Posts from 2024

A lot of singles write me wondering how to deal with sadness. I understand. It doesn’t always feel comforting when you’re alone on a Saturday night with nothing but a tub of ice cream and your thoughts. And when the holiday season rolls around? Oh boy, bring on the awkward family gatherings and unsolicited questions about your love life. But here’s the good news: sadness is not your permanent roommate. With a little faith, humor, and practical action, you can…

For many, Christmas is a season of joy and family gatherings. However, being alone at Christmas this time of year can often amplify Christmas Blues feelings  loneliness and isolation, especially when family or a significant other is not present. Yet, this season also presents an opportunity for spiritual growth and personal reflection. This article explores the challenges of being alone during Christmas and offers heartfelt, scripture-based advice on how to find peace and joy during this time. Understanding the Challenges…

Ah, relationships. The beautiful, messy, and sometimes utterly bewildering dance of love. Whether you’re single, dating, or just trying to figure out if “God’s timing” means this year or next decade, the Bible has a lot to say about love, relationships, and navigating those butterflies in your stomach. Let’s dive into the Word, because—spoiler alert—God is the ultimate matchmaker, and He has some pretty solid advice! Bible Verses about Relationships with Boyfriend or Girlfriend 1. The Foundation: Love is Patient…

Dating is exciting—full of possibility, growth, and laughter. But let’s be real: sometimes, relationships feel less like teamwork and more like running a solo marathon. If you’re a Christian single seeking a partnership that glorifies God, the stakes are even higher. So how do you know if you’re walking the dating road alone? Let’s break it down with a little humor, practical wisdom, and biblical truth. Here are 10 signs your relationship might be one-sided—and what you can do about…

Wondering how to prioritize tasks and your life? Being a single Christian in today’s fast-paced world is no walk in the park. Between juggling work, church commitments, relationships, and the occasional Netflix binge, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. But don’t worry! With a little humor, a dash of faith, and a lot of practical wisdom, you can master the art of prioritizing tasks while staying grounded in God’s plan for your life. Let’s dive in! How to Prioritize Tasks 1.…

Let’s face it, love is complicated enough without adding attachment theory into the mix. But when you find yourself head over heels for someone with a dismissive-avoidant attachment style—and they’re also a devoted Christian—you’re entering a unique adventure. Don’t worry, you’ve got God on your side (and me, your trusty cheerleader). Here’s how to navigate this path with humor, patience, and a sprinkle of divine grace What is Dismissive-Avoidant Attachment? For the uninitiated, dismissive-avoidant attachment is like the emotional equivalent…

Being a Christian single trying to discern God’s voice can feel like trying to hear a whisper in a rock concert. Between the noise of everyday life, unsolicited advice from well-meaning friends, and your own inner doubts, tuning into God’s voice may seem like an impossible task. But fear not! This warm (and slightly humorous) guide is here to help. Why Hearing from God is Crucial Let’s face it: life is already full of choices—do you want oat milk or…

Not including the large level  of support of support for Luigi Mangione, the suspected shooter of  UnitedHealthcare’s CEO. in recent years, the rise of protests against corporate America has seen significant support from college students, particularly singles. This demographic, characterized by its dynamic energy and forward-thinking ideals, is uniquely positioned at the intersection of societal awareness and personal growth. By examining the underlying motivations behind this support, we can uncover the values and aspirations that fuel their advocacy. 1. Economic…

The question of “how long should Christian couples date before getting engaged?” is one that sparks plenty of debate. Some might say, “As long as it takes to learn their favorite pizza topping,” while others might suggest a timeline that feels more like the gestation period of an elephant. Here’s the truth: there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. Every relationship is unique, but there are some principles, milestones, and, yes, laughable moments to consider. Let’s dive into this topic with warmth, wisdom,…

Financial independence is a goal that resonates deeply with many, including Gen Z Christian singles navigating today’s complex economic landscape. It’s a pursuit of freedom—freedom from financial stress, from reliance on others, and from the burden of debt. Yet, as followers of Christ, we are reminded that financial wealth is not the ultimate measure of our lives. It is God who grants us the ability to accumulate wealth (Deuteronomy 8:18), and with that blessing comes the responsibility of stewardship. As…

So, you’re a single Christian guy looking to dive into the world of dating, huh? Let me start by saying: Godspeed, my brother. Finding love in the era of dating apps, text abbreviations, and coffee dates where “Netflix and chill” is considered a personality trait can be…let’s call it, “character building.” But fear not! With a bit of faith, humor, and some handy tips, you’ll be on your way to navigating the dating world like a pro—or at least without…

Looking for self-care ideas for Christian singles?  Being single during the holidays can feel like you’re the odd ornament on an otherwise perfectly curated tree. But guess what? You’re not alone. (Literally, Jesus is always with you. Can I get an amen?) ? Whether you’re navigating Christmas as a solo flier or dodging mistletoe like it’s a dodgeball tournament, there’s one thing you can absolutely own this season: self-care. So, grab your peppermint mocha, cozy up in that onesie, and…

Marriage is one of the most sacred institutions designed by God, symbolizing the union between Christ and the Church. As Christian singles, it’s natural to desire a spouse who aligns with your values and deepens your walk with God. However, navigating singleness with a Christ-centered focus can be challenging in today’s world. Whether you’re waiting, dating, or considering engagement, this guide provides marriage advice tailored to Christian singles seeking to honor God in their relationships. 1. Embrace Singleness as a Season…