Jewish Dating for Christian Jews

Jewish Dating for Christian Jews

Jewish Dating for Christian Jews
Jewish Dating for Christian Jews

Looking for a messianic Jewish dating site? A number of my messianic Jewish dating friends,  who are believers in Yeshua, have been looking to date, and have asked us about online Jewish dating services for Messianic singles.

Dating can be a challenging endeavor for anyone, but for Messianic Christians, the process often involves unique considerations. Messianic Christianity is a faith that combines elements of Judaism and Christianity, and this can impact how individuals approach dating and relationships. In this article, we will explore the pros and cons of Messianic Christian dating, shedding light on the key aspects that can make this journey both rewarding and challenging.

Pros of Messianic Christian Dating

  1. Shared Faith and Beliefs

One of the most significant advantages of Messianic Christian dating is the shared faith and beliefs that form a strong foundation for the relationship. Both partners understand the importance of Jesus Christ as the Messiah and the connection between Christianity and Jewish traditions. This common spiritual ground can lead to a deep sense of unity and purpose in the relationship.

  1. Cultural Understanding

Messianic Christians often have a deep appreciation for Jewish culture and traditions, which can be a valuable aspect of their dating experience. Learning about and participating in Jewish customs can be enriching, fostering a sense of cultural understanding and respect between partners. This openness to different cultural perspectives can create a diverse and inclusive relationship environment.

  1. Family Values

Messianic Christians tend to place a strong emphasis on family values and traditions. This can result in a dating experience where both partners prioritize the importance of family, making it more likely for the relationship to progress into a long-term commitment. Shared values regarding family can promote a sense of stability and security in the partnership.

  1. Commitment to Faith

In Messianic Christian dating, the commitment to faith often plays a central role. Both partners are likely to be deeply committed to their beliefs, which can lead to a relationship characterized by a strong moral and ethical foundation. This commitment can foster trust and mutual respect between the individuals involved.

  1. Spiritual Growth

Messianic Christian dating can be a catalyst for spiritual growth. Partners often engage in meaningful discussions about their faith, encouraging each other to deepen their understanding and connection to God. This shared spiritual journey can lead to personal growth and a stronger sense of purpose in the relationship.

  1. Support System

Being part of a Messianic Christian community provides a built-in support system for couples. There are often churches and congregations specifically catering to Messianic believers, offering a network of like-minded individuals who can offer guidance, encouragement, and a sense of belonging to the dating couple.

Cons of Messianic Christian Dating

  1. Religious Differences

While shared faith is a significant pro, it can also be a con in Messianic Christian dating. If partners have different interpretations of their faith or religious practices, it can lead to conflicts and misunderstandings. It’s important to ensure that both individuals are on the same page regarding their religious beliefs and practices to avoid potential issues.

  1. Cultural Challenges

While cultural understanding is a positive aspect, it can also pose challenges. Integrating two distinct cultural backgrounds can be complex and may require patience and compromise. Differing traditions and customs can lead to misunderstandings and disagreements, particularly when it comes to celebrating holidays and observing rituals.

  1. Limited Dating Pool

Messianic Christianity represents a relatively small religious group, and finding compatible partners within this community can be challenging. The limited dating pool can make it difficult to find someone with shared values and beliefs, leading to frustration and feelings of isolation for some individuals.

  1. Family Expectations

Family expectations can add a layer of complexity to Messianic Christian dating. In some cases, families may have specific expectations about who their children should date or marry within the faith, putting pressure on the couple. Navigating these familial expectations while maintaining a healthy relationship can be a delicate balancing act.

  1. Outside Perceptions

Messianic Christian couples may encounter misunderstandings and misconceptions from those outside their faith community. Some people may not understand the nuances of Messianic Christianity, leading to judgment or discrimination. This external pressure can be stressful for the couple and may require them to explain their beliefs to others repeatedly.

