Do you need to gain self confidence for asking someone out on a date? Some have lost that “confident dating” edge because they have just suffered through a failed long term relationship, and wonder if it’s worth the risk of getting heart broken or hurt again. Instead of approaching dating with a confident and expectant outlook as they wait on God, they approach relationship possibilities with fear and anxiety.
Whatever your reason for a need to gain self confidence, remember you’re not alone. Many singles wonder how they can gain more confidence meeting Christian singles. In truth, confident dating begins internally, within our own hearts, and works out from there. If we’re already screwed up, we’re not going to gain self confidence by getting into a dating relationship. This won’t “fix” your lack of self confidence, but rather make matters worse. Believe me on this one.
3 Keys in Order to Gain Self Confidence for Christian Dating
Gain Self Confidence for dating with a peaceful and stable life.
In order to determine how well you do here ask yourself the following:
Have you made peace with yourself and God? Only Jesus can make our hearts truly at peace and confident with the world around us. If you don’t know this truth, I’d like to share God’s wonderful plan for your life
Have you been able to make peace with your past, including all the shame and emotional baggage that goes along with a failed relationship?
Do you have stable place to live, and a steady job? Many single guys lack confidence with asking out girls on a date because they don’t have a viable form of employment. Christian single moms also struggle in this area, and feel less desirable because of financial debt.
Gain Self Confidence for dating by knowing your dating match.
Knowing the kind of person you want to attract is important for a number of reasons. First off, if you know what you’re looking for, it makes it easier and quicker to find. Our suggestion is to write down all of the qualities you are looking for in a potential mate. Then begin praying for him or her.
Gain self confidence for dating by having a hopeful plan.
The Bible says the people perish for lack of vision. A well prayed over and thought out plan of action brings confidence and hope.