This category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types singles articles and life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on single men, single women, single Christian parents, single girls, teens, well, I think you get the point. :)
Why yet another singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.
So ifyou are looking for anything singles-related, this category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to singles of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.
Here you will find all types of articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.
Why are Gen Z Christian single men avoiding dating and dating apps? Inquiring minds want to know. And while it might seem puzzling at first, the reasons are as layered as a perfect lasagna (or maybe a more holy metaphor like the layers of spiritual growth). So, let’s dive into why these guys are dodging the romantic digital scene and why, with a little humor and biblical wisdom, there might be hope yet. Top Reasons Gen Z Christian single Men…
Let’s face it, navigating the world of dating as a Christian single can sometimes feel like trying to solve a Rubik’s cube blindfolded. You know there’s a formula, but half the time you wonder if you’re even in the right room! What does it take to find the one God has for you, without compromising on faith, standards, or…your sanity? Fear not, dear reader! We’re going to unlock seven keys to successful romantic relationships for Christian singles, and we’ll do…
Ever wonder how to cure boredom as a Christian single? That pesky little feeling that creeps up when you’ve scrolled through your phone for the 152nd time, checked in on that distant cousin’s Facebook drama, and even reorganized your sock drawer for the thrill of it. Being single as a Christian can sometimes feel like you’ve been given the ultimate time-out—especially when you’re trying to remain intentional about your time and honor God with your life. But the truth is,…
So, you’ve made it to the third date! Congratulations! In the world of Christian dating, the third date is kind of a big deal. You made it through the first date and second date, and now, you’re in the sweet spot where you can get to know each other on a deeper level without things feeling rushed. But what do you do for a third date that aligns with your faith, is fun, and doesn’t involve just sitting across from…
Ah, the classic conundrum: meeting Mr. or Ms. Right at what seems like the wrong time. We’ve all heard it: “I met the right person, but it was the wrong time.” Or, if you’re a Christian single, it may sound more like, “God sent this amazing person, but I’m just not in the right season to receive it!” Cue the dramatic sigh, longing looks at the sky, and perhaps a prannnnnknnkknoinno;njk;jknjnkyer asking, “Why, Lord, why?!” But let’s take a moment…
As a Christian single, it can feel like you’re constantly navigating a sea of advice and pressure about finding “the one.” Friends, family, and even pop culture might tell you to hurry up, settle down, or lower your standards because “nobody’s perfect.” But here’s the truth: You should never settle for less than what God has planned for you, especially when it comes to something as sacred as a life partner. Waiting for “the one” can be a challenging, emotional,…
Have you ever thought about whether or not you have the “gift of singleness?” You’ve been praying, fasting, and maybe even sent up one of those emergency “God, if this is really your plan, please send a very clear sign because I’m not seeing it” kind of prayers. Yet, here you stand in the land of singleness, and you’re wondering: Could I actually have the gift of singleness? Let’s take a deep breath, laugh a little, and explore some reasons…
When you’re dating someone who has been sexually abused, the relationship requires deep levels of compassion, understanding, and patience. As Christians, we are called to love one another deeply (1 Peter 4:8), and that love extends to helping our partner heal from past wounds, especially those as profound as sexual abuse. This journey can be challenging, but it is also one of profound grace, and your relationship can grow stronger through Christ. Let’s talk about the biblical approach to dating…
Wondering what the signs of a healthy relationship are for Christian boyfriends or girlfriends? Would you even be able to spot that good catch of a Christian boyfriend or girlfriend when they come into your sights? Recently, several singles sat down and came up with the following top seven signs you are in the right relationship with your Christian boyfriend or girlfriend: Top 7 Great Signs of a healthy relationship Jesus is the most important person in their lives. Remember,…
Do you have Christian singles secrets bottled up in your heart? Many Christian singles walk around with the burden of carrying personal secrets bottled up deep in their hearts. Whether the secrets are unconfessed sexual sins, painful memories, regrets, shame-filled experiences, or totally whacked-out thoughts, God did not design us to deal with such raw issues by ourselves. From the Garden, the Lord created mankind for intimate fellowship with no room for secrets. Adam’s hiding from God after eating the…
Ah, societal pressure—the invisible weight that somehow finds its way into our holiday dinners, church pews, and even Facebook comments. If you’re a Christian single, you probably know the drill. “So, when are you going to settle down?” comes right after “Pass the mashed potatoes.” Society seems to have this unspoken checklist: graduate, get a job, get married, have kids—and do it all before 30! But what if God has other plans, or maybe you’re just not rushing? Here’s a…
Looking for Christian dating advice for college single college students? Let’s be real—college dating is a wild ride. Between classes, late-night study sessions, and figuring out what to eat that’s not ramen, adding dating into the mix can feel like juggling fire. Now, throw in your desire to honor God while dating, and suddenly it feels like you’re navigating a maze in the dark! But hey, don’t panic—I’m here to help. As a pastor on the campus of Rutgers University…
I get this question asked a lot: Why Do I Keep Getting Attracted to Unavailable Guys? As a Christian single girl, navigating the complexities of dating can be a perplexing journey, particularly when you find yourself repeatedly drawn to unavailable guys. This pattern can be emotionally draining and spiritually challenging. Understanding the underlying reasons for this tendency can shed light on healthier relationship paths aligned with Christian values. This article explores why some Christian single women might repeatedly find themselves…
As a Christian single, struggling with habitual sexual sin can be a heavy burden. The guilt, shame, and frustration can feel overwhelming, especially when you love God and want to live according to His Word. You might wonder if He’s even willing to forgive you after falling so many times. Here’s the truth: God is always ready to forgive, no matter how many times we fall. His grace is deeper than our failures, and His love is unconditional. But asking…
Life as a single Christian can feel like walking a tightrope at times. There’s an unspoken pressure, especially from ourselves, to live up to certain standards. Whether it’s about relationships, purity, or just being the “perfect” believer, we often set the bar impossibly high and end up being our harshest critic. And when we fall short of these expectations, self-forgiveness can feel like a mountain we don’t know how to climb. So, how can we forgive ourselves, especially when we…
So, you’re a Christian single navigating the totally normal world of dating, trying to figure out just how many dates you need to go on before calling someone your “boyfriend” or “girlfriend.” Ah yes, the age-old question! Spoiler alert: There’s no Bible verse that tells you how many coffee dates, church services, or awkward family dinners it takes to make it official. But hey, let’s dig into this journey together with a lighthearted (and faithful) approach! The Purpose of Dating…