When God Doesn’t Make Sense as a Christian Single
When God doesn’t make sense to you because all your Christian single friends have met someone, but you have not, does your faith waver? As Christian singles, maybe it’s a Christian dating relationship that’s gone awry, or some other event in your life that’s got you thinking about “the why” of it all. Why did God allow this? What’s God’s plan? Where do I go from here? Navigating the treacherous waters of singleness can often leave one feeling like a…
How to Stop Worrying About Money: A Christian Single’s Guide
Are you a Single Christian wondering how to stop worrying about money? We don’t need an economic meltdown on Wall Street to start worrying about money and finances. In fact, according to our extensive surveys, singles worry just as much about money and careers as they do relationship and dating issues. Did you know that? So how do we counsel singles (single-never married, single parents, divorcees) who worry over money? The actual meaning of the word “worry in Greek actually…
Sexual Purity in the Bible and Christian Singles
That’s right we are going to talk about sexual purity in the Bible, the topic that everybody likes to avoid. Sexual impurity ranges from lustful thoughts to actual acts of perverted behavior. In today’s modern world, everywhere you look, there’s sex and very rarely is it between two married people. If you turn on the TV, you see scantily clad women on MTV and HBO. You can go to the supermarket to see magazines with half-naked models and articles about…
How to Get a Christian Guy to Ask You Out
Wondering how to get a Christian guy to ask you out? In the realm of Christian dating, the journey to a meaningful relationship is often paved with shared faith and values. For many Christian women, understanding how to encourage a Christian guy to ask them out is not just about romantic interest, but also about fostering a bond that resonates with their spiritual principles. This guide delves into the nuances of forming such connections, respecting the faith-based dynamics that are…
How to Forgive Someone Who Hurt You Emotionally
Learning how to forgive someone who hurt you emotionally is difficult. Have you ever felt the need to forgive your boyfriend or girlfriend? Learning how to forgive in a Christian dating relationship is essential because as Christian singles, God calls us to practice forgiveness if we ourselves wish to be forgiven. forgive the homo. In the world of Christian dating, emotional injuries can sometimes be as impactful as physical ones. Whether it’s betrayal, disappointment, or heartbreak, the scars left behind…
Alcohol Use Disorder Among Single Christians
This is a fact: Alcohol Use Disorder is much more prevalent among single people (across all age groups) than among those who are married. While single men are by far the largest demographic that uses and abuses alcohol, recent studies in the US and UK find alarming rises in alcohol use and abuse among single women. Alcohol abuse is a significant societal problem affecting multiple demographic groups, including Christian singles. Despite the public image of sobriety often associated with the…
Christian Lyrics: An Ode to Faith and Spirituality Through Music
Christian lyrics seem to be a hot search item for single Christians. And why shouldn’t they be? The word of God is full of Christian lyrics (see Psalms) and encourages us to uplift each other in the faith by singing and sharing Christian lyrics. Our Bible verse of the day states as much: ~Speak to one another with psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs. Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord~Ephesians 5:19 Christian lyrics have long been a…
Reaching Generation Z Singles for Jesus
As Generation Z Christian singles can tell you, the vast majority of other 20-something singles do not attend church. Paradoxically, Generations Z Singles as they are called today, are also one of the most receptive age groups to evangelize. How can both of these statements about Gen singles be true? The answer is that many Christian churches are simply missing huge opportunities by not communicating the Gospel to 20-something singles in ways that make sense to them. In fact, most…
Christian Dating and Waiting on God
What does the Bible say about waiting on God? More specifically, how to wait on the Lord for a husband or wife? One of the most difficult things for Christian singles interested in dating and marriage is waiting on the Lord for that special soulmate. This is especially true as we see our single friends meet their dream date, get married, and move on. Loneliness and anxiety start to creep in as we wonder when God will bless us. Although…
Unrequited Love: How to Get Over Unrequited Love as a Christian
How does one get over unrequited love? In my personal experience, unrequited love is like death, only worse. Unrequited love occurs when the person you absolutely are “head over heels” in love with does not reciprocate the same desire and feelings. Can you think of anything more emotionally and spiritually painful than unrequited love? At least in death a Christian single is done with pain. In unrequited love the pain just goes on and on. Sigh. If it’s really true…
Anger at Being Single-Dealing with Anger in Relationships
Do you have anger at being single? Many single women and men walk around with a lot of anger because they are still single long past the time they thought they would be married. Does being single at this time in your life make you angry? Target of Anger at being single One target of a single person’s anger is directed at God Himself because He has not brought that one true love into their lives. Frustration, jealousy, and discouragement…
Sweet Things to Say to a Christian Girl
Are you a single guy looking for sweet things to say to a Christian girl? What are sweet things to say to a girl you like? Many single guys, whether they are Christian or not, have true feelings of warmth deep inside their hearts. However, some not only have a difficult time thinking of sweet things to say to their girlfriends, they also get “tongue-tied” when trying to express them as well. Where’s Cyrano de Bergerac when we really need…
Child Support Payments and Christian Single Parents
Receiving child support payments is a major worry for Christian single parents, who often struggle to keep their kids well fed and clothed. It’s no wonder then that custodial single parents rank collecting child support payments ahead of concerns like dating . Of course, when it comes to child support payments, these single parents are not alone. Skirting Child Support Payments: A Worldwide Problem According to ACES (The Association for Children for Enforcement of Support) only half of US custodial…
How to Meet Christian Singles the Right Way: A Guide to Finding Love and Faith
Wondering how to meet Christian singles the right way without getting ghosted? Meeting Christian singles can be a meaningful and fulfilling experience, especially if you share the same values and beliefs. In a world where dating apps and casual encounters dominate the dating scene, finding a partner who shares your faith can be a challenge. However, with the right approach and a little guidance, you can connect with like-minded individuals who are also on the journey of faith and love.…
Lonely Christian Singles in Church
Everywhere I go I meet lonely Christian singles in local church. Of course, there are singles who do have contentment with living a single life. But I just feel it’s a shame that local Christian churches, for the most part, have forgotten singles and their specific needs. Loneliness is a universal human experience that knows no bounds, affecting people from all walks of life, including those who attend church regularly. For many, church is a place of solace, spirituality, and…