How to Discern if a Relationship Is Truly from God
One of the biggest questions many Christians ask is this: How do I discern if a relationship is truly from God? When emotions are strong and hope is high, it can be hard to separate godly discernment from personal desire. A relationship may feel exciting, comforting, and full of possibility, but that does not automatically mean it is God’s best. Discerning whether a relationship is from God involves more than chemistry, attraction, or even shared interests. It requires prayer, wisdom,…
Why God Created Eve: A Comical but Biblically-Sound Reflection for Christian Singles
Ah, the age-old question. Why did God create Eve? The answer, as we know, is embedded deep in the Book of Genesis, but let’s be honest: we’ve all wondered about this from time to time, especially when you’re navigating the single life. Was it really necessary for Adam to have a companion? Wasn’t he living the dream, chilling in the Garden of Eden, naming animals, and eating all the organic fruit his heart desired? But no, God looked at Adam…
Christian Spiritual Journey of Singles
According to our survey results, most Christian singles agree that they are on a Christian spiritual journey. Unfortunately, most admit that they are clueless as to where that spiritual journey may lead. Therefore many seek guidance for their spiritual journey. Some seek spiritual gurus from Eastern religions. Others go to fortune tellers for help with their spiritual journey. It seems some people will try anything except a relationship with the one true God as found in the Holy Bible. The…
Making Peace with Your Past: A Christian’s Path Towards Spiritual Healing
Do you have an issue with making peace with your past? Many Christian singles can’t get over the past. Several years back, I went on a Christian singles retreat, where the topic at hand was making peace with my past. Christian single after Christian single shared their sad stories of how a bad past experience, a soured relationship, or a sexual sin had held them back from living victoriously in the present. Although many Christian singles there that weekend desired…
Why is it so Hard to Meet Someone?
If you’re reading this as a single Christian, let me first say, welcome! You and I are in the same boat—an ark, if you will, floating aimlessly across the sea of singlehood. Some of us have been navigating these waters for years, while others are fresh out of the harbor. Either way, it’s hard out here, right? But why exactly is it so difficult to meet someone? To explore this, let’s dive into some of the main reasons why modern…
The Idol of Romantic Love
In today’s culture, romantic love is often treated as the ultimate goal in life. Movies, social media, and even conversations within the church can subtly (and sometimes not so subtly) communicate the message: “Once you find the right person, everything will fall into place.” For many Christian singles, this creates a quiet but powerful pressure—the feeling that life is somehow incomplete without a relationship. But here’s a deeper, more important question: Has romantic love become an idol? From a biblical…
Why Gen Z Singles Are So Lonely: Hope and Biblical Help for Christian Singles
If you’re a Gen Z Christian single scrolling through your feed late at night, feeling that familiar ache of loneliness even after a full day of church activities or small group, you’re not alone in feeling alone. Recent data shows 80% of Gen Z have felt lonely in the past year—far higher than any other generation. Being single itself is a top driver, especially for guys (31% of male Gen Z cite it directly). As a Christian navigating this hyper-connected…
How to Build Trust in a Christian Dating Relationship
Learning how to build trust in a Christian dating relationship can be challenging, especially when we consider the many values and principles that guide our lives. For Christians, one of the fundamental aspects of any relationship—be it friendship or dating—is trust. Trust is the bedrock of any healthy relationship, but how do you build it, especially in the delicate dance of Christian dating? Here’s a deep dive into cultivating trust in a Christian dating relationship with the opposite sex. 1.…
Why Gen Z Singles Are Unhappy in 2026: Unpacking the Modern Dating Crisis
In 2026, Gen Z singles are navigating a dating landscape unlike any generation before them. Born between 1997 and 2012, many members of Gen Z are now in their 20s and early 30s—prime years for forming romantic relationships. Yet, across major cities and suburban communities alike, countless Gen Z singles report growing dissatisfaction with their dating lives. From TikTok rants to Reddit threads and personal therapy sessions, there’s a rising chorus of loneliness and frustration. But what’s really going on?…
Masturbation and Christian Singles | Christians Who Masturbate
Let’s talk about Masturbation and Christian singles. The M-word and Christian singles. Masturbation and single Christians. Single Christians who masturbate. Male masturbation. Female masturbation. Adolescent masturbation. Chronic masturbation. Christian Singles and Masturbation. I think you get the picture. There are many Christian single guys who masturbate. There are many Single Christian girls who masturbate. Are you a single person who masturbates? masturbation and Christian singles Questions I have gotten hundreds of emails and many comments on our site from Single…
How to Find a Christian Wife
Ever wonder how to find a Christian wife? I would think many Christian single women in the market for a husband would be interested in knowing the number of Christian men hoping to find a Christian wife. Well, we are too, and that’s one reason why our up-and-coming singles survey will try to quantify the different numbers of Christian single men looking to find a Christian wife, those looking to simply find a date and those not seeking a mate…
Snapchat Dating for Christian Singles OK?
Snapchat dating for Christian singles? Platforms like Snapchat have become increasingly prevalent in how people connect, including in the realm of dating. For Christians, the decision to use such platforms for dating purposes involves careful consideration of faith, values, and the potential impact on relationships. This article delves into the nuances of using Snapchat for dating from a Christian perspective, exploring its benefits and challenges, and offering guidance on navigating this modern tool in alignment with Christian principles. Understanding Snapchat…
The Great Commission and Single Adults
In a previous article related to the Great Commission and single adults, we mentioned that single adults are one of the most unchurched groups of people. Although the Great Commission commands us to preach the gospel to every creature, million of singles are unreached and still living in spiritual darkness. Why is this? The sad but true story is that many churches and individual Christians do not take the great Commission seriously. For example, in his influential book, The Disciple-Making…
Reddit Dating Advice for Christian Singles: Pros and Cons
There is a ton of Reddit dating advice for Christian singles out there. But is it sound biblical advice? Navigating the modern dating world can be a complex and often confusing experience. For Christian singles who seek to honor God in their relationships, the challenges can be even more unique. With the surge of online platforms offering dating advice, many singles are turning to communities like Reddit to seek guidance. But is Reddit the right place for Christian singles to…
10 Romantic Homemade Gift Ideas for Christian Boyfriend
Looking for special romantic homemade gift ideas for your Christian boyfriend? Some folks may consider homemade romantic gifts “cheesy” and cheap. Not here. A homemade romantic gift, if well planned out and made, can speak volumes of love to the receiver of this gift. After all, it takes a decent amount of work to create a nice homemade romantic gift, whereas if you simply purchase a romantic gift from some store, not so much. In a world filled with chaos…
Latin Christian Singles in the USA and How to Meet Them
In recent years, the United States has witnessed a notable surge in the population of Latin Christian singles. This demographic shift is not just a testament to the growing diversity within the country but also highlights the vibrant faith community among Latin Americans. As more individuals seek partners who share their cultural and spiritual values, understanding the dynamics of this trend and exploring effective ways to meet Latin Christian singles becomes essential for fostering meaningful relationships. This article delves into…