  1. Balancing Traditions

The integration of Jewish and Christian traditions can be a beautiful aspect of Messianic Christian dating, but it can also be challenging to balance. Couples must decide which traditions to follow, how to celebrate holidays, and how to incorporate both faiths into their daily lives. Finding this balance can require open communication and compromise.

Unfortunately, I could find no true Jewish dating Services designed specifically for those single Jews, Christian girls, and Christian guys who prefer to identify themselves as “Jewish” but also have accepted Jesus as the Messiah. There are many Jewish dating sites out there for say, Reformed, Conservative, or Orthodox Jewish singles. Why there is even a site out there for atheistic Jews! But none for those Jewish dating singles living a Christian lifestyle

Good News for Jewish Dating Christian Jews

While there are no specific internet Jewish dating sites at this time for this particular Jewish dating niche, there is still some good news. Because the databases of most of the top Christian dating services are so large, it fairly easy to find a Jewish single girl or guy who is also a Christian. In fact, Christian Cafe actually has a section geared specifically for Messianic singles.


Messianic Christian dating comes with its unique set of pros and cons, but like any relationship, success depends on open communication, mutual respect, and a shared commitment to making it work. While shared faith and values provide a strong foundation, couples must also address potential challenges such as religious differences and cultural nuances.

Ultimately, Messianic Christian dating can be a deeply enriching experience for those who embrace it. The journey allows individuals to explore their faith, learn about different cultures, and build relationships that are rooted in spirituality. By understanding the pros and cons, couples can navigate the complexities of Messianic Christian dating with wisdom and grace, allowing their love and faith to flourish.

So please don’t give up, but keep waiting on the Lord as you seek your Jewish dating soulmate.

By the way, if any of our readers come across a real Jewish dating in this niche, please let us know so we can help others.

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    • Kenny

      I found your website and am curious if you could help me with some info I have not been able to locate on the web. I am a Christian and dating a jewish girl. She’s not quite sure what her relgious beliefs are outside of the jewish traditions of which she’s also not quite sure of the meaning behind them. What I’m looking for is, information/books that could help myself and her understand the deeper meanings of the various jewish traditions/beliefs while tying them to the truth of Christ and she could learn the meaning and consistency of the jewish and christian faith. Any help you could provide would be greatly appreciated.

      • David Butler Author


        Please email us, and we will provide you with resources, both live and internet. I would also suggest taking your Jewish dating girlfriend to an Alpha Course. Where do you live?

        • Anthony

          I am a Christain and I want a christain Jewish for friendship and marriage.
          I would be happy to have friends and discuss also freely with them.

          • laurie blumenthal


            • James

              I m glad to find such a site. I m an Indian christian searching for a Jewish Christian girl who accepts Yeshua as Messiah , loves him and is willing to follow his footsteps. I dont have an idea how to go about it but it is my sincere wish to have such a person in my life from whom I can learn the Jewish traditions,language and enter in discussions related to theology.Would appretiate your help.Pls contact.

              • Frank

                Hello I meet the most wonderful Jewish Girl in the world to me in the most unaccepted place online gaming. She accepted Christ and I was falling in love with her. She had everything I desired in a girl. She loves GOD with all of her heart! She is loyal and kind and funny and sweet and loves to talk and express her feelings openly! I felt like a innocents from my childhood was given back to me with a peace describable. But she could not be with me but I did and still do love her. She wants me to find another girl who I can love with all my heart.

                If you could please help me find a place to find a Jewish Christian Girl who loves GOD I would love it so much! Thank you all and GOD BLESS YOU!

