This category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types singles articles and life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on single men, single women, single Christian parents, single girls, teens, well, I think you get the point. :)
Why yet another singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.
So ifyou are looking for anything singles related, this category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to single of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.
Here you will find all types articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.
Single parent support is so necessary for Christian single parents. Why? Christian single parenting is one of the hardest jobs around. It’s hard enough being a parent in a household where mom and dad are together. A single parent also has to to balance, work, money worries, school, housing, etc. Forget about single parent dating. Being a single parent multiplies the stress in the whole household. Often times, what occurs is that the single parenting mother or father ends up…
The third date will make or break whether your Christian dating relationship will be long term or short lived. I know. I know. As a Christian single you may be still working on getting that first date or second date. But today we are going to share some third date tips. The first date and and the second date are inextricably connected to the third date because if the the former ones go badly, your chances of a third date…
Sadly, most churches do not have Christian singles activities for the single Christians. The result has been manu seeking Christian singles activities often search from church to church looking for something to do during the week or on weekends. However,looking for single Christian activities and events could be both time consuming and frustrating. That’s why we put together the following Christian singles meeting place ideas for thos looking for Christian Singles Activities Tips First, since local search results is more…
Boy, wouldn’t we all want to know how to save a relationship? Especially if it’s your own or a loved one? Many Christian singles walk around heart broken over relationships that have ended, sad that they were not able to save their dating relationships. How to Save a Relationship Podcast In today’s church podcast, Pastor Dave Butler, of Oasis-Church-NJ.com, shares a practical message from the book of James on advice he give on how to save a relationship. Do you…
Relationship communication problems? Many single Christians have relationship communication problems for a variety of reasons. Some Christian singles simply lack confidence with dating. Others have relationship comunication problems because they do not know how to deal with conflict and arguing and fighting Relationship Communication Problems If you have issues getting along with your Christian dating partner or mate, the below relationship communication problems podcast from Oasis Church may help. Based on the book of James, the discussion centers around the…
Are you into sabotaging relationships? You’re not alone. From the Garden of Eden on, human beings have been sabotaging relationships of all kinds. It’s a catch 22 for many Christian singles: While desiring a dating relationship leading toward marriage, some at the same time allow their fears to keep them single to sabotage any hopeful relationship. Sabotaging Relationships Podcast Many singles who sabotage relationships often have have problems with intimacy. This problem is in turn related to a flawed relationship…
Wondering how to fix relationship problems with your boyfriend or girlfriend? Well you’re not alone. A lot of single Christians write us wanting advice on how to fix relationship problems. There is a good amount of Christian relationship advice on building solid relationships on this singles blog. However, the root cause of relationship problems with others, whether you your mate or date, really stems from our relationship with God. Most relationship problems come from us avoiding true intimacy with God, and…
As a Christian single, do you suffer from insecurity in relationships? If you suffer insecurity in your Christian dating relationship (like I used to) you probably have inner voices spewing insecure thoughts like these about your date: “This is too good to be true, she’s bound to break up with me.” “When she finds out what I’m really like she’s gonna reject me like the others did.” “I just know my date is cheating on me.” Overcoming Insecurity in Relationships…
As the new eHarmony TV commercial says, 1 in 5 people now find a soulmate through online dating sites. The question is not whether online dating works, for Christian singles the issue is how to practice safe online dating. Especially for Christian single women, safe online dating is the most important factor in determining whether use a Christian dating site or not. Safe Online Christian Dating Article Not to brag or anything, but the best safe online dating tip I…
Okay, so you are a Christian single on your first date and looking for romantic evenings ideas? Somebody asked me recently if it was cool for a Christian dating couple to enjoy a romantic evening together. What kind of a silly question was that! Of course it is. The issue at hand is what romantic evenings ideas are fitting for for a Christian single trying to live a a sexually pure life. Romantic Evenings Ideas The following top 3 romantic…
