Posts from 2024
How to Deal with Dating Anxiety as Christian Singles
Ah, dating anxiety! The glorious adventure of finding that special someone who makes your heart sing and your palms sweat. If you’re a Christian single, the journey of dealing with dating anxiety can feel like navigating a minefield of emotions, expectations, and well-meaning advice from Aunt Gertrude. But fear not! We’re here to tackle dating anxiety with a big dose of humor and a sprinkle of faith. So, grab your favorite cozy blanket and let’s dive into the wonderfully awkward…
Red Flags in a Christian Dating Relationship
Knowing the top red flags in a Christian dating relationship is important, The problem is that many Christian singles ignore the silent red flags in a relationship and so stay longer than they should have. The top three reasons daters give for overstaying a romantic or dating relationship are as follows: Fear of being alone Fear and/or guilt over what the other person will feel or do Fear of exchanging the familiar for the unknown Let’s face it, dating relationships…
Do Not Be Unequally Yoked Meaning in Christian Dating
The term ” do not be unequally yoked” might sound archaic to those not familiar with its origins, but it’s still relevant, particularly within the context of Christian dating. Stemming from the Bible, specifically 2 Corinthians 6:14, the phrase reads: “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?”. In contemporary language, this relates to forming partnerships with those who don’t share the same faith and values. We…
10 Tips On How to Make Someone Fall in Love with You
So, you’ve got your eye on that special someone at church, and you’re wondering how to make them fall in love with you. As a Christian single, you’ve got some divine tricks up your sleeve, along with a good sense of humor. Let’s dive into this holy quest with grace, love, and a few laughs along the way. top 10 tips on how to make someone fall in love with you Step 1: Pray Like You Mean It First things…
How to Say Prayers for Your Future Husband: A Christian Single’s Guide
Do you ever wonder how to say prayers for your future husband? single in the Christian world can sometimes feel like you’re navigating a labyrinth with no clear end in sight. But fear not, dear reader! While you’re waiting for your Prince Charming to sweep you off your feet, there’s something powerful you can do: pray for your future husband. Yes, you heard that right! Praying for the man you have yet to meet is not only a proactive step…
Can You Be Friends with Your Ex?
Can you be friends with your Christian ex-boyfriend or girlfriend? We’ve all been there—standing awkwardly at a mutual friend’s party, or one of the Christian singles groups you attend, pretending you don’t see your ex across the room, while silently praying for divine intervention (or at least a distraction). Ah, the classic post-breakup dilemma: can you really be friends with your ex? As a single Christian wading through the choppy waters of love and friendship, this question is both personal…
4 Things Christian Singles Need to Remember About the 2024 Presidential Election
Ah, election season. It’s a time of high stakes, passionate debates, and the occasional urge to yell at your TV screen. But here are 4 Things Christian Singles Need to Remember About the 2024 Presidential Election. And no, it’s not just about picking the right candidate, but also about maintaining your faith and possibly even meeting that special someone along the way. Let’s dive in with warmth, a sprinkle of humor, and a whole lot of heart. 1. The Real…
Eating Disorders: Is Eating Too Much a Sin?
Eating disorders and gluttony. Is eating to much a sin? Let’s talk about it from a Christian singles perspective. Now, don’t worry, this isn’t going to be a lecture. We’re going to tackle this with humor, warmth, and a whole lot of heart. So grab your favorite (healthy!) snack and let’s get started. Is Gluttony Really a Sin? First things first: Is gluttony a sin? Well, in the Christian tradition, the answer is a resounding yes. The Bible doesn’t mince…
Why Keep Praying When There is No Answer? A Christian Single’s Perspective
Do you ever ask yourself: “Why keep praying when there is no answer?” Learning how to deal with unanswered prayer as a single Christian can be daunting. The journey of prayer can often feel like a pathway strewn with questions and uncertainties. The plea for a life partner is a heartfelt one, shared by many, yet sometimes it seems met with silence. So, why continue to pray when the heavens seem quiet? Here’s an exploration grounded in Scripture, faith, and…
Fighting Temptation as a Christian Single
A significant part of the Christian single life consists of fighting temptation. When we think of fighting temptation as a single Christian, many of us think of battling sexual impurity. But fighting temptation as single Christians is not just about sexual matters like masturbation Being single and Christian in the modern world is an exhilarating journey, characterized by unique challenges, personal growth, and rewarding experiences. At the center of this journey lies a common thread for many Christian singles: the…
Feeling Like a Loser as a Single Person?
I must confess I have days when I’m feeling like a loser. We all have those days when we feel like we’re stuck in the loser zone, especially when we’re navigating the world solo. As a single Christian, it’s easy to feel like everyone else has it together while we’re just trying to figure things out. But guess what? You’re not alone in this, and you’re certainly not a loser. Let’s dive into some biblical wisdom and practical tips to…
How to Let Go of Past Relationship Trauma
How one is able to let go of past relationship trauma is a great predictor of future success in other relationships. Many Christian singles I know are in bondage to past hurts on account of cheating, disappointments, secret sins and relationship breakups.. Under the weight The emotional relationship baggage of the past, How To Deal With Past Toxic Relationships When we go through a painful breakup or toxic Christian dating relationship, it can leave deep emotional scars and anger. Dwelling…
Dating Someone with ADHD: A Roller Coaster Ride
Christian Dating is a wild adventure on its own, but dating someone with ADHD is a full-fledged roller coaster ride. While it comes with its own unique set of challenges, it’s also sprinkled with spontaneity, creativity, and lots of love. Here are the top five challenges of dating someone with ADHD and some encouraging Bible verses to help you navigate this journey with grace and humor. 1. The Endless Forgetfulness Challenge: Imagine this: You’ve planned a romantic date night,…
How to Stop Masturbating: A Christian Singles Perspective
Wondering how to stop masturbating? In a world where the conversation around sexual purity and personal habits is often challenging to navigate, single Christians seeking to honor their faith while grappling with the natural tendencies of human sexuality can find themselves at a crossroads. Masturbation, a subject shrouded in taboo and often guilt, becomes a pivotal point of internal conflict. This article aims to shed light on how single Christians can approach the topic of masturbation with grace, understanding, and…
What Makes Christian Women or Men Attractive Physically?
What makes Christian women and men attractive physically? Do you know the signs of physical attraction? Experts tell us that there are certain signs of physical attraction that give away when a girl likes a guy, or when a dude is attracted to girl. In fact, if you were to go and Google “signs of physical attraction”, you would find a whole boatload of relationship advice on how to tell when there is a spark. In today’s fast-paced and image-driven…
Low Self-Esteem in Christian Singles
Low self-esteem in Christian singles is keeping them from finding a serious dating relationship. It’s really simple: If you don’t feel really good about yourself, you’re not going to think anyone else will either. Sadly, problems with low self-esteem can not only affect our dating relationships but all other areas of our life, including our emotional health. Single men and women with low self-esteem suffer more depression and discouragement, loneliness, and anxiety in their lives than other people. These negative emotions…