How to know God's will for your life

How to Know God’s Will for Your Life as a Christian Single

Wondering how to know God’s will for your life? Being single provides both unique challenges and unparalleled opportunities to draw closer to God. As Christian singles navigate their personal journeys, they often wonder, “What is God’s will for my life?” Here’s a guide to help you discern His voice amidst the noise of daily life. 1. Prayer: The Direct Line to God Begin every decision-making process with prayer. James 1:5 says, “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask…
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Masturbation and Christian Singles | Christians Who Masturbate

Let’s talk about Masturbation and Christian singles. The M-word and Christian singles.  Masturbation and single Christians. Single Christians who masturbate.  Male masturbation. Female masturbation. Adolescent masturbation. Chronic masturbation. Christian Singles and Masturbation. I think you get the picture. There are many Christian single guys who masturbate. There are many Single Christian girls who masturbate. Are you a single person who masturbates? masturbation and Christian singles  Questions I have gotten hundreds of emails and many comments on our site from Single…
Praying for a Husband

Praying for a Husband: A Christian Single Girl’s Perspective

As a Christian single woman, the journey to finding a life partner can be filled with mixed emotions and uncertainties. In the midst of hopes and anxieties, prayer emerges as a powerful tool, a divine conversation that aligns our hearts with God’s will. This article explores how prayer can be an integral part of seeking a husband, from the perspective of a Christian single girl. Praying for a  Christian husband In the Christian faith, prayer is much more than a…
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Advantages of Being Single: From a Christian Single Perspective

There are a number of advantages of being single as a Christian single. For those of us living alone, we can sometimes forget. Also,  the constant barrage in the media communicates to single gals and single guys that they are somehow “missing out” because they are not hitched. In today’s society, where relationships are often seen as a marker of success, the Christian community, in particular, has unique insights into the value and benefits of being single. From fostering a…
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Alcohol Use Disorder Among Single Christians

This is a fact: Alcohol Use Disorder is much more prevalent among single people (across all age groups) than among those who are married. While single men are by far the largest demographic that uses and abuses alcohol, recent studies in the US and UK find alarming rises in alcohol use and abuse among single women. Alcohol abuse is a significant societal problem affecting multiple demographic groups, including Christian singles. Despite the public image of sobriety often associated with the…
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Making Peace with Your Past: A Christian’s Path Towards Spiritual Healing

Do you have an issue with making peace with your past? Many Christian singles can’t get over the past. Several years back, I went on a Christian singles retreat, where the topic at hand was making peace with my past. Christian single after Christian single shared their sad stories of how a bad past experience, a soured relationship, or a sexual sin had held them back from living victoriously in the present. Although many Christian singles there that weekend desired…
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Sexual Purity in the Bible and Christian Singles

That’s right we are going to talk about sexual purity in the Bible, the topic that everybody likes to avoid.  Sexual impurity ranges from lustful thoughts to actual acts of perverted behavior.  In today’s modern world, everywhere you look, there’s sex and very rarely is it between two married people.  If you turn on the TV, you see scantily clad women on MTV and HBO.  You can go to the supermarket to see magazines with half-naked models and articles about…
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Small Group Bible Studies for Christian Singles

Basically, small group bible studies for Christian singles are support groups or cell groups that include Bible study, but worship, prayer, encouragement, learning more about the Lord, and outreach to the community around them. Here at Oasis Singles we highly encourage Christian singles to hook into small group Bible studies.   For many Christian singles, the journey of faith is both personal and deeply communal. While personal devotions and corporate worship have their irreplaceable places in a believer’s life, there’s…
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Long Distance Relationship Tips for Christian Singles

Need long-distance Christian dating tips for a long-distance relationship?  These relationships have always been with us. However, in recent years, global online dating services and increased ease of travel helped make long-distance relationships much more prevalent. In fact, according to dating experts on the topic, there are an estimated 1 to 2 million couples presently in long-distance dating relationships. Many single men and single women feel dating in a long-distance relationship is a losing proposition. However, there are many dating…
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How to Build Trust in a Christian Dating Relationship

Learning how to build trust in a  Christian dating relationship can be challenging, especially when we consider the many values and principles that guide our lives. For Christians, one of the fundamental aspects of any relationship—be it friendship or dating—is trust. Trust is the bedrock of any healthy relationship, but how do you build it, especially in the delicate dance of Christian dating? Here’s a deep dive into cultivating trust in a Christian dating relationship with the opposite sex. 1.…

Child Support Payments and Christian Single Parents

Receiving child support payments is a major worry for Christian single parents, who often struggle to keep their kids well fed and clothed. It’s no wonder then that custodial single parents rank collecting child support payments ahead of concerns like dating . Of course, when it comes to child support payments, these single parents are not alone. Skirting Child Support Payments: A Worldwide Problem According to ACES (The Association for Children for Enforcement of Support) only half of US custodial…

Embracing Solo: The Joy of Being Christian Single and Loving It

In a world that often places great emphasis on romantic relationships, being a Christian single can sometimes be perceived as a temporary state or even a social stigma. However, the truth is that being single can be a fulfilling and liberating experience for many individuals. Rather than viewing singleness as a void to be filled, embracing the single life can lead to personal growth, self-discovery, and a profound sense of contentment. In this article, we celebrate the joys and advantages…
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Why Christian Single Men Need a Proverbs 31 Wife

Most Christian single men I know frequently whine about their need for a nice Christian wife. Who can blame men who feel this way? After all, in Proverbs 31:10, our Bible Verse of the Day, Solomon wrote: “A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.” Christian single men, whether they are college teens or single parents, would benefit by checking out this chapter of Scripture. In fact, any man would be in hog…
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Forgiveness and Dating Relationships

There is an amazing connection between forgiveness and healing in the Bible. Forgiveness has amazing benefits. Forgiveness can heal broken relationships, broken hearts and even bring health to one’s body. Only recently have secular psychologists and doctors begun speaking of the healing power of forgiveness in one’s life. That is exactly why it is  important to learn how to forgive someone who hurt you emotionally. The Forgiveness and Dating Relationships Problem Many Christian singles have problems with their health and…
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Is it a Sin to Have Sex Before Marriage?

Is it a sin to have sex before marriage? Is sex before marriage still a sin if you love each other? These two questions are some of the most asked questions I get at Oasis Singles. Sex sin is a huge issue for Christian singles. Why? The simple answer is that most singles struggle with some form of sex sin, or at least tempted in this particular area. Let’s lay aside masturbation for a moment. The question “Is it a…
How to get a Christian guy to ask you out

How to Get a Christian Guy to Ask You Out

Wondering how to get a Christian guy to ask you out? In the realm of Christian dating, the journey to a meaningful relationship is often paved with shared faith and values. For many Christian women, understanding how to encourage a Christian guy to ask them out is not just about romantic interest, but also about fostering a bond that resonates with their spiritual principles. This guide delves into the nuances of forming such connections, respecting the faith-based dynamics that are…