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Take a Leap of Faith

Oasis Church NJ — Fri, 13 Jan 2012 03:43:25 +0000

Are ready to take a leap of faith? In our LEAP series at Oasis, we are teaching how God wants us to take a leap of faith, trusting Him for amazing things in 2012. Now I realize many of the Christian singles and married folks reading this are already soured on 2012, and we’ve reverted into safe mode to ride the year out. Bit without taking a leap of faith, single Christians will never become all the God has created them to be, let alone be successful in finding that special dating relationship and soulmate. Look, God want you and me to live life to the full, go for the gusto, take risks.

Take a Leap of Faith Definition

What does it realy mean to take a leap of faith? It means getting out of our comfort zones, and taking a bold course of action without know for sure what the end results will be. This takes courage and a steadfast trust in God.

Love is Taking a Leap of Faith

Love is truly a leap of faith, and applying this “take a leap of faith” mentality to Christian dating can be challenging for many. The opposite of taking a leap of faith is allowing fears to rule. Many single men and women who remain single because they fear taking risks. Are you ome of those? If you are you will benefit by listent to our podcast of the week

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spite of the fact that this action is forcing us out of our familiar territory, and our comfort zones. It also means taking action even though we cannot foresee the results or consequences of our choice. To do this requires both faith and courage!

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Christian Single Parent Support

Oasis Church NJ — Mon, 02 Jan 2012 04:01:32 +0000

Single parent support is so necessary for Christian single parents. Why? Christian single parenting is one of the hardest jobs around. It’s hard enough being a parent in a household where mom and dad are together. A single parent also has to to balance, work, money worries, school, housing, etc. Forget about single parent dating. Being a single parent multiplies the stress in the whole household. Often times, what occurs is that the single parenting mother or father ends up neglecting their own health, and this in turn has a negative impact on the whole family.

Single Parent Support Podcast

If you are a Christian single parent looking for support for all your burdens, perhaps ther following single parenting support podcast will help.

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Christian Single Career Women

Oasis Church NJ — Sun, 18 Dec 2011 06:44:14 +0000

Single career women make up 30% of the US labor force. If you are a Christian single girl and one of those single career women out there, you probably know well the pressures that go along with a single woman in the workforce.

Single Career Women Trap

Many successful single career women have succumbed to this trap: You go to college, and after graduation your main goal was to work up the proverbial ladder of success. Maybe you became a successful businesswoman, doctor or lawyer. But now as you enter 30-somethings or 40-somethings status, your heart turns toward that special dating relationship you put on hold all these years, and all of a sudden this becomes your priority. Here’s the kicker, what you thought would be an easy proposition (Ie: finding that Christian soulmate when the time was right) now looks to you as an improbability. in fact many single Christian career women I know lament that their time for romance and marriage may have passed them by as they were working on their careers. Some of the reasons single career women give for this are as follows:

Top Reasons Single Career Women Reasons Find Romance Difficult

The Dating Prospects Lessen as You Age
Not Knowing Where to Go to Meet a Date
Inability to Balance Work and Romance

Are you a single Christian career woman who can identify with the above? In today’s Christian podcast, Lead Pastor Dave Butler of Oasis Church shares a relevant talk on how our jobs can destroy our dating relationships. Oasis is meets Sundays 11am at 1180 Spruce Dr in Mountainside, NJ.

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Christian Dating Advice for Women

Oasis Church NJ — Sun, 27 Nov 2011 03:04:31 +0000

Are you a Christian single looking for some Christian dating advice for women? Did you know that 66% of the tens of thousands of visitors to this site each week are women looking for Christian dating advice? Therefore, I got the idea that I should put together all of our top Christian dating relationship advice for women articles, and put them right here. I really hope these online dating advice for women articles answer some of your questions.

Top Christian Dating Advice for Women Resources

Christian dating advice for women wondering whether they are in an abusive dating relationship

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Christian dating advice for women wondering if they are in love or lust

Christian dating advice for women wondering if they are dating a pathological liar

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Third Date Tips for Christian Singles

Oasis Church NJ — Sun, 20 Nov 2011 07:01:30 +0000

The third date will make or break whether your Christian dating relationship will be long term or short lived. I know. I know. As a Christian single you may be still working on getting that first date or second date. But today we are going to share some third date tips. The first date and and the second date are inextricably connected to the third date because if the the former ones go badly, your chances of a third date are between slim and none. Okay, but say you “aced” the first date and second and your Christian dating partner gives you the cue that they would be open to a 3rd date. Now what? Well that’s what this article is all about. The following third date advice advice might help you to survive what daters call the second date curse, and make it to a third date.

Third Date Tips-Three Things You Should Do

Be Ready with Conversation

I cannot overemphasize this enough. If you both clicked in the first date, you know doubt spent some quality time getting to know one another ingreat conversation. The key to a great second date is remembering what he or she told you previously and continuing the convo on those topics. Not only will you impress your date that you remembered everything they told you, but you will find it east to start the conversation.

