Dating Tips

Dating Tips

Christian dating tips and articles for and by single Christians looking to meet other Christians

second date tips

Second Date Tips

Woohoo! You made it to the second date because you didn’t blow it on the first date. So just what would constitute a successful second date? The following second date tips come from several folks who have been there. Your first date is really to see if you would like to keep seeing that person. Your second date is the time when the two of you start to open up and reveal your self to the other person. On the…
control freak dating

Control Freaks in Dating: Signs You’re Dating a Control Freak

Have you ever dated control freaks? While we’re on the topic, are you a control freak? Yes, even Christian singles can be control freaks. Control freaks can be both male and female, and at first, can come across as quite appealing. However, as the dating relationship progresses a control freak will intensify his or her acting out until it becomes overwhelming for the other partner. Control freaks make for horrible Christian marriage partners. Unfortunately, it’s very difficult to spot “a…
How to ask someone out on a date

How to Ask Someone Out on a Date

Ask ten different people how to ask someone out on a date, and no doubt each person’s answer will be a little different than the next one. The following dating tips on how to ask someone out seeks to put together the best from what we’ve accumulated from other Christian singles. In the modern world of dating, finding someone who shares your Christian values and beliefs can be a beautiful journey. Asking someone out on a date, whether it’s the…
when to introduce your significant other to your child

When and How to Introduce Your Child to a Significant Other

“I don’t like them! I’m never going to like them!” That exchange might be what your child says and what you think after you’ve tried to introduce them to your new significant other. If you’ve already introduced them and it hasn’t gone well, you can’t put the genie back in the bottle, so this article is more for when you are considering introducing the new person at all. is the timing Right How long has it been since you were…
dating during separation

Is Dating While Separated Ok?

Whether Christian or not, some have asked us, “Is dating allowed during marriage separation?” Or “Is dating during separation adultery?” Of course, I always tell them it’s none of my business. However, I also realize the issue of dating during a marriage separation is a hot-button issue,  and so needs to be talked about in the church in an honest, biblical, and open way. As both a family court mediator and minister, I’m just gonna shoot from the heart and…
signs of true love

Signs of True Love in a Christian Relationship

What are signs of true love in a Christian relationship? Wondering how to make a Christian relationship last? What are the signs of true love from a man or woman?  How do you know you’ve found your “true love” of a lifetime? In the realm of Christian relationships, love is the cornerstone that fortifies the bond between two individuals. True love in a Christian relationship goes beyond infatuation or fleeting emotions, it embodies the selfless, sacrificial, and Christ-centered devotion that…
Pathological Liar-Dating a Pathological Liar?

Pathological Liars: Are You Dating a Liar?

Are you dating a pathological liar? Pathological liars are so good at lying that I pity the poor soul who is dating one, whether through an online Christian service like eHarmony, or some other way. What makes a pathological liar so different from every other big fat liar in a dating relationship? Psychologists feel the answer is found in a paradox: Pathological liars may actually believe the twisted stories they tell their dates, but at the same time know that…
Online Christian Dating Advice

Online Christian Dating Advice: Diversify

You’ve decided to give online Christian dating a try. Great! But unless you’re really sold on one particular online Christian dating site or Christian dating app, the dating advice here is to diversify by using several dating services. There are several positive reasons why you would benefit by using more than one online Christian dating service. Why Try Several Online Christian Dating Sites? Dating advice: You can compare sites for FREE before buying You have nothing to lose by way…
Dating a Disabled Person

The Christian Perspective on Dating a Disabled Person

Are you a Christian single dating or thinking about dating a disabled person? In the Christian journey of singlehood, dating can unfold as a path of discovery, learning, and profound connection. When that path leads to a relationship with a disabled person, it can open up a unique set of experiences, both challenging and rewarding. This article explores the dynamics of dating someone with a disability from a Christian single perspective, highlighting the pros and cons, and offering biblical insights…
valentines day gift for boyfriend

Valentines Day Gifts for Boyfriend: Christian Single’s Guide

Looking for some Valentine’s Day gifts for boyfriend? Since Valentine’s Day is right around the corner you may want to start thinking about what useful Valentine’s Day gift to give to your boyfriend. If you have no idea (and most of us don’t, the following list of top Valentine’s Day gifts for Boyfriends may help. Valentine’s Day is a celebration of love, an occasion to express the deep affection and gratitude we hold for those dear to our hearts. As…
dating screen name advice

Dating Screen Names Advice for Christian Singles

Appealing online dating screen names is essential because it’s the first and only thing potential dates will see before deciding whether or not to read your dating profile. It’s really very simple: The greater the number of clicks from your screen name to your profile, the greater number of opportunities you will have to meet your soulmate. Unfortunately, many christian singles put tons of time into writing a great dating profile, but make up their screen names and/or taglines as…
how to overcome jealousy in a relationship

How to Overcome Jealousy in a Christian Dating Relationship

Are you wondering how to overcome jealousy in a relationship? Do you have a jealous dating partner? Jealousy is one of the most destructive and painful emotions in a Christian dating relationship. A jealous dater can think and do some wacky things he or she would not normally think of doing. That’s why learning how to overcome jealousy when it crops up is so important. How to Overcome Jealousy Dating Stats According to a North American survey of marriage counselors,…
Overcoming Fear of Commitment

10 Ways to Help Him Overcome Fear of Commitment

In the journey of love and relationships, one of the most challenging hurdles can be a partner’s fear of commitment. This concern is particularly acute for Christian singles, who often seek relationships rooted in lasting love and spiritual companionship. Understanding and addressing this fear is crucial for building a foundation of trust and mutual respect. This article delves into effective strategies from a Christian perspective to help your man overcome his fear of commitment, paving the way for a fulfilling…
How to gan self-confidence

How to :Gain Self Confidence for Christian Dating

Do you need to gain self-confidence for asking someone out on a date? Some have lost that “confident dating” edge because they have just suffered through a failed long-term relationship, and wonder if it’s worth the risk of getting heartbroken or hurt again. Instead of approaching dating with a confident and expectant outlook as they wait on God, they approach relationship possibilities with fear and anxiety. Whatever your reason for a need to gain self-confidence, remember you’re not alone. Many…
how to deal with rejections as a single person

How to Deal with Rejection as a Single Person

Learning how to deal with rejection as a single Christian? A Rejection hotline often offers this bit of dating advice that we all already know: Rejection is one of the hardest things to deal with as a single person. Getting rejected in connection with dating is absolutely the worst kind of rejection because it touches us on such a personal level. It doesn’t matter whether the rejection occurs while asking someone out on an initial date, or in the middle…
christian dating email etiquette

Christian Dating Email Etiquette

As a Christian single who uses email in online dating services, you may have dating email etiquette  questions. Say you’re interested in a particular person’s dating profile, and you want to contact them via email. However, you’re not sure what to say and how to say it. Don’t worry about it! If you follow these dating advice tips on email etiquette you will succeed   Christian Dating Email Etiquette Tips Email Etiquette Tip #1: Think Safety First Familiarize yourself with…