Christian Singles Articles

Christian Singles Articles

christian singlesThis category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types singles articles and  life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on single men, single women, single Christian parents, single girls, teens, well, I think you get the point. :)

Christian Singles Resources

No matter if you are a Millennial, Baby Boomer or a Senior Single,    hopefully you will find these singles articles useful. There are dozens of articles to choose from including “Learning How to Argue and Fight“, Christian  Girls Who Date Bad Guys”, “Fears that Keep Men and Women Single“, “How to Mend a Broken Heart” “Masturbation” and many others.

Need for Singles Ministries

Why yet another singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many  singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.

So if you are looking for anything singles related, this category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to single  of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.

Here you will find all types articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.

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4b movement and Christian singles

A Christian Single’s Response to the 4B Movement: A Biblical Perspective

The 4B movement has created a ripple through the world of Christian singles, and if you’re reading this, you might be wondering how you, as a Christian single, should respond to it. You’re not alone! Let’s dive into what the 4B movement is all about, its core messages, and a biblical response that will leave you feeling rooted in your faith and purpose. In today’s world, the landscape of relationships, marriage, and family is constantly evolving. Among the latest trends…
FOMO in Christian Dating

How to Overcome FOMO in Christian Dating (Without Losing Your Mind)

Christian dating isn’t exactly known for being stress-free; add FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) to the mix, and it’s a recipe for sleepless nights and endless “Why am I still single?” monologues. It’s easy to feel like everyone else is finding the perfect partner (preferably someone with a deep knowledge of the Bible and excellent barista skills) while you’re on a perpetual quest for “the one.” But take heart! With a humorous and warm approach, we’re diving into practical steps…
5 things christian single women should do before tying the knot

5 Things Christian Single Women Should Know Before Tying the Knot

Marriage is one of the biggest decisions you’ll ever make. In the midst of butterflies, dreams of shared cups of coffee, and that warm, fuzzy glow of romantic bliss, it’s easy to gloss over some of the finer details. As a Christian woman, you’re called to think carefully about this commitment, not just as a partnership but as a covenant with God. So, if you’re single and considering marriage, here are five wise (and hopefully a bit humorous) pieces of…
Playing the Field in Christian Dating

Is “Playing the Field” in Christian Dating Biblical?

When it comes to the world of dating, the term “playing the field” brings to mind someone casually seeing multiple people, weighing options, and generally enjoying a bit of variety in their romantic pursuits. It’s not the exclusive “one-and-only” approach; rather, it’s more like “let’s see where things go with different people.” But in the context of Christian dating, this practice can bring up a few eyebrows—and maybe even an awkwardly raised hand from someone asking, “Is this biblical?” 1.…
Books on Christian Singleness

How to Choose a Book on Christian Singleness

Navigating the world of Christian singleness is like attempting to assemble a jigsaw puzzle with some pieces missing and no picture on the box. You might know where you want to go, but not quite how to get there. For Christian singles, finding a book that speaks to this journey, with guidance, encouragement, and a dash of humor, can feel like finding a treasure. But with so many books out there, each promising to be the one to help you…
4 ways satan tempts christian singles

Top 4 Ways Satan Tempts Christian Singles – and How to Laugh Your Way Through It!

Being single as a Christian often comes with its own set of challenges. While relationships and marriage are revered, we singles often find ourselves navigating life with pep talks from friends and prayers from parents about “finding the one.” But it’s not all sunshine and roses. Sometimes, being single as a Christian can feel like a battlefield, with temptations sneaking in, wearing all kinds of disguises. The good news? Once we identify these temptations, we’re halfway to laughing them off…
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How to Deal with the Pain of Being a Christian Single

Let’s be real: being a single Christian can feel like a lifelong membership to the Waiting Room Club, where the chairs are a little too hard, the magazines are way outdated, and the receptionist keeps saying, “He’ll be with you shortly.” We wait, we pray, and sometimes we even feel a little bit lost. So, if you’re feeling the pinch (or maybe even the pain) of being a single Christian, this article is for you. We’ll dive into some biblical…
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How to Deal with Passive-Aggressive People: A Christian Single’s Guide

