Christian Singles Articles (Page 5)
This category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types singles articles and life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on single men, single women, single Christian parents, single girls, teens, well, I think you get the point. :)
Christian Singles Resources
No matter if you are a Millennial, Baby Boomer or a Senior Single, hopefully you will find these singles articles useful. There are dozens of articles to choose from including “Learning How to Argue and Fight“, Christian Girls Who Date Bad Guys”, “Fears that Keep Men and Women Single“, “How to Mend a Broken Heart” “Masturbation” and many others.
Need for Singles Ministries
Why yet another singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.
So if you are looking for anything singles-related, this category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to singles of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.
Here you will find all types of articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.
The Gift of Singleness: 5 Top Reasons Why You Might Have It
Have you ever thought about whether or not you have the “gift of singleness?” You’ve been praying, fasting, and maybe even sent up one of those emergency “God, if this is really your plan, please send a very clear sign because I’m not seeing it” kind of prayers. Yet, here you stand in the land of singleness, and you’re wondering: Could I actually have the gift of singleness? Let’s take a deep breath, laugh a little, and explore some reasons…
Christian Dating Advice: Those Who Have Been Sexually Abused
When you’re dating someone who has been sexually abused, the relationship requires deep levels of compassion, understanding, and patience. As Christians, we are called to love one another deeply (1 Peter 4:8), and that love extends to helping our partner heal from past wounds, especially those as profound as sexual abuse. This journey can be challenging, but it is also one of profound grace, and your relationship can grow stronger through Christ. Let’s talk about the biblical approach to dating…
Embracing Your Identity in Christ as a Christian Single
Do you embrace your identity in Christ as a Christian single? How does your identity in Christ affect you as a Christian Single? When you think about being single, it can sometimes feel like you’re in some kind of waiting room—waiting for that special someone to walk into your life and sweep you off your feet. For Christian singles, that waiting room can feel even more complex. There’s the usual dating landscape, but then there’s also this whole added layer…
Signs of a Healthy Relationship For Christian Boyfriends/Girlfriends
Wondering what the signs of a healthy relationship are for Christian boyfriends or girlfriends? Would you even be able to spot that good catch of a Christian boyfriend or girlfriend when they come into your sights? Recently, several singles sat down and came up with the following top seven signs you are in the right relationship with your Christian boyfriend or girlfriend: Top 7 Great Signs of a healthy relationship Jesus is the most important person in their lives. Remember,…
Christian Singles Secrets
Do you have Christian singles secrets bottled up in your heart? Many Christian singles walk around with the burden of carrying personal secrets bottled up deep in their hearts. Whether the secrets are unconfessed sexual sins, painful memories, regrets, shame-filled experiences, or totally whacked-out thoughts, God did not design us to deal with such raw issues by ourselves. From the Garden, the Lord created mankind for intimate fellowship with no room for secrets. Adam’s hiding from God after eating the…
Overcoming Societal Pressures to Marry as a Christian Single
Ah, societal pressure—the invisible weight that somehow finds its way into our holiday dinners, church pews, and even Facebook comments. If you’re a Christian single, you probably know the drill. “So, when are you going to settle down?” comes right after “Pass the mashed potatoes.” Society seems to have this unspoken checklist: graduate, get a job, get married, have kids—and do it all before 30! But what if God has other plans, or maybe you’re just not rushing? Here’s a…
Christian Dating Advice for Christian Single College Students
Looking for Christian dating advice for college single college students? Let’s be real—college dating is a wild ride. Between classes, late-night study sessions, and figuring out what to eat that’s not ramen, adding dating into the mix can feel like juggling fire. Now, throw in your desire to honor God while dating, and suddenly it feels like you’re navigating a maze in the dark! But hey, don’t panic—I’m here to help. As a pastor on the campus of Rutgers University…
Why Do I Keep Getting Attracted to Unavailable Guys?