                • sandra hart

                  hi there all christan believers in yeshua please when you decide to date either Jewish guy/girl please remeber that your christain roots came from the diciples who were all jews and yes Yeshua (jESUS IS ALSO A JEW HE READ THE TORAH in a synagogue and he observedall the biblical feasts of Passover hannukah as his CUSTOM was.a jewish believer is a jew spiritually and that cannot be seperated. wedo not need to be”converted into a gentile culture let alone a church that does not observe the biblical feasts,letalone the so callled EASTER which is totally pagan in its origins.Easter is aworshipof a sryian god taken from the name isIsthar.Jesus a nice name butvery gentile unjewish namefor aG-d and oerson in one that christians stillcontinue to worship Jewish name of Jesus is Yeshua and the name if Jesus is a ..GREEK version of his true name,,,hopefully this may answer somequestions why Jews are harder to reach because of the churches westernized and lack of cultralunderstanding and this comesinto the issue of dating Jewsih BELIEVERS OR hEBREW,'”CHRISTIANS…UNLESS one is aphyscial decent via birth parents.oh also the churches need to stoptelling us JEWSIH bELIEVERS THAT THE CHURH has replaced israeland that the jews rejected yeshua no way gOD HAS NOTDONE AWAY WITH ISRAEL OR THE NATION OR HIS OWN PEOPLE…THE JEWS secualr religious or Messianic Beleivers. sowould thoe chrsitians who choose to DATE Jewish people PLEASE DO NOTTRY TO CONVERT US TO A GENTILE CULTURE THAT IS NOT EXPRESSIVE OF WHO WE ARE IN OUR CULTRAL IDENTITY AND MESSIANIC/JEWISH WAS OF A TORAH OBSERVANT WAY OF LIFE.WE HAVE ENOUGH ANTISENITISM FROMTHE GENTILE NATIONS AGAINST OUR NATION OF ISREAL LET ALONE US MESSIANIC BELIEVERS.IFYOU CHOOSE TO DATE JEWISH BELIEVERS TAKEADVICE FROM WHATI HAVE WRITTEN.PHYSICALLY WE ARE A ONE NEW MAN IN Messiah Yeshua butspiritually we are seperated as far as the our cultral belieifs values based on G-ds word the Torah the old testimnet is what you need to show the phrohetic fufillment of Yeshua been the Jewish Messiah that he is. ifyou wish to try to convert a jewor use dating to evengelise i would begthe christians singles who choose to date jewish beleivers to get their history right hebrew words vulcabulary rite than perhaps the Jews may lend an ear,in terms what they have heard antisemetic remarks wehave fought to defend israel and again we may have to do so in the near future .if you are dating please exercise wisdom and cultralsensitivity to who we are and where we are from.good luck on future dating i pray that if Frank should read this he may like to get a hold ofme .Blessings in Yeshua to all who may like not like what is read Yeshua has said if the Son sets yoou free you arefree inteeed that includes the TRUTH of his word re read Timothy,scriptures would help CORRECT and EDIDFY build Jewish / CHRISTIAN relationships spiced with unconditnal love and PUREMOTIVES\,for a dating relationship in this sensitve area.

                  Sholom and G-d Bless.

                  • Jeanne M.

                    Dear Ms./Mrs. Hart, Thanks so very much for a very candid and insightful letter, as I’ve wondered for many years about dating (not myself but others) Messianic Jews, if someone is from a Christian background and what the Bible and the Torah would have to say about it.
                    As for the origin of Christ’s name, I’ve heard for many many years of it being of Greek origin, and if this is true then why are we still calling ‘Him’ Jesus rather than “Yeshua”???
                    Also, not to turn this into a debate, but since the Bible is the inspired Word of God to mankind, then I now begin to ask myself why those who wrote the Bible were not told to use the name “Yeshua” rather than “Jesus” as well???? I deeply apologize if this sounds confusing, it’s just ‘me’ wondering about the ‘difference’ in the names.
                    Lastly, as for dating a Messianic Jew, since they would already believe in Yeshua, what exactly would be the need to ‘convert’ them (which I thought actually came from Yahweh-G-d, and not from man directly?), in my case I wouldn’t see that happening as I’ve only seen ‘one case’ of Messianic Christian dating (which actually turned into a marriage), and that was between an ‘elderly’ interracial couple (him Jewish, her black) from my church (the sweetest couple you ever saw, and he treated her like a queen, while she learned the ways of Yeshua from a Hebrew perspective as well), but nothing else like it since.
                    Thanks for your comments and I apologize for the extra long reply. Take care and Shalom to you and yours.

