Christian Singles Articles

Christian Singles Articles

christian singlesThis category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types singles articles and  life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on single men, single women, single Christian parents, single girls, teens, well, I think you get the point. :)

Christian Singles Resources

No matter if you are a Millennial, Baby Boomer or a Senior Single,   hopefully you will find these singles articles useful. There are dozens of articles to choose from including “Learning How to Argue and Fight“, Christian  Girls Who Date Bad Guys”, “Fears that Keep Men and Women Single“, “How to Mend a Broken Heart” “Masturbation” and many others.

Need for Singles Ministries

Why yet another singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many  singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.

So if you are looking for anything singles-related, this category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to singles of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.

Here you will find all types of articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.

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How do you know when God is Preparing you for marriage?

How Do You Know When God is Preparing You for Marriage?”

As a Christian single, the journey towards marriage often intertwines with spiritual growth and discernment, seeking to understand God’s will and timing. The question “How do you know when God is preparing you for marriage?” is one that resonates deeply within the hearts of many believers, eager to align their path with divine intentions. In this exploration, we delve into the signs and experiences that may indicate God’s preparation for this significant life transition, guided by Scripture and prayerful reflection.…
single christians in church

Top Ways the Church Can Encourage Single Christian People

The church is called to be a welcoming and nurturing place for all believers, regardless of their life stage. While married couples and families often receive abundant attention in church programming, single Christian people can sometimes feel overlooked. Encouraging and supporting singles is vital for building a strong, inclusive church community. Here are the top ways the church can actively uplift and engage single believers. 1. Create Inclusive Church Culture Churches should promote an environment where all members feel equally…
Negative Social Media Influence

Dealing with the Negative Influence of Social Media as a Christian Single

Social media has transformed the way we communicate, share our lives, and form relationships. For Christian singles, it can be a powerful tool for connection, but it also presents unique challenges that can impact faith, self-worth, and relationships. The curated perfection of online life, the pressure to conform, and the temptation to compromise Christian values can create a spiritual struggle. If you are a single Christian navigating the digital world, it’s essential to recognize social media’s potential pitfalls and arm…
Couple who argues regularly

Christian Dating Advice for Couples Who Argue Regularly

Relationships, even the most God-centered ones, can sometimes be challenging. Arguments and disagreements are part of every relationship but for Christian couples, navigating these conflicts with grace, patience, and biblical wisdom is essential. If you and your partner argue regularly, don’t be discouraged—there are ways to communicate more effectively, grow closer to each other, and strengthen your relationship with Christ. In this article, we’ll explore Christian dating advice for couples who argue often, backed by biblical principles and practical solutions.…
Group of single christian adults

The Rise of Singles in America: Implications for Christian Dating

The landscape of relationships in America has shifted dramatically over the past few decades. Today, 53% of American adults are single, and the number of single-person households has skyrocketed from 7 million in 1960 to 37 million today. These numbers highlight a cultural transformation that affects every aspect of life—including Christian dating. For Christian singles seeking relationships that align with their faith, these demographic shifts present unique challenges and opportunities. In this article, we’ll explore the implications of this rise…
Red flags in a Christian dating relationship

Red Flags in a Christian Dating Relationship

Knowing the top red flags in a  Christian dating relationship is important,  The problem is that many Christian singles ignore the silent red flags in a relationship and so stay longer than they should have.  The top three reasons daters give for overstaying a romantic or dating relationship are as follows: Fear of being alone Fear and/or guilt over what the other person will feel or do Fear of exchanging the familiar for the unknown Let’s face it, dating relationships…
Christian singles from both sexes

Why It’s Important to Build Relationships with Other Christian Singles of Both Sexes

Christian singles often find themselves navigating the challenges of faith, relationships, and personal growth in isolation. However, fostering meaningful connections with other Christian singles—both men and women—is crucial for spiritual growth, emotional support, and developing a well-rounded perspective on relationships and life. These relationships can provide a solid foundation for community, accountability, and a deeper understanding of God’s plan for our lives. In this article, we will explore why building relationships with other Christian singles of both sexes is vital…
Signs of a Narcissist Christian Boyfriend

