This category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types singles articles and life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on single men, single women, single Christian parents, single girls, teens, well, I think you get the point. :)
Why yet another singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.
So ifyou are looking for anything singles-related, this category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to singles of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.
Here you will find all types of articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.
Hey there, fellow Gen X Christian singles! If you’re in your 40s or 50s and feeling a bit overwhelmed by the dating scene, you’re not alone. Many of us are juggling careers, family responsibilities, and personal faith journeys while trying to find that special someone. Let’s dive into some of the top worries we face and how to tackle them with faith, hope, and a good dose of humor. Balancing Faith and Modern Dating One of the biggest concerns for…
Hey there! I want to chat with you about something that often confuses many people: the difference between solo parenting and single parenting. These terms may seem interchangeable, but they hold distinct meanings and experiences. As a fellow Christian single parent, who has had my ups and downs, I know the journey we walk as single parents is filled with unique challenges, yet some beautiful rewards. Defining Solo Parenting vs Single Parenting First things first, let’s get our definitions straight:…
One of the most difficult things is telling someone you no longer have feelings for them. However, honesty and compassion are crucial in such situations. I personally have been on the losing of this proposition, and I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. I really believe the following points are offered with sensitivity, rooted in Christian values, to ensure both you and the other person can find peace and understanding. Understanding the Importance of Honesty Honesty is a cornerstone…
Any Christian Single Women looking for some Christian dating advice? Did you know that 66% of the tens of thousands of visitors to this site each week are single Christian women looking for Christian dating advice? Therefore, I got the idea that I should put together some of our top articles for Christian single women and put them right here. Dating can be an exciting but sometimes challenging journey for Christian single women. Navigating the modern dating scene while staying…
Let me make a confession here. I’m married. I’m a (gasp!) senior citizen about to turn freakin’ 65 in July, and I HATE growing old, although I realize it beats the alternative. 🙂 However, the pitfalls of growing old as a single Christian Baby Boomer come with its own set of issues that I’d like to hit on here. Growing old is a journey marked by twists and turns, highs and lows. So, let’s delve into the heartfelt exploration of…
Christian single parents carry significant responsibilities and often face loneliness. Think about it. It can feel overwhelming to manage all the chores, attend to your children’s needs, and find time for personal well-being. In today’s world, single parenthood has become increasingly common, and the journey is seldom smooth. For Christian single parents, the task becomes even more significant as they seek to instill spiritual values while managing life’s challenges singlehandedly. This article will offer essential advice and strategies for Christian…
Wondering how to stop being a people pleaser? In the journey of Christian dating, singles often face the challenge of balancing their own desires with the expectations of others. The inclination to please people can be deeply ingrained, especially within the context of relationships. However, for a fulfilling and authentic connection, it’s essential to recognize and overcome this tendency. This article will explore the concept of people pleasing in Christian dating and provide ten practical steps for singles to cultivate…
How do you attract the right person to date? Some single Christians have no problems attracting people to date. However, attracting the right man or woman to date is often a separate issue. By the right man or woman to date, we mean that special person with whom you may wish to spend the rest of your life. Your soul mate. Since you only marry a man or woman you date, it’s important to get it right. Right? There are several…
What do Christian single girls look for in a single Christian guy when contemplating a soulmate or marriage partner? What qualities make a good guy catch? What are some good traits in a Christian guy?This question always seems to percolate in any singles groups I have ever attended or led. We found some online surveys about girls (ages 18-70) you may find quite interesting. Christian Single Women and Men Okay guys, so you’re no babe magnet? Don’t worry about…
Woohoo! You made it to the second date because you didn’t blow it on the first date. So just what would constitute a successful second date? The following second date tips come from several folks who have been there. Your first date is really to see if you would like to keep seeing that person. Your second date is the time when the two of you start to open up and reveal your self to the other person. On the…
A number of single Christians have written us asking how appropriate it is to ask pre-marital questions with a date. Navigating the path of Christian dating can be both exciting and daunting. As Christian singles embark on this journey, it’s crucial to build a relationship founded on mutual faith, understanding, and respect. One effective way to achieve this is by asking thoughtful pre-marital questions. These pre-marital questions not only deepen your understanding of each other’s faith and values but also…
In the world of Christian dating, discerning whether someone is the right partner is a crucial task. As a Christian singles minister, I understand that finding a life partner who aligns with your faith and values is paramount. While it’s important to give people a chance, it’s equally vital to recognize signs that may indicate someone is not the man God has in store for you. In this article, we will explore five significant signs that should raise red flags…
Stress reducers for single parents? That sounds great considering the many stress related symptoms some Christian single parents live with daily. Let’s see, there’s financial stress, job stress, dating stress, single parenting stress, custody and child support stress. Ugh! I’m getting stressed out. As single Christian parents, it is important to know how to reduce or relieve stress in your life. Especially if you are a solo parent. The following stress reducers for single parents may help give you some…
Are you a single Christian in an abusive dating relationship? In 2024, Christian abusive dating relationships are not uncommon among dating single Christians. Some singles have been in an abusive relationship, and know the pain that goes with it. Sadly, other single Christians reading this article right now are presently in an abusive relationship, but may not realize it or be in denial over it. While in the rest of this article, we will designate the victim as a “she”,…
The top 10 signs of a failing relationship? Would you be able to the the signs your relationship is failing? As a pastor and previous court mediator, I’ve literally dealt with hundreds of couples in failing relationships. As a Christian single guy or girl, it’s important to know these signs, so that you can either rectify the situation or get out of that relationship to avoid the coming pain. In the world of Christian dating, recognizing the signs of a…
Cheating Boyfriends. Do you have a CB, a cheating boyfriend? And while we’re on this uncomfortable topic of cheating boyfriends, just how prevalent do you think cheating is? Well, according to the National Opinion Research Center at the University of Chicago, 22% of girlfriends have cheating boyfriends. Okay, I know at least one sex who’s dying to know this. The good news is that only 12% of boyfriends have a girlfriend who’s a cheater. We’ll talk about that at another time…