasis Church is a NJ non-denominational church for families and singles of all walks  of life including 20-somethings, 30-somethings, 40-somethings and more. Oasis serves Union, Somerset, Middlesex and Essex Counties including Springfield,…

Praying for a Christian Soul Mate

Do you ever pray to God fr a job, a  Christian soulmate or for any other reason, and feel that he is not answering your prayers? I know one Christian single girl who has waited  to date Mr Right for over 20 years, and feels at this point that God will NEVER answer her. Well, if you feel like her at times, this week’s NJ Church podcast from Oasis-Church-NJ.com will help you. Pastor Dave Butler goes over four principles to remember…

Power for Living for Christian Singles

Christian singles often feel powerless in their lives. Why is this? Some who I meet simply lack confidence. Other Christians find life because they are going “at it” alone. In today’s Christian podcast from Oasis-Church-NJ.com, Pastor Dave Butler discusses how the Holy Spirit can give us power for living life to the full, whether single-never married and looking for a soulmate, married or divorced. Praying for a Christian Soul Mate Christian Dating Home   http://media.blubrry.com/oasischurch/p/christian-dating-service-plus.com/audio1/2-26-12.mp3Podcast: Play in new window |…

Take a Leap of Faith

Are ready to take a leap of faith? In our LEAP series at Oasis, we are teaching how God wants us to take a leap of faith, trusting Him for amazing things in 2012. Now I realize many of the Christian singles and married folks reading this are already soured on 2012, and we’ve reverted into safe mode to ride the year out. Bit without taking a leap of faith, single Christians will never become all the God has created…

Next Steps 2-Gallup Poll on Bible Reading

Did you see the recent Gallup Poll on Bible ? Do know how to read the Bible? A better question would be, “Do you even read the Bible.” According to a recent Gallup Poll on Bible reading, only 10% of professing Christian singles (married Christian couples were a little better, sorry) read their Bibles on a daily basis. However, if you’re like me, do you sometimes read the Bible, but feel like you get nothing out of studying God’s word?…