                    P.S. I don’t know of any Jewish (Messianic or other-wise, except that elderly Jewish gentleman who joined our church, but held on to his Messianic roots and taught us a thing or two also.) person who’d date outside of their race (I mean the black/white issue) these days.

                    • Karen

                      hi am looking thanks am looking for a messianic Jewish guy. I wasn’t born a Jew tho my family converted. and am black. i keep all the jewish festivals from passover, Pentecost, yom kipurr, feast of shelters, purim, hannukah …etc i trully dread Christmas coz guys dont know its a pagan practice.

                      I love my lord and would like to have a family that have the same spiritual beliefs that i do…

                      so if any of you get a messianic jewish website

                      • Regina

                        I never knew there was such a demand for this niche market for dating until today. I am a Christian African American woman who belongs to a small church that has embraced and are practicing the customs of the Jewish culture. We haven’t done all of the festivals and holidays yet because we are still learning. The Lord spoke to me five years ago about honoring the Sabbath and two years ago about Pesach (Passover). It is very difficult trying to reason with people you meet in the average Christian church especially members of the opposite sex about why our service is on a Saturday and why we don’t observe Easter. It can creates some uncomfortable feelings. I will not be able to marry someone who is not on the same page as I am or willing to even learn. I am looking for like-minded people that I can meet and learn more of the Jewish customs. Shalom

                        • Maggie

                          Hello I am a single Christian mother who loves Yeshua and who would love to meet a single Messianic Jewish man who loves and follows Yeshua. I don’t mind if he also has children since I also do, and who would want to love, live and learn more about Yeshua, his plans for Eretz Yisrael, the Jewish people, and ministering to the body of Christ together. I really love and appreciate the Jewish culture and people, and would one day love to visit Israel. I would also like to learn more about the Biblical Feasts, and to celebrate them instead of, or as well as, the modern holidays.

                          Shalom and G-d bless:)

                          • Emma


                            I am a 34 year old black woman who started attending a Messianic congregation. I grew up in christian family and church. I love Yeshua very much and want to live for G-D. I would like to meet a messianic Jew man. Let’s get to know each other. You can write me at

                            • emma

                              Hay everyone,

                              i recently met a nice and lovely jewish guy, he doesn´t believe in jeshua but i really like him. What should i do.. all my life i have been afraid of commitment and there´s always a reason why not to fall in love. He treats my right, is caring good for me and the problem that i find very hard is , does the bible require that people who are in a relationship have to have the same religion? or is that just for marriage… God created love, didn´t he?
                              I just found this site, and i am curious why guys like you actually search for someone christian -messianic while maby you love someone already.. isn´t that hard to put aside feelings and force yourself into something..(sorry my english is not so good, its not my motherlanguage) I would appreciate it a lot if you ´ll send me an reaction!

                              • CC Rider

                                To Emma, the scriptures command believers to “be ye not
                                unequally yoked”. Take care! 🙂

                                • CC Rider

                                  Shalom folks, I have been reading a few posts on this site.
                                  I am a believer in Yeshua…have been since 1982. I consider myself
                                  a believer due to all of the divisiveness in these titles, but for
                                  earthly purposes, I am a Jew. As such, I take the scriptures (66
                                  books) quite seriously, because it simplifies life! I am a 40 year
                                  old female seeking a born-again Jew or Gentile (since we are both
                                  one in Messiah). You can be as sweet as pie, but the scriptures
                                  command us to not even bother romantically involving ourselves with
                                  unbelievers. G-d knows best, so I take Him at His word. In
                                  addition, you must be either never married or a widower. Again, the
                                  scriptures are clear, that if you are divorced and your “ex” is
                                  still living, then you’re still married…and adultery is a no-no.
                                  I observe a lot of mixing of scripture with emotional desires, and
                                  then our way becomes more important than G-d’s way. Anyway, feel
                                  free to contact me at if you are not married according to the
                                  scriptures. Baruch HaShem! 🙂