I get this question asked a lot: Why Do I Keep Getting Attracted to Unavailable Guys? As a Christian single girl, navigating the complexities of dating can be a perplexing journey, particularly when you find yourself repeatedly drawn to unavailable guys. This pattern can be emotionally draining and spiritually challenging. Understanding the underlying reasons for this tendency can shed light on healthier relationship paths aligned with Christian values. This article explores why some Christian single women might repeatedly find themselves…
How to Ask God for Forgiveness: A Christian’s Journey Through Habitual Sexual Sin
As a Christian single, struggling with habitual sexual sin can be a heavy burden. The guilt, shame, and frustration can feel overwhelming, especially when you love God and want to live according to His Word. You might wonder if He’s even willing to forgive you after falling so many times. Here’s the truth: God is always ready to forgive, no matter how many times we fall. His grace is deeper than our failures, and His love is unconditional. But asking…
How to Forgive Myself as a Christian Single
Life as a single Christian can feel like walking a tightrope at times. There’s an unspoken pressure, especially from ourselves, to live up to certain standards. Whether it’s about relationships, purity, or just being the “perfect” believer, we often set the bar impossibly high and end up being our harshest critic. And when we fall short of these expectations, self-forgiveness can feel like a mountain we don’t know how to climb. So, how can we forgive ourselves, especially when we…
How Many Dates Before You’re in a Relationship? A Christian Single’s Take
So, you’re a Christian single navigating the totally normal world of dating, trying to figure out just how many dates you need to go on before calling someone your “boyfriend” or “girlfriend.” Ah yes, the age-old question! Spoiler alert: There’s no Bible verse that tells you how many coffee dates, church services, or awkward family dinners it takes to make it official. But hey, let’s dig into this journey together with a lighthearted (and faithful) approach! The Purpose of Dating…
10 Ways to Help Him Overcome Fear of Commitment
In the journey of love and relationships, one of the most challenging hurdles can be a partner’s fear of commitment. This concern is particularly acute for Christian singles, who often seek relationships rooted in lasting love and spiritual companionship. Understanding and addressing this relationship anxiety and fear is crucial for building a foundation of trust and mutual respect. This article delves into effective strategies from a Christian perspective to help your man overcome his fear of commitment, paving the way…
How to Find a Christian Boyfriend
Wondering how to find a Christian boyfriend? Yes, trying to find a Christian boyfriend can feel like searching for a needle in a haystack, especially when you’re looking for someone who shares your faith and values. But fear not, dear sister! Here are seven practical and biblical steps to help you find that special Christian boyfriend who makes your heart sing. 7 Tips on how to find a christian boyfriend 1. Pray Like You’re Texting Your Bestie Before you start…
Fears That Keep Women And Men Single
Many fears keep women and men single and alone. Did you know that fear of being alone and single throughout life is one of the greatest fears of Christian single women and men? Paradoxically, many single women and men who yearn to get married often allow fears and phobias to keep them from entering into a relationship. Furthermore, instead of meeting the love of their lives, they end up battling feelings of loneliness and frustration. So just what are some…
How to Honor God in Your Dating Life as a Christian Single
Dating as a Christian single can sometimes feel like walking a tightrope. You’re balancing the excitement of finding someone special with the desire to keep your faith front and center. It’s a bit like trying to juggle flaming torches while riding a unicycle—you want to keep things moving forward without getting burned or, worse, falling flat on your face. But fear not! With a little bit of humor, some solid advice, and a whole lot of grace, you can navigate…
How to Reset Sexual Boundaries as Christian Singles
Alright, let’s get real for a second. You’re dating, you’re Christian, and things got a little heated—like, “Oh no, we crossed that line” heated. If you’re reading this, chances are you’re feeling a mix of guilt, confusion, and maybe even a bit of panic. First off, let’s take a deep breath together. Inhale… Exhale… Okay, now let’s talk about how to reset those sexual boundaries, sprinkle in some biblical wisdom, and find hope in the midst of this situation. Ready?…