Many single Christians are asking, “Where can I find Christian singles in my area?” If I were looking for singles in my area, would try some of the following things to find my dating match Finding Singles in my Area If i were single I would search out all the local church singles groups and events in my particular area, and attend a few of them. If you are actually attempting to find singles in your area to date, I…
Relationship problems do not only exist among those outside of the church. Fact is, there are many Christian singles who have relationship problems with their girlfriends or boyfriends. Abusive dating relationships, control freaks, cheaters. These relationships problems are just as prevalent among single Christians as well as unchurched people. Relationship Problems in the Bible Most relationship problems, whether in dating relationships, or in our relationships with family or God, are rooted in sinful attitudes and behaviour. In the Bible, we…
Communication Skills needed? Are you a Christian single interested in dating but have, well, a lack of communication? Are you inept starting conversations with the opposite sex? Communication Skills Podcast The following communication podcast from Oasis Church this week offers biblical communication dating tips that could make or break your dating or marriage relationship. In reality, this communication skills advice is helpful for any relationship Compatibility Test Learning to Forgive Your Christian Single Dating Partner Christian Dating Service http://media.blubrry.com/oasischurch/christian-dating-service-plus.com/audio1/8-7-2011.mp3Podcast: Play…
Single parenting is tough enough. Single parenting angry teenagers is enough to drive anyone insane. While we have several articles about singles who are angry at being single. Oftentimes, single parenting angry teenagers detracts from single moms dating again because all of their time is taken up with their angry teen. Why do teens get angry? Anger in adolescence is normal but could be a sign of depression, low self esteem or even a physical problem. Many times as Christian…
When it’s time to write your Christian single soulmate a love letter, there you are a number of sample love letters that you can choose from on the internet to get your love letter writing juices flowing. Simply “google” the keyphrase, “sample love letter”, and you will find a plethora of different kinds of sample love letters. Sample Love Letters on the Internet On the web you will find romantic sample love letters, humorous love letters and playful sample love…
Learning how to apologize can make or break any relationship. Let’s face it, we’ve have had arguments and fights from time to time that afterwards would necessitate us making an apology to our date or soul mate. But there is a right way to apologize and a wrong way. Learning How to Apologize Before you get ready to dump that relationship, listening to this Relationships Podcast will offer you some solid relationship advice on how to say your sorry and…
Forgiveness is a tough word in the dating world, whether you are a dating Christian single or dating an unbeliever. Fact of the matter is that since we are all broken people in a sinful world, sooner or later we will have to learn the art of forgiving your dating partner. How to Forgive Your Christian Single Partner Whether you’ve been lied to, cheated upon or just outright abused, we all need advice from tim to time on how to…
Why are you here on Earth? Finding meaning in life as a single person is a major issue for many single guys and girls. Many non-Christian and Christian singles struggle with discouragement, anger over being single, and loneliness as they wander through life without meaning. Finding Meaning in Life and Being Single In today’s Christian podcast from Oasis-Church-NJ.com we address the issue of “Why Are We Here?” I hope you enjoy the podcast. Oasis meets Sundays at 11am at 1180…
As a Christian single, are you playing love and seek or hide and seek in your quest for a Christian dating match? I write this because many Christian singles I know say they seek true love, but sometimes by their actions bely that. It’s ironic but true that many single Christians who seek love also run away from love. Either out of insecurity or fear many “love and seek” single Christians play dating games Love and Seek Christian Single Games…
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For those of you who do not know, Christian Cafe has now merged with Single Christian Network, one of the oldest Christian single dating services on the web. After several months of observing how Christian Cafe dating service has handled this, I feel Christian singles will now be benefited by this merger. Christian Cafe Dating Service Now Has More Members While I originally trashed Single Christian Network (SingleC) in one of our Christian dating service reviews, looks like I’m gonna…
The following is a heart plea from a single girl looking for Christian help fighting sin: Hi All. I’m a 23 year old “christian” single female who needs help fighting sin. I never ever imagined in the whole two years that I’ve struggled with masturbation that there are other Christian teens and young single adults facing the exact same issues. I’m a virgin, by definition, but it gets so hard at times. I haven’t really wanted to have sex before…
Recently, Christian Mingle changed their name to Relationships.com, but then changed their name to Christian Mingle again. According to the folks at ChristianMingle, a growing single Christian database caused the revamping of the tools used on the dating site. While they were at it, ChristianMingle decided a fresh name and some new searching features would bring in more singles in search of a soul mate. However the new name never worked out because it confused Christian singles We always thought…