This category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types singles articles and life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on single men, single women, single Christian parents, single girls, teens, well, I think you get the point. :)
Why yet another singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.
So ifyou are looking for anything singles-related, this category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to singles of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.
Here you will find all types of articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.
Perhaps one of the greatest fears single Christians face is the fear of being alone forever. Some of us fear being alone as we contemplate the possibility of growing lonely, old, and sick. I know of one single gal who actually works herself into an anxiety attack as she thinks about the fear of being alone. Yet, she paradoxically also has a fear of commitment. Go figure. Understanding the Fear of being alone The fear of being alone forever is…
Look, I know why you’re here. Breaking a soul tie sounds a little like “cutting the invisible strings” tethering your heart to someone who—let’s be honest—was not exactly the love of your life. Maybe you’ve tried deleting their number, muting them on social media, or even scrolling past every playlist that reminds you of that one road trip, but still, there’s a magnetic pull. What gives? Well, friend, it sounds like you’re dealing with a soul tie. Let’s dive into…
If you’re reading this, odds are you’re a single guy or girl who’s perhaps a little tired of eating alone or going to church gatherings with one less chair needed. You may be wondering; will I ever find love? But don’t worry, being single isn’t a problem—it’s an opportunity. In fact, as someone who’s been in the trenches of singledom myself, let’s just say there are a few life lessons we can learn, laughs we can have, and perspectives we…
If you’re reading this, odds are you’re a single guy who’s perhaps a little tired of eating alone or going to church gatherings with one less chair needed. It’s painful being single. But don’t worry, being single isn’t a problem—it’s an opportunity. In fact, as someone who’s been in the trenches of singledom myself, let’s just say there are a few life lessons we can learn, laughs we can have, and perspectives we can gain along the way. So let’s…
How do you If you’ve been out there long enough, you’ve probably encountered someone who checks all the boxes—charming, confident, smooth-talking… but something just doesn’t add up. Chances are, if you’re dealing with this type of personality, you might have run into a narcissist. Narcissists can be challenging, and, unfortunately, they’re masters of mind games. But don’t worry, I’ve got your back! Let’s dive into 14 classic signs that a narcissist might be trying to manipulate you—and let’s laugh a…
Christian dating can be both a beautiful and sometimes comically challenging experience. After all, there’s the mission to honor God while also navigating personal attraction, texting etiquette, and maybe a bit of nervous sweating. So, let’s dig into some practical and funny Christian dating advice that blends faith with a touch of humor. 1. Start with Prayer – And Maybe a Little Patience Before you even think about swiping, liking, or that casual “how are you?” text, take some time…
There’s something irresistible about Christian romance novel and romance movies. Whether you’re a longtime fan or new to the genre, these stories of faith-based love have a way of pulling at heartstrings and bringing a smile to the face. Between the small-town settings, earnest protagonists, and “could-this-be-God’s-plan?” moments, Christian romance novels offer readers a wholesome and heartwarming journey toward love and happily-ever-afters. But, like any genre, Christian romance novels come with their own set of pros and cons. So, if…
Are you a Christian single man or woman suffering from fear of commitment, especially when it comes to dating? The journey towards finding a life partner is an intimate voyage, filled with moments of joy, introspection, and sometimes, anxiety. One of the more daunting feelings that some Christian singles grapple with is the ‘fear of commitment.’ But what exactly does that mean, and how can a Christ-centered approach help to overcome it? What is the Fear of Commitment? At its…
Ah, the hopeless romantic. You’ve probably heard the term, and if you’re single and dating in the Christian world, you may even be one. But what exactly is a hopeless romantic, especially from a Christian perspective? Is it a bad thing? A good thing? Or just something that requires a little guidance and prayer? Let’s dive in. A hopeless romantic is someone who absolutely loves the idea of love. They often dream about the perfect relationship, the fairy-tale ending, and,…
Why Marrying an Older Man Might Be Your Best Move: Ladies, gather ‘round, because we’re about to break down one of the most surprising yet beneficial relationship dynamics out there: marrying an older man! Yes, you heard me right! If you’ve been praying about your future spouse and keep wondering why God keeps leading you toward a man with a few extra years of wisdom (and maybe a few extra gray hairs), you’re in the right place. Now, before you say,…
Looking for godly advice for single women? Being a single woman in today’s world can feel like being in the middle of a never-ending reality show. You’ve got your friends getting married, social media flaunting perfect couples, and family members dropping not-so-subtle hints at every holiday gathering. But hey, who said singlehood isn’t a blessing in disguise? Think of it as a divine opportunity—a sabbatical, if you will—where you get to discover who you are, embrace your quirks, and figure…
Dating within the Christian community can feel like a breath of fresh air. You’re navigating values, faith, and goals, hoping to find that deep, spiritual connection that’s more than just skin-deep. However, as with any dating pool, you might come across people who aren’t quite as sincere as they seem. Maybe it’s subtle—an offhand comment, a questionable reaction during Bible study, or the way they gloss over prayer time. If you’re wondering whether your Christian date is being genuine or…
If you are seeking practical advice for widowed Christian singles, you came to the right site. But let’s get one thing straight: Being a widow is hard. No one enters a marriage thinking it will end that way, especially when you’re someone who holds faith close to your heart. But as life can sometimes be messy, so too can our relationships. So here you are: a widowed Christian single. And you know what? That’s okay. Life didn’t turn out how…
Being a single Christian can sometimes feel like you’re on a solo road trip with God in the passenger seat, offering directions. But the twist? You have no map, the GPS is God’s Word, and sometimes it feels like you’re driving in circles. When it comes to your career, the stakes feel even higher. What if I pick the wrong job? What if I never find my purpose? What if I end up living in my parents’ basement forever, with…
I received this question from a Christian single woman who asked the question, “How many dates should I wait before having sex?” Coming from a Christian single person, it’s a question that sparks controversy and curiosity, especially when society seems to place an increasing emphasis on physical intimacy early in relationships. But when you’re striving to follow biblical principles, the answer is about more than just numbers or timing—it’s about honoring God’s design for intimacy. So, let’s approach this with…
Navigating the world of Christian dating can feel like stepping into a labyrinth, complete with unexpected turns and a few dead ends. For older Christian singles, it might seem even trickier—like everyone else already found their match and got off the ride. But here’s the good news: love knows no age, and meeting older, mature Christian singles can be fun, meaningful, and full of divine surprises. In this guide, we’ll explore some delightful (and practical) ways to connect with mature…