About Us

About Us

Hey Guys,

Christian resourcesMy name is David Butler, and I’ve been developing Christian singles resources for several decades. Thanks for dropping by and saying hi. By the way, it wasn’t my plan to get so involved with singles, but it’s just how the Lord arranged it. Ain’t it funny how God works?

Helping Single Christians

I started Oasis Singles  from scratch in 2006 out of deep care for singles and their unique needs.  This website presently gets over 100,000 guests (and growing) per month. Thousands read our articles and listen to our singles church podcasts each week worldwide.

Whether you’re a Gen X single person, single parent, Gen Z college student or a Baby Boomer grandparent interested in connecting with other senior singles, we want to remind you that Jesus deeply loves you wherever you are in your life. There is no burden too great that He cannot carry; no heartache so deep that He cannot heal.

Oh yeah, if you “just happened” onto this site and aren’t sure about God’s love for you, check this out before doing anything else. We’ll wait right here for you. We promise! 🙂

Our Mission and Purpose

Oasis Singles exists to minister to the emotional and spiritual needs of thousands of singles in the US, Canada, UK, Europe, Asia, Africa, South America, and Australia by:

  • Introducing singles to the love, forgiveness, and eternal life that only comes through Jesus Christ
  • Encouraging godly, satisfying relationships with the opposite sex
  • Providing Christian singles resources, dating tips, practical and relevant singles advice, and articles
  • Connecting singles with local Christian singles groups, coffee houses, and church ministries for fellowship and spiritual renewal
  • Allowing a forum where single Christians, ministers, and counselors can share comments, singles articles, Christian podcasts, personal struggles, and dating advice with others

More Personal Stuff

I surrendered my life to the Lord Jesus in 1978. A married father of three grown kids, over the years I have served as a Youth Minister, College and Career Group Leader, Deacon, Elder, Small Groups Coordinator, Worship Team Leader, Pre-Marital Counselor, Alpha Course Director, and Lead Pastor and Church Planter of several churches. I currently minister at Rutgers.Church,  a new collegiate church located on the campus of Rutgers University, the 8th oldest college in the USA!

Outside the church, I was employed through Family Court for 26 years where I worked as a Probation Officer, Parent Education Class Teacher, Crisis Intervention Hotline Worker, and Mediator to single parents regarding parenting, custody, child support, and other personal issues affecting singles.

I’m not sure how this happened,  but I’m also an entrepreneur.  In 2011, I founded  TJB Web Media, (also known as Web-Design-Hosting.4u.com) with my two sons. By God’s grace, we are now the #1 ranked NJ Internet Marketing Company in Google. Part of the reason I created this thriving Web Design and  SEO Marketing  business was to help church ministries, stay-at-home moms, and small Christian businesses get inexpensive web hosting and websites that reach targeted traffic. We have also been able to give away hundreds of thousands of dollars to help support church plants, singles ministries and orphanages all over the world.

I graduated with a BA in social science from Kean  University, and have NJ Superior Court approved Parent Education Teacher and Family Court Mediation certifications from the Rutgers School of Social Work.  My seminary education came through Columbia International University and Liberty Theological Seminary,  in the MA track for Evangelism, Church Planting, and Church Growth. My passion is reaching people for Jesus, and feel the best way to do that is through church planting. Did you know that single adults are the most unchurched group of people in almost every country of the world?

My extended vision is to help church planters start collegiate churches all over the country.

Here is my life verse:

“May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit. Romans 15:13

In the future, you might find some ads on this site. Please understand that creating and updating an interactive singles website/ministry like this takes a lot of thought, time, and money, and we may need to find some way to cover the expenses. Also, if the Lord provides a surplus, those monies will go directly into a ministry fund for our plants geared primarily toward Christian singles.

Want to find out more about our beliefs?

Finally, we really do hope you enjoy our site. Please consider helping other single Christians by following us on social media and sharing our resources. What you think is really important to us, so if you have any ideas on how we can improve our site, please contact us.

Other ways to contact us:

You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/@OasisSingles

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasis_singles/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/Oasis_Singles

Snail  Mail Address: 14 Beverly Road, Piscataway, NJ  08854

Blessings to you!

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