Let’s be real: dealing with a passive-aggressive person can feel like navigating a minefield in flip-flops. They say one thing but mean the exact opposite, and by the time you’ve decoded the first sentence, they’ve hit you with another “bless your heart” disguised as a compliment. So, as a Christian single who may encounter a few passive-aggressive folks along the journey, how do you handle this with grace, patience, and maybe a sprinkle of humor? Here’s a lighthearted guide filled…
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Signs Someone has Feelings for You Over Text

Texting—the modern equivalent of passing notes in class, only with emojis and GIFs. As a Christian single navigating the digital world of romance, it’s natural to wonder: does this person actually like me, or are they just being polite? While we all wish for some grand heavenly revelation, most of us are left to decipher the cryptic world of texts. But fear not, because God gave us wisdom, discernment, and a little humor to help us along the way. So,…
fear of being alone

Fear of Being Alone Forever as Single Christians

Perhaps one of the greatest fears single Christians face is the fear of being alone forever. Some of us fear being alone as we contemplate the possibility of growing lonely, old, and sick. I know of one single gal who actually works herself into an anxiety attack as she thinks about the fear of being alone. Yet, she paradoxically also has a fear of commitment. Go figure. Understanding the Fear of being alone The fear of being alone forever is…

Breaking Soul Ties with Your Ex: A Guide for Christian Singles

Look, I know why you’re here. Breaking a soul tie sounds a little like “cutting the invisible strings” tethering your heart to someone who—let’s be honest—was not exactly the love of your life. Maybe you’ve tried deleting their number, muting them on social media, or even scrolling past every playlist that reminds you of that one road trip, but still, there’s a magnetic pull. What gives? Well, friend, it sounds like you’re dealing with a soul tie. Let’s dive into…
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How to Surrender Your Love Life to God

If you’re reading this, odds are you’re a single guy or girl who’s perhaps a little tired of eating alone or going to church gatherings with one less chair needed. But don’t worry, being single isn’t a problem—it’s an opportunity. In fact, as someone who’s been in the trenches of singledom myself, let’s just say there are a few life lessons we can learn, laughs we can have, and perspectives we can gain along the way. So let’s dive into…
lonely single men

The Single Man’s Guide to Embracing Life with Humor and Faith

If you’re reading this, odds are you’re a single guy who’s perhaps a little tired of eating alone or going to church gatherings with one less chair needed. It’s painful being single. But don’t worry, being single isn’t a problem—it’s an opportunity. In fact, as someone who’s been in the trenches of singledom myself, let’s just say there are a few life lessons we can learn, laughs we can have, and perspectives we can gain along the way. So let’s…
14 Signs a Narcissist is Playing Games with You

14 Signs a Narcissist is Playing Mind Games with You

How do you If you’ve been out there long enough, you’ve probably encountered someone who checks all the boxes—charming, confident, smooth-talking… but something just doesn’t add up. Chances are, if you’re dealing with this type of personality, you might have run into a narcissist. Narcissists can be challenging, and, unfortunately, they’re masters of mind games. But don’t worry, I’ve got your back! Let’s dive into 14 classic signs that a narcissist might be trying to manipulate you—and let’s laugh a…
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Christian Dating Advice for Young Adults

Christian dating can be both a beautiful and sometimes comically challenging experience. After all, there’s the mission to honor God while also navigating personal attraction, texting etiquette, and maybe a bit of nervous sweating. So, let’s dig into some practical and funny Christian dating advice that blends faith with a touch of humor. 1. Start with Prayer – And Maybe a Little Patience Before you even think about swiping, liking, or that casual “how are you?” text, take some time…
Christian Romance Novels

Christian Romance Novels: Pros and Cons of Reading These Stories

There’s something irresistible about Christian romance novel and romance movies. Whether you’re a longtime fan or new to the genre, these stories of faith-based love have a way of pulling at heartstrings and bringing a smile to the face. Between the small-town settings, earnest protagonists, and “could-this-be-God’s-plan?” moments, Christian romance novels offer readers a wholesome and heartwarming journey toward love and happily-ever-afters. But, like any genre, Christian romance novels come with their own set of pros and cons. So, if…