Signs of a Narcissist Boyfriend: A Christian Single’s Guide

I wish all Christian singles were able to recognize the signs of a narcissist boyfriend or girlfriend. They would have saved themselves so much pain if they could have avoided such people.  in the journey of Christian dating, it’s crucial to recognize traits that align with Christ’s teachings of love, humility, and respect. Unfortunately, in today’s dating world, it’s not uncommon to encounter individuals who exhibit narcissistic tendencies, which starkly contrast these values. Understanding what narcissism is and recognizing the…
long term singleness

Dealing with Long-Term Singleness as a Christian Single

Singleness can be a challenging season, particularly when it extends over a long period. For many Christian singles, this time can feel like an extended waiting room—a period of self-discovery, spiritual growth, and profound personal development. However, it can also be a season of loneliness, self-doubt, and societal pressure. In this comprehensive guide, we will explore practical and faith-based strategies to navigate the complexities of long-term singleness while staying rooted in your Christian values. 1. Understanding the Purpose Behind Singleness…
Valentines Day and Christian Singles

A Christian Single’s Guide to Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day, a celebration often associated with romantic love, can evoke a mix of emotions for Christian singles. In a world where this day is heavily commercialized and often centered around couples, it can be challenging to navigate for those who are single. However, this day also presents a unique opportunity for Christian singles to reflect on their personal journey, embrace their faith, and find joy and fulfillment living single in unexpected ways. Understanding the Emotions of Valentine’s Day For…
learning how to argue and fight

Learning How to Argue and Fight

Learning how to argue and fight is the best dating tip we could give Christian singles. That may sound like whacky dating advice unless you know that the top reason both dating and married couples break up is a lack of communication in the area of conflict-resolution. ? This is very important, so let me reiterate this dating advice a different way: Learning how to fight and argue successfully is the best way to a lasting and happy dating and/or…
first date do's and dont's

First Date Do’s and Don’t’s

Need a brush up on First date do’s and don’t’s? Going on your first date with someone you met though one of the online dating services like eHarmony can be fun and exciting, but also a little scary. Let’s face it, the primary purpose of a first date is to assess whether there is enough chemistry to spend even more time together. There are a number of first-date “do’s and don’t’s” questions to consider: What will we do on our…
Excuses Christian singles make for not dating

Excuses, Excuses: 15 Reasons Christian Singles Dodge Dating 

Dating as a Christian single can feel like a tightrope walk over a very full baptismal pool. On one hand, there’s the deep desire for companionship and marriage; on the other, a host of creative excuses not to even try. If you’ve ever heard—or used—these excuses, you’re not alone. Let’s unpack them with a wink, a nudge, and a little encouragement. 1. “I’m waiting on the Lord’s timing.” Ah, the gold-standard excuse. While waiting on God’s timing is essential, sometimes…

How to Date Someone “Out of Your League”

So, you’ve landed yourself in the precarious position of dating someone “out of your league.” First off, congrats! You’ve achieved what most only dream of: someone so fabulous it makes you question your own fabulousness. But before you let self-doubt creep in or start nervously quoting Jeremiah 29:11 at every date, take a deep breath. You’re not alone, and believe it or not, you’re more than equipped to handle this. Let’s dive into this adventure with humor, faith, and a…
christian single parents

Christian Single Parents | Single Christian Parents

Christian single parents carry significant responsibilities and often face loneliness. Think about it. It can feel overwhelming to manage all the chores, attend to your children’s needs, and find time for personal well-being. In today’s world, single parenthood has become increasingly common, and the journey is seldom smooth. For Christian single parents, the task becomes even more significant as they seek to instill spiritual values while managing life’s challenges singlehandedly. This article will offer essential advice and strategies for Christian…
How to Take Care of Your Mental Health

How to Take Care of Your Mental Health as a Christian Single

Ever wonder how to take care of your mental health as a Christian single guy or gal? I’m not about to give you a 10-step routine to add to your ever-growing to-do list (you already have “be a functioning human” on there), but what I do want to chat about is mental health. Yeah, I said it—mental health. The thing we all know is crucial but sometimes feel too busy, too awkward, or too tired to take care of. So,…