Don’t Date Him Girl Tips
November 21, 2007
Some single women wish someone had warned them: “Don’t date him girl!”, before they took the plunge into a bad dating relationship. So when is it a bad idea to date? The following “don’t date him girl tips are written in hopes of helping some of us avoid this date trap. If you answer yes to any of the following questions, please consider this advice: Don’t date him girl!
Don’t Date Him Girl Quiz
Have you or your date had a long term relationship end within the last 12 months?
Fact: You may be the victim of a rebound relationship, and the vast majority of those fail. You are in an even more vulnerable state if you are dating after divorce or have been rejected and dumped. Bottom line: Don’t date him girl! until you are over the past and have your own stuff in order.
Does your date have a history of abusing women?
How do you spell background record check? it amazes me how many women knowingly go after bad guys in hopes of “reforming” him, or simply deluding themselves into thinking that the other women were to blame. Pleeeaase! Don’t date him girl!
Has he cheated on other women within the last 2 years?
If he cheated on them…um, well, you know the rest. Maybe YOU are the other woman? Please don’t be so naive to believe your boyfriend won’t eventually cheat on you too! Our advice: Don’t date him girl! unless he has submitted to Christ as Lord and Saviour and has backed it up by repenting of his past and staying clean for over 2 years.
If a single parent dating, are your children wary of your dating partner?
Dont date him girl before understanding where your children are emotionally with your dating life. You’ll be sorry afterward if you don’t heed this single parents dating with kids advice.
Well did you pass the don’t date him girl quiz? To be honest these don’t date him girl tips can only go so far, but you humbly seek the Lord even with your dating life, how can you go wrong?
Bible Verse of Day
~He guides the humble in what is right
and teaches them his way~ Psalms 25: 9
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Dating Tips for a Long Distance Relationship
May 13, 2006
Long distance relationships have always been with us. However, in recent years, global online dating services and increased ease of travel helped make long distance relationships much more prevalent. In fact, according to dating experts on the topic, there are an estimated 1 to 2 million couples presently in long distance dating relationships.
Many single men and single women feel dating in a long distance relationship is a losing proposition. However, there many dating couples who have experienced tremendous romantic and successful long distance relationships. As a matter of fact, I currently have a friend who met a guy through an online Christian dating service, and they have been in a long distance relationship for the past two years. He lives in New Hampshire while she calls New Jersey her home. The great news here is that these Christian singles are getting married this June. 
Long Distance Relationship Keys
What was it that made my friend’s long distance relationship successful? After looking over much of the research on the subject and speaking with her, the following dating tips appear to be key:
- Before entering a long distance dating relationship, the couple should have a frank discussion on expectations for the relationship. Is there a possibility of this being a serious relationship culminating in marriage? Is there a possibility that one party will relocate? Don’t be afraid to bring up these topics now, because it could save you lots of stress, anxiety, confusion and conflict later.
- Set the ground rules of this long distance relationship together. That means communicating how often you will be meeting and contacting each other, and whether or not there will be dating of other people. One of the ground rules should also include the understanding that the dating couple will assess the long distance relationship at agreed upon intervals.
- Practice creative ways of sharing your heart with each other on a regular basis. Web cams, e-mail, telephone, text messages, digital cameras and snail mail, to name a few ways of keeping in touch, provide many romantic possibilities for keeping the long distance relationship healthy and fun. Enjoying regular communication also builds emotional and spiritual intimacy and trust.
- Pray daily for your long distance relationship and your dating partner. This is by far the most important thing you can do. Ask the Lord Jesus to mold you both into the people He wants you be, and surrender your long distance relationship to His will (Proverbs. 3:5-6). This will bring you great peace and assurance.
Overall, if you follow these dating tips, your long distance relationship will be a blessed and exciting experience even if the dating relationship ends.
Are you a single Christian who has been or is in a long distance relationship? Help others by sharing your long distant relationship experiences and insights.
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