                                  • Deborah

                                    Hello, I am a Christian gentile, 35, female, interested in a Messianic Jew for friendship and love. I love Isreal and the Jewish people, and also would like to learn the Hebrew language. I love God, life and nature. I am a single mum of a 15-year old girl. I have been a born-again believer for 13 years now. I’d love to hear from you.

                                    • Josephine

                                      Hola !

                                      I am a 25yr christian female and was curious about jewish beliefs and customs for sometime now, I do feel that G-d had placed it on my to do list in life.. Am interested in writting a book/documentary in interracial dating/marriage between messianic jews and christian from different backgrounds (black,white,hispanic,asian…etc) Just trying to clarify the misunderstandings and if controversy arises, im willing to fall in order for us all to be enlightened. please email me if you would like to participate, most appreciative…
                                      To G-d be the GLORIA !! Shalom !

                                      • Char


                                        Recently it is on my heart — and time will tell whether it is G-d or not — that I would like to marry a Messianic man who is on fire for Jesus Christ – Yeshua! Are there any sites that I can go to, meet-ups in Connecticut. I would love to attend as G-d leads. Josephine I would love to participate with you. Please contact me at my email here. Blessings and Shalom!

                                        • laurie blumenthal

                                          hi i am 55 years old a JEWISH FEMALE LIVING IN TEHACHAPI CALIFORNIA; *
                                          A JEW that loves JESUS CHRIST with all of her heart. if you are a JEW that loves YESHUA , OR A CHRISTIAN MAN AND ARE LOOKING FOR MARRIAGE, PLEASE EMAIL ME.
                                          THANK YOU AND SHALOM!

                                          • Irah John Intong

                                            It’s nice to hear and see what God is doing to us today specially to GOD’S chosen people the JEWS. I’m a Pastor’s kid and by the Grace of GOD I’m now a Pastor in our church. My father taught me to love the Jews when I’m still young to support, love and pray for the Jewish people. We never taught to disregard the Jewish people or accuse\blame them about the death of the Lord Jesus Christ. Because I believe GOD permitted though did not want for the Jewish people not to recognize the LORD Jesus as the Messiah in order to fulfill Isaiah 53;1-12 and Gal.4:4-5 -the Redemption of mankind from sin and it’s penalty. Nevertheless, as a Pastor I must be thankful to GOD for the Sacrifice of the Jews for our Sakes by giving us the priviledge to serve the only GOD and Saviour the LORD JESUS Christ. Don’t worry beloved Jews as a gentile Pastor our Church and our family is praying for the peace of Jerusalem as well to all the Jews all over the world that they come to know the LORD JESUS as the MESSIAH(Matt.1:21-22 and Psalm 122:6-7). John chapter 1. JESUS as the Lamb of GOD. I’m also praying for a GOD fearing Jewish girl. I’m 27 yrs old living in the Philippines. If GOD would give me a GOD fearing Jewish girl and willing to go with me to serve GOD as a Pastor or Missionary, I Praise and Thank GOD the LORD JESUS CHRIST!!! To GOD be the glory; Great things He hath done!!! Psalm37:4,5 GOD bless us all!!!