Be Ready with Things to Do

This is especially true for Christian single guys, because most single Christian gals like a guy who is in control, or at least acts like he is. So be ready with a fun, enjoyable activity where there will also be ample tine for sharing your heart. Which brings ius to our next point.

Be Ready to Define the Relationship

Understand that by the third date, your partner(especially the single gal) will be probably be wondering what hte future holds. Having a DTR, a Defining the Relationship discussion is right thing to do at this time because it lets the other party know where they stand, and whether or not they are wasting their time

Over all, our third date advice is to take it slow and finally in the words of Peter “go one step at a time.” II Peter 1:6-7, TLB.

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Christian Singles Activities and where to Find Them

Oasis Church NJ — Sat, 12 Nov 2011 02:59:29 +0000

Sadly, most churches do not have Christian singles activities for the single Christians. The result has been manu seeking Christian singles activities often search from church to church looking for something to do during the week or on weekends. However,looking for single Christian activities and events could be both time consuming and frustrating. That’s why we put together the following Christian singles meeting place ideas for thos looking for

Christian Singles Activities Tips

First, since local search results is more important to Google and Yahoo than ever, do a local church search for singles events or Christian singles groups, and see what pops up in your search to find singles in your local area. Although not many church as we have said offer them, this new local search capability in Google and Yahoo, allows for a more thorough

Second, since we began this singles blog over 5 years ago, MeetUp.com has become a quite popular place for sibgkes to put up Chrisitan singles activites such as dances, Bible studies, singles trips and the like. When you go to the site simply put in your location and the key phrase you are looking for (Christian singles activities), and see what is offered in your area. If you don’t see any singles activities listed, why not begin a singles MeetUp yourself? I know several single Christian girls who did just that and enjoyed great success in meeting other Christian singles

Finally, let’s face it. Most Christian singles are looking for Christian singles activities in order to find a date in their local area. With that being the case, have you ever considered using one of the top online Christian dating services such as eHarmony or Christian Mingle? With 25% of singles fining their soulmates through online dating sites, don’t you htink it’s worth a try?

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How to Save a Relationship

Oasis Church NJ — Tue, 08 Nov 2011 04:22:59 +0000

Boy, wouldn’t we all want to know how to save a relationship? Especially if it’s your own or a loved one? Many Christian singles walk around heart broken over relationships that have ended, sad that they were not able to save their dating relationships.

How to Save a Relationship Podcast

In today’s church podcast, Pastor Dave Butler, of Oasis-Church-NJ.com, shares a practical message from the book of James on advice he give on how to save a relationship. Do you have comments you would like to share on how to save a dating relationship? How about how to save a marriage relationship? Share it here.

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Relationship Communication Problems

Oasis Church NJ — Mon, 24 Oct 2011 03:38:33 +0000

Relationship communication problems? Many single Christians have relationship communication problems for a variety of reasons. Some Christian singles simply lack confidence with dating. Others have relationship comunication problems because they do not know how to deal with conflict and arguing and fighting

Relationship Communication Problems

If you have issues getting along with your Christian dating partner or mate, the below relationship communication problems podcast from Oasis Church may help. Based on the book of James, the discussion venters around the cause, consequences and cure for relationship communication problems in your dating life.

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Single Hood and Discouragement Podcast

Oasis Church NJ — Wed, 12 Oct 2011 21:59:47 +0000

No one said single hood is easy. But you know what? Being married has its own drawbacks as well. I know many Christian singles who prefer single hood, and some who feel that they will never really “feel happy” unless they settle down and get married. My advice for the latter is to live in present present and trust God for a unique vision in your life that brings you deeper purpose

Single Hood Advice

The following single hood podcast covers the area of discouragement.While this Christian singles site has offered past single hood advice on how to overcome depression and discouragement in singlehood, the following podcast from Oasis-Church-NJ.com may help folks who have a vision to be married, but are facing opposition and discouragement fulfilling the dream.

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Dating Plan-Christian Dating Plans

Oasis Church NJ — Thu, 06 Oct 2011 02:46:31 +0000

Are you a Christian single with a dating plan? If God has burdened your heart with a vision to find a Christian soulmate, you need to have a dating action plan to help bring it to fruition. After all, as we learn in today’s Christian podcast, a vision without a plan is like a ship without a rudder. For example, Nehemiah not only had a vision from God to rebuild Jerusalem’s city walls, he also had a plan ready to execute that vision. Although not about dating, we can apply the principle when it comes to Christian dating

Christian Dating Action Plan

So you are a marriage minded single Christian? Do you have a vision that includes meeting that special someone within 3 years? So what’s your dating plan? Does your plan include using an online dating service like eHarmony? Or maybe joining a Christian singles group at your local church? Remember, taking that first faith filled action step is the most important part of executing a dating plan.

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