This category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types singles articles and life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on single men, single women, single Christian parents, single girls, teens, well, I think you get the point. :)
Why yet another singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.
So ifyou are looking for anything singles related, this category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to single of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.
Here you will find all types articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.
What makes Christian women and men attractive physically? Do you know the signs of physical attraction? Experts tell us that there are certain signs of physical attraction that give away when a girl likes a guy, or when a dude is attracted to girl. In fact, if you were to go and Google “signs of physical attraction”, you would find a whole boatload of relationship advice on how to tell when there is a spark. In today’s fast-paced and image-driven…
Low self-esteem in Christian singles is keeping them from finding a serious dating relationship. It’s really simple: If you don’t feel really good about yourself, you’re not going to think anyone else will either. Sadly, problems with low self-esteem can not only affect our dating relationships but all other areas of our life, including our emotional health. Many feel like losers. Single men and women with low self-esteem suffer more depression and discouragement, loneliness, and anxiety in their lives than other…
So you’ve been dating for a while, and the awkward topic of past relationships comes up. Should you confess past sexual sins to your Christian dating partner.? Or do you let sleeping dogs lie? Why Should You SpilL the Beans About Your Past? First off, let’s address why you should even consider opening that can of worms. Dating should be intentional. This means getting to truly know each other, with the purpose of determining if that person would be…
Knowing when to define the relationship, especially in a Christian dating relationship, is huge. There’s nothing more annoying in the dating process than not knowing where you stand with someone. You’re stuck there wondering where this is going and if the other person is even thinking about it. If you’ve ever wanted to ask someone, “What are we?” this is for you. I’m going to share exactly what to do and not to do when you’re ready to define the…
Today we are answering the question, “Is Depression a Sin?” I received this question from one of our readers. Before we answer the question of whether it is a sin for a Christian to be depressed or suffer anxiety let me just say that the Bible is full of people who had great faith, but at times got quite depressed. David, Jeremiah and Elijah to name a few. Yet, the Lord met them in their pain, and they ended up…
Hey folks! Today we are going to talk about the Bible on love and relationships. In the podcast below, we are going to chat about relationships and what the Bible has to say about them. You know, we often base our views on love and relationships on what we see around us – Hollywood, social media, and even Barbie and Ken! But did you know the Bible has some timeless advice on this topic? Let’s dig in and see how…
Learning how to deal with disappointment in life is one of the most important life skills to acquire. In the journey of Christian singleness, navigating the waters of disappointment can often feel like a daunting task. The longing for companionship, the pressures of societal expectations, and the silent battles with loneliness can lead to profound moments of disappointment. However, within the Christian faith lies a reservoir of strength, hope, and joy that can transform these moments into opportunities for growth…
I get a lot of mail from 40 Something Christian singles bemoaning how difficult it is at this age. As a 64 year old dude, I don’t really feel sorry for them. in truth, life as a 40 something Christian single can sometimes feel like a unique adventure with its own set of challenges and joys. Here are a few common struggles many in this group might face: Top Struggles of 40 something christian singles Social Expectations: Society often…
Recently someone wrote to me questioning whether introverts and extroverts can successfully date each other. Whether you’re an introvert who loves quiet nights in or an extrovert who thrives on social gatherings, dating someone with a different personality type can be a fun and rewarding experience. It might seem like a challenge at first, but with a little understanding and compromise, introverts and extroverts can create a beautiful, balanced relationship. Here are seven top tips to help you navigate the…
Hey there, fellow Gen X Christian singles! If you’re in your 40s or 50s and feeling a bit overwhelmed by the dating scene, you’re not alone. Many of us are juggling careers, family responsibilities, and personal faith journeys while trying to find that special someone. Let’s dive into some of the top worries we face and how to tackle them with faith, hope, and a good dose of humor. Balancing Faith and Modern Dating One of the biggest concerns for…
Hey there! I want to chat with you about something that often confuses many people: the difference between solo parenting and single parenting. These terms may seem interchangeable, but they hold distinct meanings and experiences. As a fellow Christian single parent, who has had my ups and downs, I know the journey we walk as single parents is filled with unique challenges, yet some beautiful rewards. Defining Solo Parenting vs Single Parenting First things first, let’s get our definitions straight:…
One of the most difficult things is telling someone you no longer have feelings for them. However, honesty and compassion are crucial in such situations. I personally have been on the losing of this proposition, and I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. I really believe the following points are offered with sensitivity, rooted in Christian values, to ensure both you and the other person can find peace and understanding. Understanding the Importance of Honesty Honesty is a cornerstone…
Any Christian Single Women looking for some Christian dating advice? Did you know that 66% of the tens of thousands of visitors to this site each week are single Christian women looking for Christian dating advice? Therefore, I got the idea that I should put together some of our top articles for Christian single women and put them right here. Dating can be an exciting but sometimes challenging journey for Christian single women. Navigating the modern dating scene while staying…
Let me make a confession here. I’m married. I’m a (gasp!) senior citizen about to turn freakin’ 65 in July, and I HATE growing old, although I realize it beats the alternative. 🙂 However, the pitfalls of growing old as a single Christian Baby Boomer come with its own set of issues that I’d like to hit on here. Growing old is a journey marked by twists and turns, highs and lows. So, let’s delve into the heartfelt exploration of…
Christian single parents carry significant responsibilities and often face loneliness. Think about it. It can feel overwhelming to manage all the chores, attend to your children’s needs, and find time for personal well-being. In today’s world, single parenthood has become increasingly common, and the journey is seldom smooth. For Christian single parents, the task becomes even more significant as they seek to instill spiritual values while managing life’s challenges singlehandedly. This article will offer essential advice and strategies for Christian…
Wondering how to stop being a people pleaser? In the journey of Christian dating, singles often face the challenge of balancing their own desires with the expectations of others. The inclination to please people can be deeply ingrained, especially within the context of relationships. However, for a fulfilling and authentic connection, it’s essential to recognize and overcome this tendency. This article will explore the concept of people pleasing in Christian dating and provide ten practical steps for singles to cultivate…