                                            • Tresbien

                                              I’m an Single Black male. I’m Messianic and have been for over ten years. I too have problems finding a true Messianic Congregation. I also want a Messianic wife and Messianic friends. I’m 28 so it’s almost impossible to find someone compatible. Everybody waits till later in life to come back to Ha Shem it seems. Everybody I meet in my age range looks like they’re not concerned with their lives. Well keep me in your prayer folks and I’ll keep you in mine. Shalom, Shavua Tov

                                              • michele

                                                Hi everyone,
                                                I am going to be 52 yrs old tomorrow. I too am looking for a Torah observant Christian or Messianic Jewish man for a friendship with potential for more with the right person. I have Jewish background but was not raised religious. Want someone to observe Holy Days with who is devoted to G-d. Please email if this is you and your around my age. Thanks, michele

                                                • Herbert

                                                  May GOD”s Blesings be upon all,
                                                  An introduction and background information is first in my message that I will write. My Christain name is Herbert. I am 49 years of age and of Jewish descent through my grandmother.
                                                  As I strive to walk and live in the Spirit. Love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness and temperance being created and ordained that I walk in them have perpetually been inherited characteristics of my heart and life. Yet, as with with all men, in time past I walked according to the course of this world, according to the spirit that now works in the children of disobedience.
                                                  I am now guided to find a helpmate, a wife that is Christain/Jew with the desire of helping in the nourishment and guidance of the Christain/Jewish walk with and in Christ. In this search, I will not be unwise, but understanding what the will of the Lord is. If Angels speak to your heart contact me at jack nine one eight six two at hot mail dot com.

                                                  • Emmanuel KAITAS

                                                    I am person who was born a Christian. My father is a Pastor and founder of an International Organization that leads thousands and teaches on the third person of trine God in the Bible…the HOLY SPIRIT. I began to understand more about the Jewish people as the Spirit reveals the secrets.

                                                    I am 21 years, an afro-black…male…and my country of origin, Papua New Guinea. I am the only boy in my family. I had openly spoke to everyone, almost entire family when I was 10 that I would like to marry a Jewish-American.

                                                    This is my final year in School of Law – University Of Papua New Guinea (Premier University in the Pacific). I am planning for my Masters and PhD in Harvard University in the USA. For this time, I am looking for a Jewish American girl. I would be glade to keep in touch with her till the time is right, and should things work-out for us.

                                                    God Bless!

                                                    • Kimberly Brooks

                                                      Hi, I am a 47 year old single Christian. I am a parent and am African American. I am seeking God for a husband who believes in the word of God. I would like to meet someone who loves family and is ministry minded. It would be nice to meet someone with a sense of Humor who loves to do all sorts of activities. Looking forward to meeting a decent person who want to live a Godly life style. If interested, contact me at

                                                      • Esther

                                                        Hi I’m Esther, a Christian Gentile, 26 years old. I’m interested in meeting Messianic Jews. I really wish to meet Jews that love Yeshua so much.

                                                        • Eric S Gustafsson

                                                          I love Messianic Jews and hope they find others who love the Jewish faith and the Lord Messiah Yeshuah. I wish to be a partaker in the Jewish way as a Christian and need prayers for my wife to embrace the judeo Christian way for our benefit. Anyway, love each other and the Lord will bless you with a wonderful helper/companion. Jesus/Yeshuah loves each of you, as do I.

                                                          • Patricia GregsonP

                                                            I am a Christian, single no children or husbands. I am looking for a person of love of God, and believes in what the Bible teaches. I was raised in the South in a Christian home, to love everyone, and that person’s religious belief. I do not have respect for a person who is athesist or does not worship God. I am looking for a person who has a beautiful heart, and soul.

                                                            • Sylvia Goddard

                                                              I’m Catholic but interested in dating a Jewish Christian I’m interested in knowing more about the Jews for Jesus

                                                              • rambabu

                                                                Hello. I am searching an Israel woman for long term marriage relationships. I will live with you in your house. Are you interested send an email to my inbox. My name rambabudekonda at the rate gmail dot com. I am waiting for your reply. Thanks.

                                                                • Cherree

                                                                  Hello! I would love to date a Messianic Jewish man. At least 56-60 yrs old. Really hard to find in Arkansas.

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