This dating advice is about How to Spot a Dating Married Man and how to avoid dating married men. Don’t laugh, the sad but true fact according to an MSNBC dating tips survey is that 30% of men using online dating services such as eHarmony are married! Surprised by the number of cheating, married rats? Don’t be.
In fact, whether a single woman meets her date through an online dating service, or at off line places like church or the market down the street, the 30% rat ratio remains constant. With this being the case, the chances are good that somewhere down the dating road, she will run into a dating married man.
Ladies, are we depressed yet? You don’t have to be because we have some practical Christian singles dating tips on how to spot a dating married man before becoming captivated by his lies. But before continuing with this little bit of dating advice on marital cheaters, let me say something to the guys. Guys, as one of your kind myself, let me say that we are not picking on you. We are just addressing an MSNBC dating survey that concentrated on How to Spot a Dating Married Man. Yes, tons of research indicates married women cheat as much as men cheat. They just cheat for different reasons, and we will be addressing dating married women in a different article. Feel better now? Okay. 🙂
If more than one of the following are present in your dating relationship, you probably have a dating married player.
How to Spot a Dating Married Man / Married Rat
Dating Tip 1: A dating married man will rarely share his real last name with you.
Most cheats know that if they ever share their real names, they open themselves up to the possibility of exposure. In order to ensure you are dealing with the “Real McCoy” (no pun intended), our advice here is to take out your driver’s license, and playfully ask to see his. If he recoils at the idea, you may have a dating married rat.
Dating Tip 2: A dating married man will not tell you where he lives and/or you will never visit his home.
Of course, it’s natural and understandable on the first few dates if he does not share such information, especially if the man is a single parent dating with kids at home. However, as the dating relationship goes on, a cheat will come up with many creative reasons why you can’t even see the residence. Note: Getting hold of his licesne will solve this issue as well.
Dating Tip 3: A married dating guy will never share his home telephone number.
The invention of the cell phone has made it easier for marital cheats to hide their real lives from from those they are dating. Sharing his home number with you opens up the possibility that you will call when “wifey-poo” is at home. Our dating advice here is to listen to his reasons for not sharing or having a home number, and determine if it rings true or not.
Dating Tip 4: A dating married man has strange phone habits
Does he hang up unexpectedly at times, calling you back later with excuses as to why he could not speak? Do you only get his answering machine at certain times of the day when you know he should be home or available? Does he call you at whacky times? These are signs that he may be busy with his family.
Dating Tip 5: If dating married posted an ad online, he would not have posted a photo with a full face view.
The reason for this obvious: He doesn’t want that puss in full view for the whole world to see.
Dating Tips 6: You will not meet a dating married man’s immediate family.
That is, unless they are all “in” on the dating deception. A decent single guy will be more than happy, even honored, to have his family meet you. Not so with a dating married guy.
Overall, dating is a wonderful, fun experience, and you only end up marrying those whom you first date. However, there are lots of risks out there whether a person uses online dating services or goes the traditional dating route. The key is not to be naive , but to use the wisdom God has given you. Remember Jesus’ words: “Be as wise as serpents, but as gentle as doves.”
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